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Women - What are you feelings about "giving away the milk for free".

Superfly said:
I am answering the question truthfully, my horny friend. You are coming across that she owes this to you, and she doesn't. If you want a random hookup, go find a hooker.

When she's ready, you'll know.
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ANSWER

THE

QUESTION

In the situation I described. Your both single. You've known the guy for months. You're alone. You haven't had sex for months, possibly years.

WOULD

YOU

JUMP

HIS

BONES?
 
Praxas said:
Not at all, I have a great healthy outlook of intimacy and am quite able to communicate my feelings to a woman. After my divorce, I dated several women until I met my future wife and if they chose not to be intimate sexually after a few dates than so be it and I eventually moved on after about the 7th date or so. Some women are not looking to "date" and sleep around, some women are looking for permanent relationships and realize there are some men are pigs and will only use them for sex. I would wager big money she was seeing if you just wanted her for sex and now you have proven her right.
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Right? If he made a big deal about it, this woman is probably sitting at home thinking, "Geez Louise, did I dodge a bullet with this guy."
 
lurchadams said:
God dammit, Gov! in my scenario, you're both single. Now I know you're just ****ing with me and you know I'm right about this woman.

I'm disappointed in the women here. They're doing nothing but attacking me and being intellectually dishonest. Not a good look for you guys at all.
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Wow...

Going off the deep end on this one.

You didn't get your dipstick wet.

It sucks.

Been there.

But lashing out isn't the answer.
 
lurchadams said:
God dammit, Gov! in my scenario, you're both single. Now I know you're just ****ing with me and you know I'm right about this woman.
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If anything you've convinced me that you are 100% in the wrong in this situation, and this woman probably dodged a bullet. I'm dissapointed in you.

I'm disappointed in the women here. They're doing nothing but attacking me and being intellectually dishonest. Not a good look for you guys at all.
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Take a look in the mirror, buddy.
 
lurchadams said:
God dammit, Gov! in my scenario, you're both single. Now I know you're just ****ing with me and you know I'm right about this woman.

I'm disappointed in the women here. They're doing nothing but attacking me and being intellectually dishonest. Not a good look for you guys at all.
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Seems blaming women is a pattern here, bud. Just saying, not judging. This might require a little self reflection.
 
TheGoverness said:
You are being gross. I don't have to know the woman, to realize that your mindset here is pretty bad and backwards. Your own words make that very clear. I'd suggest stop digging the hole while you can.
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Dodge.
 
lurchadams said:
ANSWER

THE

QUESTION

In the situation I described. Your both single. You've known the guy for months. You're alone. You haven't had sex for months, possibly years.

WOULD

YOU

JUMP

HIS

BONES?
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No. I thought I made that very, very clear. The Guv did as well, but you are saying we aren't, simply because we aren't answering the question the way you want it answered.

I would NOT jump a guy's bones if I hadn't had sex for months. That's what a battery operated boyfriend is for.
 
lurchadams said:
ANSWER

THE

QUESTION

In the situation I described. Your both single. You've known the guy for months. You're alone. You haven't had sex for months, possibly years.

WOULD

YOU

JUMP

HIS

BONES?
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Dude, relax. Go jerk off or something. Pour a bucket of water over your head. This is not a healthy place to vent your frustrations. Find something to cool you down.
 
lurchadams said:
I'm being honest. Again, Harsh. This is 2019. Life can be fun if you'll let it be.
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I dunno, saying there's something wrong with a woman -- and that she needs therapy -- because she doesn't want to have sex with you seems more 1950s to me.
 
lurchadams said:
ANSWER

THE

QUESTION

In the situation I described. Your both single. You've known the guy for months. You're alone. You haven't had sex for months, possibly years.

WOULD

YOU

JUMP

HIS

BONES?
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Read this:

Fledermaus said:
Not everyone is a "sexual creature". Many for varied reasons are not.

If she is not ready she is not ready.
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Lurch, you have to understand you can ask 100 women and get 100 different answers because we are all different.

Yes, I'd jump some bones but that doesn't mean the woman next to me would do the same. :shrug:
 
VanceMack said:
You should maybe reread your post and if you still think SHE is the one that has the problem, maybe you are on the wrong sites.

Some people actually believe...still...that sex is an 'ultimate' act of intimacy and not something that one does as a matter of course because AFTER ALL...you've had 3 whole dates. Maybe you should just make your intentions known upfront. "Im looking for a ****buddy. 1 or 2 dates...OK...I'll let it slide. I'd prefer at least a handjob if Im payin for dinner and a movie, but thats just me. But if you aint givin it up by the third date, there must be something wrong with you." Who knows...maybe that kind of up front advertisement will connect you with the people you are looking for.
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It's 2019. She's known me for 3 months. She knows pretty much everything about me. What an ugly response from you. I'm very disappointed.
 
Superfly said:
No. I thought I made that very, very clear. The Guv did as well, but you are saying we aren't, simply because we aren't answering the question the way you want it answered.

I would NOT jump a guy's bones if I hadn't had sex for months. That's what a battery operated boyfriend is for.
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He just wants us to confirm his own frustrations, because he's in a red-eyed tizzy right now. I will not.
 
Superfly said:
OK, bud. Sit down and listen. I've told you this before, but it didn't stick.

Women are different from men. We see things differently. We do things differently.

We also have battery operated boyfriends that take care of things for us, so we don't automatically jump into bed with guys when we go out with them. We also don't shave our legs before a date, just to make sure that we don't jump into things we aren't ready for. Are women horny? Yes, of course they are. But they (at least in our age range) think twice before bed-flopping with someone they barely know.

Physical relationships are on a higher plane than just regular relationships, and if she's not ready to go there, all the pushing in the world won't get her there. All it will do is push her away.
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IN

THIS

SCENARIO

I

DESCRIBED

WOULD

YOU

SLEEP

WITH

THE

GUY.

You guys are just so angry with me you obviously can't think straight. I'm sorry I upset you so, Superfly.
 
TheGoverness said:
He just wants us to confirm his own frustrations, because he's in a red-eyed tizzy right now. I will not.
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Maybe he needs to grab the Kleenex and the Jergens and go rub one off before he comes back looking like more of an asshole than he already is. :shrug:
 
lurchadams said:
IN

THIS

SCENARIO

I

DESCRIBED

WOULD

YOU

SLEEP

WITH

THE

GUY.

You guys are just so angry with me you obviously can't think straight. I'm sorry I upset you so, Superfly.
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Dude. I answered this for you already.

No. I would not sleep with the guy. No. I can't make that any more clear.
 
Fledermaus said:
Not everyone is a "sexual creature". Many for varied reasons are not.

If she is not ready she is not ready.
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And with that, I absolutely agree. That's why I'm moving on from her. We're obviously NOT compatible. Thanks for your support.
 
lurchadams said:
It's 2019. She's known me for 3 months. She knows pretty much everything about me. What an ugly response from you. I'm very disappointed.
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I have friends who didn't wait at all to have sex with their boyfriend's, and I have friends who've waited more than a year. Not every girl is the same, and you need to respect that. Your whiny bitchfest is not going to help you get laid.
 
lurchadams said:
I'm 58 years old. I had a date Saturday night with a 53 year-old woman I've been communicating with for several months. Saturday was our third date - I took her to see, "Bohemian Rhapsody" at a movie theater that serves you drinks and dinner during the movie. It was pretty cool. But I just went off on a tangent.

So we get back to her place. She tells me her 2 kids that live with her are staying at a hotel overnight and would I like to come in. So I assumed at that point - her telling me her kids were gone - inviting me in - the fact it was our third date - I assumed she was inviting me in to spend the night.

So we're on her couch, we're talking for a bit, then I start to kiss her. She pulls back. I ask her how long it's been since she's been with someone. She tells me a very long time. I tell her not to worry, I'll take care of everything, then I gently take her hands and try to get her started towards her bedroom. She pulls back again and says, "No, I'm NOT READY!". I ask her, gently why she thinks that is. She tells me she "doesn't know me well enough". This woman and I have been talking for months. She knows my family - where I went to school. She knows who my friends are. We're facebook friends. In my opinion this woman knows me better than most women do when they first decide they want to have sex with a guy.

So the "not knowing me well enough" excuse was bull****.

I don't understand why this chick is even on a dating site if she has such a puritanical and unhealthy outlook on sex. She needs to get off the dating site and get into therapy for her anxiety about human intimacy in my opinion or her cycle of being disappointed and disappointing men is going to continue.

So my question is to the ladies:

It's been possibly years since you've been intimate with a guy. You're sitting on a couch with a guy you're obviously interested in. He wants to sleep with you. What in the world was this girl thinking? Why the **** is she even on a dating site?

Thanks.
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She's just not that into you.
 
Fledermaus said:
Wow...

Going off the deep end on this one.

You didn't get your dipstick wet.

It sucks.

Been there.

But lashing out isn't the answer.
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I am not lashing out. I'm just pointing out the women here are doing nothing but attacking me and dodging the question. Sorry if you disagree, my friend. You have the right not to read my posts any longer - I'm just sayin'.
 
lurchadams said:
IN

THIS

SCENARIO

I

DESCRIBED

WOULD

YOU

SLEEP

WITH

THE

GUY.

You guys are just so angry with me you obviously can't think straight. I'm sorry I upset you so, Superfly.
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Boy, those wimmins are all balls of crazy, ain't they? :roll:
 
TheGoverness said:
If anything you've convinced me that you are 100% in the wrong in this situation, and this woman probably dodged a bullet. I'm dissapointed in you.



Take a look in the mirror, buddy.
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IN

THIS

SCENARIO

WOULD

YOU

SLEEP

WITH

THE

GIRL?

I won't ask again, Gov. You and I obviously both know the answer.

I've very sorry I upset you again, Princess. I hope you have a great week!
 
lurchadams said:
It's 2019. She's known me for 3 months. She knows pretty much everything about me. What an ugly response from you. I'm very disappointed.
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You shame a woman for not being a slut after 3 whole dates, but find MY response 'ugly'.

Yep...thats at least consistent.
 
OlNate said:
Seems blaming women is a pattern here, bud. Just saying, not judging. This might require a little self reflection.
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I will give that some serious thought, sir. Thank you for your advice.
 
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