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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

    Quote Originally Posted by Renae View Post
    So, I have been on a bowling team, since I didn't know the people "he" went, it's not easy and I didnt' like it but he bowled. They were told I was trans, but I let the league get used to me. Finally I said Renae would be bowling. AFTER I LEFT, the team said they were not going to bowl with me on the team.

    I got the call after I got home.

    I am so, so hurt right now.
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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

    If everything about this story is true

    -its a mixed league
    -they were told from day one
    -they had you removed from the team after you said you would be bowling as a she
    -they are in violation of anti-discrimination rules of the US Bowling Congress

    then these are the facts
    - those that got off the team for being transgender are bigots
    - those that got you off the team for being transgender are discriminating against you
    - by definition it is hate
    - turning them in for their violations is your choice, its just and if you do its of their own making
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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

    Quote Originally Posted by Casado View Post
    1.)Back to the title here: you did not face hate.
    2.) Just because someone does not agree with your lifestyle or life choices, does not mean they hate you!
    3.) I do not agree with transgenders.... I happen to believe it is a mental illness. (here come the haters!)
    4.) Do I hate you? No.
    5.) Would I treat you civilly? Yes.
    6.) Would I be uncomfortable around you? Yes.
    7.) But that does not mean hate.
    1.) the dictionary disagrees with you and proves you wrong. By definition Renae did face hate
    2.) who said that?
    3.) then you have bigoted views and severely uneducated about the topic because science disagrees with you and proves you wrong
    4.) who said "you" hate ranae?
    5.) thats good but by definition you still have uneducated bigoted views
    6.) thats YOUR issue to deal with and per the rules of this bowling league if you played on it, it would be YOU that has to choose not to play
    7.) again who said THAT is hate

    it seems you are very uneducated bout this topic and made up a lot of strawmen nobody said. maybe clarify yourself.
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    Re: Well, I finally faced hate. A personal story.

    Quote Originally Posted by Renae View Post
    So, I have been on a bowling team, since I didn't know the people "he" went, it's not easy and I didnt' like it but he bowled. They were told I was trans, but I let the league get used to me. Finally I said Renae would be bowling. AFTER I LEFT, the team said they were not going to bowl with me on the team.

    I got the call after I got home.

    I am so, so hurt right now.
    This sucks

    Hopefully you'll find a new bowling team that actually deserves you.
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