Fairly simple question with what I imagine is a very complex answer.
What determines if a person is a male or female?
Genetics/genetalia?
Behavior?
Clothing?
Specifically I am curious as to why a person who identifies as a gender other than what they were born as feels as if they aren't their birth gender? I am far less interested in hearing from trans bashing bigots but I am sure they will come in anyhow.
Why can't a person simply be a male and act/dress/behave how they want, and be attracted to who they'd like without needing to be called a woman. Or vice versa.
I am asking out of ignorance and curiosity. This is not an attempt to belittle or demean anyone. I am hoping to gain a better understanding.
Assuming one is biologically/anatomically 'normal', gender is determined by genetics/genitalia. This is a complex and complicated subject; research is ongoing, and no one can predict what the future will bring. But at this point in time, medical science only recognizes two genders: male and female. If one identifies or 'feels' they are the opposite gender than what their physiology reveals, the problem is their brain, not their gender.
<<Why can't a person simply be a male and act/dress/behave how they want, and be attracted to who they'd like without needing to be called a woman. Or vice versa.>>
Interesting questions, but you're conflating gender identity with sexual orientation. They are completely separate, in spite of the practice in recent years of mixing them up, as evidenced by the acronym "LGBT".
It's been fascinating, and more than a bit dizzying, to observe the evolution of opinion on this subject over the last fifty years. I'm 65, and when I was a kid, a girl who liked to rough-house, dress in jeans, etc. was called a "tomboy", while a boy who was sensitive, liked to read, cook, etc. was often made fun of and called a 'sissy'. Then, largely as a result of the feminist movement in the Seventies, these stereotyped gender roles were reconsidered, and it was decided that those of both genders should be allowed to be who and what they were free of preconceived notions of what a proper boy or girl should look or act like.
But the thinking today seems to be that what Arnold Schwarzenegger once called a 'girly man' maybe isn't really a man at all, but a transgendered woman. It seems very confusing.
Whatever the ultimate outcome of the research I alluded to earlier, it's something that needs to be determined by medical science, NOT gay/transgender rights activists.