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If you aren't getting these three things, ditch her - Coach Red Pill

SDET

SDET

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1) Ready good sex
2) Domestic comfort
3) Child(ren)

If these three aren't present, there's no point to the relationship!

 
Coach Red Pill is not very bright.
 
SDET said:
1) Ready good sex
2) Domestic comfort
3) Child(ren)

If these three aren't present, there's no point to the relationship!

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Well, I'm damn sure not getting kids from my current relationships, and that suits me just fine. Who the hell insists on something they don't want anyway? Apparently Coach Pill...Oh, well, whatever....

I secure domestic comfort on my own; I can't imagine why anyone would look to another for that.

As for sex, good, bad or otherwise, well, that's pretty easy to come by, relationship "of note" or not.

In light of the above, I think Coach Pill's is advice I'll disregard.
 
Why am I required to want kids?
We have two kids, they're all grown up now.
 
Like others have said, the idea that children is required for a good relationship is a bit absurd.

Even the idea you'd need "ready good sex" doesn't hold up. While most couples enjoy some amount of sexual interaction, it is not impossible to have an enjoyable romantic connection without sexual interaction. There are couples that do choose to do this, for one reason or another.

An honest, compatible, respectful, and comfortable mutual romantic relationship with each other is the only thing really needed for a healthy partnership, not children or sexy times.
 
Redress said:
He meant really good, ie sex that does not require a 50 dollar bill.
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I get sex because wifey's in the mood. If she's in the mood, it might have something to do with me being a decent guy.
Sometimes, it's just that she might be in the mood and as long as I don't go out of my way to screw it up, I be gettin' lucky that night, or day.
And, on occasion, I might just "put her in the mood" if I'm not too much of a dumbass ;)
Contrary to the belief of some, it's really not much more complicated than that.
And after twenty years together, it never even has to be, because we "get" each other well enough and our gears mesh together nicely.
 
Well, if those are things that you want out of life then I agree, you should choose a partner that will fulfill those needs. But that goes for men and women.
 
Redress said:
He meant really good, ie sex that does not require a 50 dollar bill.
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Reminds me of an old joke I enjoy.

Guy comes home to find his wife packing, he asks “where yah going”.

“I’m leaving you and going to Toronto” she replies “I hear women there get $50 a pop to do what I do for you for free”.

The man thinks for a second, goes to another room and begins packing as well.

The wife asks what the hell hes doing to which he replies

“I’m coming with you”.

“Why?” She asks confused

“Because I want to see you live off $100 a year”.
 
I'm pleasantly surprised by the responses to this thread. Sometimes I post things, scratching my chin, thinking "this sounds interesting", maybe right, maybe wrong, but interesting. I actually have all three of those things Coach Red Pill speaks of. The only price paid is a wife that militantly refuses to ever get a job; it's not her place to get a job nor study cradle-to-grave because she's a woman. I felt forced to have a sit-down with my sons and explain that they only owe their mother the bare minimum, a low-cost studio apartment in an urban area with no car. I told her if she ignores my advice to become more independent, I will never know about it, but she will suffer immeasurably. I told my family to cremate me when the time comes so my death won't be a burden. Of course if I manage to live well into my 80s, my wife will get my social security.
 
SDET said:
I felt forced to have a sit-down with my sons and explain that they only owe their mother the bare minimum, a low-cost studio apartment in an urban area with no car.
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:lamo
 
SDET said:
I'm pleasantly surprised by the responses to this thread. Sometimes I post things, scratching my chin, thinking "this sounds interesting", maybe right, maybe wrong, but interesting. I actually have all three of those things Coach Red Pill speaks of. The only price paid is a wife that militantly refuses to ever get a job; it's not her place to get a job nor study cradle-to-grave because she's a woman. I felt forced to have a sit-down with my sons and explain that they only owe their mother the bare minimum, a low-cost studio apartment in an urban area with no car. I told her if she ignores my advice to become more independent, I will never know about it, but she will suffer immeasurably. I told my family to cremate me when the time comes so my death won't be a burden. Of course if I manage to live well into my 80s, my wife will get my social security.
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How old are your sons?

And why the punitive attitude toward what their mother "deserves"?
 
They are teenagers. They didn't sign up for that burden. I have started exercising and losing weight so that hopefully it will be a moot point or at least reduce the years of their burden.
 
SDET said:
They are teenagers. They didn't sign up for that burden. I have started exercising and losing weight so that hopefully it will be a moot point or at least reduce the years of their burden.
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You signed them up by co-creating them. And "that burden" is the way of the world, all of it.
 
SDET said:
1) Ready good sex
2) Domestic comfort
3) Child(ren)

If these three aren't present, there's no point to the relationship!

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what if i can't find any nice girls for free (who are willing to make an appointment), when i don't have any money under our form of Capitalism?
 
danielpalos said:
what if i can't find any nice girls for free (who are willing to make an appointment), when i don't have any money under our form of Capitalism?
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You don't have money and cant attract a female on your own merits??

Might I suggest...

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Though you may want to check for bee hives first though. :neutral:
 
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