One anonymous allegation of sexual assault, where the woman is not pressing charges, is things getting "out of control?" Seriously?
Oh, sort of like the way men have ignored and denigrated women who report abuse for pretty much all of human history? Yeah,
that worked out well.
Wow. Just... Wow.
Here's her description of events:
https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
If her allegations are true (which is not necessarily the case), then he acted like a ****ing creep to her the second they got into the apartment. She told him to slow down, said no several times, kept dropping hints, and he kept shoving his fingers in her mouth, groping her, and pushing her to do things she didn't want to do. At one point she thought he got the hint, but: Nope, he kept at it. No one, male or female, is obligated to "reciprocate" like you describe, no one "owes" anything on a first date or because you enter their apartment. He was even being aggressive after she told him she wanted to leave.
Ansari hasn't denied the events. He's said he thought it was consensual, and he felt bad about it when she told him how she felt about it.
Is this assault? I'm not sure, and it is an anonymous account. If her description is generally correct, and it isn't assault: It's still very creepy, and right on the line -- especially given that Ansari is supporting Time's Up.
At any rate, the idea that this is some sort of final straw that indicates the end of #MeToo is little more than wishful thinking. Men have pulled this kind of crap (and much worse) for decades, and outing harassers and assaulters is going to go on for some time. You might want to get used to it.
