Rinzai
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This is an idea I had.
Instead of states allowing two people to be legally married by default, everyone would merely granted civil unions for the pragmatic and financial reasons.
And if a couple wanted to be legally recognized as married, they would have to meet additional requirements, such as remain together for X number of years, and demonstrating to a panel of experts that they are loving and faithful.
This might be a way of distinguishing between lesser arrangements, such as couples who unfaithful, abusive, or married mainly for financial convenience - and couples who have attained higher levels of intimacy and can serve as role models, rather than giving dysfunctional couples the illusion that they have attained some "sacred" status of marriage simply by signing a legal contract without demonstrating any genuine intimate qualities.
Instead of states allowing two people to be legally married by default, everyone would merely granted civil unions for the pragmatic and financial reasons.
And if a couple wanted to be legally recognized as married, they would have to meet additional requirements, such as remain together for X number of years, and demonstrating to a panel of experts that they are loving and faithful.
This might be a way of distinguishing between lesser arrangements, such as couples who unfaithful, abusive, or married mainly for financial convenience - and couples who have attained higher levels of intimacy and can serve as role models, rather than giving dysfunctional couples the illusion that they have attained some "sacred" status of marriage simply by signing a legal contract without demonstrating any genuine intimate qualities.