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Why is dine-n-dash OK for women but not men?

Deuce said:
People often accept things offered to them just to be polite.
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Well, ya' see, that's one of the purposes of MGTOW. Wising guys up not to waste their money.
 
Josie said:
Only those who expect, want or need tangible gifts in order to believe you love them. For many women, just helping around the house, giving her compliments and spending quality time is plenty.
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That might work for guys wanting to be Friendzoned.
 
SDET said:
That might work for guys wanting to be Friendzoned.
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Not all women want or need tangible gifts. I'm one of them. I'm not sure why this seems to be lost on you.
 
Josie said:
Not all women want or need tangible gifts. I'm one of them. I'm not sure why this seems to be lost on you.
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Seeing is believing.
 
SDET said:
Seeing is believing.
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So expand your horizons and meet new people. Listen to the women here, ask questions and be open to their answers instead of just assuming they are lying.
 
Josie said:
So expand your horizons and meet new people. Listen to the women here, ask questions and be open to their answers instead of just assuming they are lying.
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You do realize there are 7 Billion people on this planet? Anyone can assemble a circle of friends that is a comfortable fit. There's no reason to be pressured into walking on eggshells. However, one must summarize information somehow. I would say my horizons are pretty extensive in the Western Hemisphere. I have been to places where not slapping your woman around makes one a forward-thinking progressive and a good catch. The funny thing is that expanding my horizons contributes significantly to my low opinion of English speaking women.

I just see so many other guys struggling and it's SOOOOOO unnecessary.
 
danielpalos said:
lousy female intuition?

I am the one who "puts out really really serious relationships, just like that."

what are Women doing over there instead of over here?
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They are running away from you.
 
Josie said:
Not all women want or need tangible gifts. I'm one of them. I'm not sure why this seems to be lost on you.
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The best gifts are respect and kindness.
 
danielpalos said:
really really serious relationships are worth nothing to Women, for free when the guy has not enough capital, under any form of Capitalism.
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I have no idea how you think tying anti-capitalist rants into this thread on your inability to have a long term meaningful relationship makes sense, but it's certainly... amusing.
 
Deuce said:
That's it. English isn't his first language. He's not asking about relationships, he's having trouble finding quality hookers for an affordable price. We all know the struggle.


Try Tijuana, dude.
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At the TGIThursdays in Dubai, there was a whole area of tables/booths with nothing but prostitutes. From what I've read, it sounds like they are still there (I was there over 17 years ago).
 
TheGoverness said:
Oh my ****ing God. MGTOW's are such whiny babies. Grow up.
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I had to look up MGTOW. Didn't know what it was.


What to say? I dunno. It is true there are women who manipulate the man in their life in ways that are not in his best interest. It is also true that there are men who do the same thing to women.

My advice? Instead of making a Movement out of it, just avoid those kinds of persons when you find them. More fish in the sea.

I'm a member of NTFA (No Time For Assholes), which opposes assholery on a gender-neutral basis. :)


(No, it isn't a real organization. Just a lifestyle choice.)
 
Renae said:
I have no idea how you think tying anti-capitalist rants into this thread on your inability to have a long term meaningful relationship makes sense, but it's certainly... amusing.
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I only seem to have that problem when I don't have any Gold.
 
danielpalos said:
proof positive of lousy female intuition for free, when the guy has not enough Gold?
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Absolute confirmation that you are more of a ***** moron in person than online.
 
Goshin said:
I had to look up MGTOW. Didn't know what it was.


What to say? I dunno. It is true there are women who manipulate the man in their life in ways that are not in his best interest. It is also true that there are men who do the same thing to women.

My advice? Instead of making a Movement out of it, just avoid those kinds of persons when you find them. More fish in the sea.

I'm a member of NTFA (No Time For Assholes), which opposes assholery on a gender-neutral basis. :)


(No, it isn't a real organization. Just a lifestyle choice.)
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It's helpful to listen to the experiences of MGTOW guys to know what kinds of hazards to look out for. Maybe their implementation is different than what you might do. Knowing how to watch your back is a good skill to have.
 
SDET said:
It's helpful to listen to the experiences of MGTOW guys to know what kinds of hazards to look out for. Maybe their implementation is different than what you might do. Knowing how to watch your back is a good skill to have.
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Mmph. And other dubious non-word noises.

An MGTOW is supposedly a guy who has given up on women... so I doubt an MGTOW has anything to teach me. Taking advice about women from someone who has given up on women, does not make a lot of sense.

Women are like any other group; there's good, there's bad, and there's a lot of grey area. There's also a lot of "it depends"... on what you want and what works for you.

If you're just looking to use a woman like a dick-receptacle, you might as well just stick to prostitutes or something. More honest on both sides. Because if you're out there just looking for a human-shaped warm thing with a place to stick it, you're being a user and deserve whatever kind of mercenary beyotch you find.

If you decide you're actually looking for a woman PERSON who might be good for something more, congratulations and welcome to adulthood. Think about what characteristics you'd want in a friend: start with honesty and integrity, and someone who genuinely likes you and likes being around you. If you don't see that, walk away and try elsewhere.

1. Don't chase. Express polite interest and then wait to see if she reciprocates. If she doesn't, move on.
2. Don't be desperate. Big turn-off.
3. Do not seek the puss. If it is right, the puss will be offered in due time. If three or four dates go by and she hardly even touches you, then she's not into you that way.
4. If it looks like you're being used as a meal-ticket or shoulder to cry on and that it isn't going any further than that, walk. More fish in the sea. Don't waste time bemoaning it either, **** happens. Learn as you go.
5. Be the kind of person a worthwhile woman would want. Douchebags attract douchebags. Push-overs attract abusers. Value yourself and value others and you will tend to attract worthwhile people to you.

Got an older man you can go to for advice? Somebody with lots of been-around-the-block? Father, Uncle, someone you trust who exhibits consistent good choices? If in doubt, introduce her to that older mentor, and then later in private see what he thinks about her. If he says "SDET, you need to ditch this girl, she's no good for you", then he's probably right.


Sometimes I wonder how much of this crap comes from so many young men growing up without a decent father figure to teach them things...
 
danielpalos said:
according to the right wing, anyone without Gold really is Worthless.

it is the Capital way!
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According to everyone, a piece of sh!t like you with no brain is entirely worthless.
 
SDET said:
Didn't watch it - hope this is a joke.
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"Diners and dashers", whether male or female are the lowest form of life. Leaving the server to pick up your tab because you're to lazy or cheap to pay for your own meal.

I'm sorry, I was a server in high-school and college. I don't think this is very funny.
 
lurchadams said:
"Diners and dashers", whether male or female are the lowest form of life. Leaving the server to pick up your tab because you're to lazy or cheap to pay for your own meal.

I'm sorry, I was a server in high-school and college. I don't think this is very funny.
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That is true, but I'm pretty sure this is about dating -- one person leaving so the other person is required to pay.
 
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