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Men getting aroused by giving women money for nothing?

ecofarm said:
Approaching, I should say targeting, young people is about power. There are plenty of equal power people, or one could self gratify. Targeting the young, the drastically under- educated, experienced, financially stable, emotionally mature, option having people is about power and nothing else. It's basically someone in a position of authority abusing power.

Is that clear enough?
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I completely disagree with that. It's about attractiveness. It's about a nice tight body, no wrinkles, pretending to be young again. I once heard a guy thanking his "sugar baby" in a restaurant for letting him feel young again. He was every bit of 60 years old and she was at most 25.
 
SDET said:
I completely disagree with that. It's about attractiveness. It's about a nice tight body, no wrinkles, pretending to be young again. I once heard a guy thanking his "sugar baby" in a restaurant for letting him feel young again. He was every bit of 60 years old and she was at most 25.
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:bolt
 
lurchadams said:
Yep, I just read an article on it. Men can get an erection and even ejaculate while being raped.

https://sapac.umich.edu/article/53

From a purely biological standpoint, that's pretty surprising.
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Most people would agree with you, but I don’t know why it is surprising when, after millions of years of evolution, body parts work the way they are supposed to.
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Most people would agree with you, but I don’t know why it is surprising when, after millions of years of evolution, body parts work the way they are supposed to.
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I misspoke. It was more the psychology of it that surprised me. My experience has been that I have to be in a state of arousal to react that way, physically. When I'm in a stressful situation, the last thing I'd expect to happen would be an erection. I'm thinking some dudes react differently in different situations.
 
lurchadams said:
I misspoke. It was more the psychology of it that surprised me. My experience has been that I have to be in a state of arousal to react that way, physically. When I'm in a stressful situation, the last thing I'd expect to happen would be an erection. I'm thinking some dudes react differently in different situations.
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My anecdotal experience is it changes with age and libido levels. I am in my 40s and I get them when I need them but not when I don’t. I am sure the day will come when it isn’t easy to get them when I need them, but for now it is the perfect balance.

But in my teens and 20s I would get them even at the most inappropriate of times and when I absolutely didn’t want them.
 
Skeptic Bob said:
My anecdotal experience is it changes with age and libido levels. I am in my 40s and I get them when I need them but not when I don’t. I am sure the day will come when it isn’t easy to get them when I need them, but for now it is the perfect balance.

But in my teens and 20s I would get them even at the most inappropriate of times and when I absolutely didn’t want them.
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I get them in my sleep. In a recent dental procedure the dentist asked me if I'd prefer to be awake or knocked out. All the professionals in my dentist's office are female. I chose awake because I was self conscious - I was worried I might fire off a "sleep rocket" and from then on the dentist and all the hygienists would look at me funny.
 
lurchadams said:
I get them in my sleep. In a recent dental procedure the dentist asked me if I'd prefer to be awake or knocked out. All the professionals in my dentist's office are female. I chose awake because I was self conscious - I was worried I might fire off a "sleep rocket" and from then on the dentist and all the hygienists would look at me funny.
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Sex doesn’t get any better than ‘sleep rockets!’ They will look at you differently if a stubby occurs while awake!


:3oops:
 
Rexedgar said:
Sex doesn’t get any better than ‘sleep rockets!’ They will look at you differently if a stubby occurs while awake!


:3oops:
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Getting up to pee in the middle of the night is a chore at times. I have to put one hand on the toilet tank and stick my butt out, making a human, "V" so that Heathcliff is pointing at the bowl instead of the ceiling.
 
lurchadams said:
Getting up to pee in the middle of the night is a chore at times. I have to put one hand on the toilet tank and stick my butt out, making a human, "V" so that Heathcliff is pointing at the bowl instead of the ceiling.
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Try sitting down.
 
maquiscat said:
I wonder how many times you are going to dodge the question?

I am not actually making any complaint. I have noted several times that I have no issue with how the law is written, and the use of a given point in time being the switch point between illegal and legal. I comprehend and support the need to do that.

What you are not comprehending is the difference between actual rape and statutory rape. Statutory rape is not necessarily about power. Sex that has actual consent, from a person who actually has the experience and facilities to give informed consent, but is even one day away from the legal age of consent is called statutory rape, not because it is actually rape, where someone exerted power, but because it is a technicality of the law.

So I will ask you once again, probably just to watch you dodge the question again: Did you even bother to read the passage I quoted that showed how rape and statutory rape are not the same and how the later can occur sans the exertion of power that is a part of actual rape?

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Uhm, statutory rape is actual rape.
 
SDET said:
A number of years ago I went to get a hamburger in this place that happened to be topless. It was in New England if place matters. I was watching this guy handing this waitress serious money as in 20s and 10s for wiggling her butt, winking at him, etc. As far as I can tell, he wasn't touching her. It was obvious that he was getting aroused by handing this chick all this money.

I generally cut myself off from American society decades ago. Yes, it can be done. For example, one can live in a place such as Lowell, Massachusetts and refuse to speak English with no problem.

My question is this: Is what I observed unusual? Has feminism conditioned men just to hand women money just for the way they dress and "control themselves" from having any physical contact? I'm genuinely curious.
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Lol, you walked into a place and it just happened to be topless.
 
X Factor said:
Uhm, statutory rape is actual rape.
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No it's not always. Actual rape is sex with either a person who does not consent, or is incapable of providing informed consent, such as a young child, or a mentally handicapped person. However, the law does not always align with reality. The law says that a person is incapable of informed consent prior to a given age, most common being 18. However you and I both know that a person actually develops that ability at some point prior to their 18th birthday. So if a.person has sex with them just before their 18th birthday, then the younger is capable of providing informed consent, and the act is not actual rape. It is statutory rape, not because the younger did not consent or was incapable of such, but only because the law says it is. Otherwise, what is the point of differentiating rape and statutory rape?

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lurchadams said:
Can't. That water is too cold.
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Then you need to adjust the bowl level. That's an overflow danger right there.

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lurchadams said:
I get them in my sleep. In a recent dental procedure the dentist asked me if I'd prefer to be awake or knocked out.
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How can you have dental work done on you what you are knocked out? You would probably choke and they would also have to pry your mouth open and then keep it open. They would also need an anesthesiologist present and these people cost serious bucks.

I actually asked my dentist about it but he said there was no such a thing. So who is right? Is general anesthesia an option or not?
 
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Wan said:
How can you have dental work done on you what you are knocked out? You would probably choke and they would also have to pry your mouth open and then keep it open. They would also need an anesthesiologist present and these people cost serious bucks.

I actually asked my dentist about it but he said there was no such a thing. So who is right? Is general anesthesia an option or not?
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I was knocked out (that means general anesthesia was administered to me) when I had my wisdom teeth removed.
 
lurchadams said:
I was knocked out (that means general anesthesia was administered to me) when I had my wisdom teeth removed.
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Really? Wow...how much did it cost you? It must have been an insane amount.
 
Wan said:
Really? Wow...how much did it cost you? It must have been an insane amount.
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It was years ago when I was under 30 and my company insurance covered everything.
 
Wan said:
How can you have dental work done on you what you are knocked out? You would probably choke and they would also have to pry your mouth open and then keep it open. They would also need an anesthesiologist present and these people cost serious bucks.

I actually asked my dentist about it but he said there was no such a thing. So who is right? Is general anesthesia an option or not?
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Sedation dentistry is a relatively new practice. And there are plenty of methods to prevent choking and to keep the mouth open.

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SDET said:
A number of years ago I went to get a hamburger in this place that happened to be topless. It was in New England if place matters. I was watching this guy handing this waitress serious money as in 20s and 10s for wiggling her butt, winking at him, etc. As far as I can tell, he wasn't touching her. It was obvious that he was getting aroused by handing this chick all this money.

I generally cut myself off from American society decades ago. Yes, it can be done. For example, one can live in a place such as Lowell, Massachusetts and refuse to speak English with no problem.

My question is this: Is what I observed unusual? Has feminism conditioned men just to hand women money just for the way they dress and "control themselves" from having any physical contact? I'm genuinely curious.
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Yes, it is unusual, but not VERY unusual.
Some men are just plain stupid when they think they can have sex with a cute woman.
Most never do.

...and all these out of work hookers walking around....yet those morons will proudly declare..." I have never had to pay for it".
Oh, yes you did. You just didn't get it. but you sure as hell paid for it.

I am amazed at how dumb men can be around a pretty "face".
 
maquiscat said:
Sedation dentistry is a relatively new practice. And there are plenty of methods to prevent choking and to keep the mouth open.

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But wouldn't you need an anesthesiologist though, if it's general anesthesia?
 
SDET said:
A number of years ago I went to get a hamburger in this place that happened to be topless. It was in New England if place matters. I was watching this guy handing this waitress serious money as in 20s and 10s for wiggling her butt, winking at him, etc. As far as I can tell, he wasn't touching her. It was obvious that he was getting aroused by handing this chick all this money.

I generally cut myself off from American society decades ago. Yes, it can be done. For example, one can live in a place such as Lowell, Massachusetts and refuse to speak English with no problem.

My question is this: Is what I observed unusual? Has feminism conditioned men just to hand women money just for the way they dress and "control themselves" from having any physical contact? I'm genuinely curious.
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thank Goodness for our modern Information Age where I can practice not judging women by the clothes they don't wear, on the Internet and port it to real life whenever I have the presense of mind to do so.
 
Wan said:
But wouldn't you need an anesthesiologist though, if it's general anesthesia?
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I would ask a dentist who does this. I know of it because there is one in Baltimore, where I frequently drive to for work, who advertise such.

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maquiscat said:
Sedation dentistry is a relatively new practice. And there are plenty of methods to prevent choking and to keep the mouth open.

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When I was a child in the 1950's the dentists all used gas to knock us out.
 
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