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My one problem with mom's viral letter begging her husband for more help - Chicago Tribune
What if those fathers choose not to? If Mizz Erlach wants help, I suggest that she visit Care dot com and find someone. Distracting a breadwinner from building a career is just plain stupid. Remember that women generally don't marry down. How many female attorneys or physicians do you see married to plumbers, auto mechanics or roofers? It borders on abuse to "wage nag" a husband to do put in whatever effort is needed to advance in his career, then publicly shame him for not doing domestic tasks.
When women start being willing to "marry down", then maybe discussing "gender equality" at home can be a reasonable discussion.
How much do you want do bet that her husband will divorce her right after the kids turn 18?
What if those fathers choose not to? If Mizz Erlach wants help, I suggest that she visit Care dot com and find someone. Distracting a breadwinner from building a career is just plain stupid. Remember that women generally don't marry down. How many female attorneys or physicians do you see married to plumbers, auto mechanics or roofers? It borders on abuse to "wage nag" a husband to do put in whatever effort is needed to advance in his career, then publicly shame him for not doing domestic tasks.
When women start being willing to "marry down", then maybe discussing "gender equality" at home can be a reasonable discussion.
Babies and toddlers have a whole lot of needs. Dads have a vested interest in those needs being met. So why is meeting them considered “helping” their mother?
We’re going to have a hard time achieving gender equity at home if we continue to frame child care as a mother’s load, which fathers can lighten should they choose.
How much do you want do bet that her husband will divorce her right after the kids turn 18?
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