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Same as us ("Mr. and Mrs. Strangler") except our two kids are both adult kids now, and...as it turns out, they are both apparently hetero.
This is WHY I wanted to hear from parents of gay kids who have decided that they CANNOT be in their children's lives.
There is no shortage of very strong moral or religious views in this forum, certainly from people who say they would not tolerate a gay kid IF they DID have one, but I want to hear from people who DO have one, or more than one and are not keen on the idea.
This is their opportunity to rally round their non-rainbow flag, so to speak.
I am a homosexual Son of heterosexual parents and though my parents are rather religious, they accepted it it was rough at first but they were committed to making it work. So was I.
My partner on the other hand was disowned by his parents. They belong to the Mormon faith. There are some things he won't tell me about it and I have learned more things about it at this point.
But as to what was going through the mind of his parents I can only guess if they even know. About 5 years back we connected with his grandparents they're not upset about that at all very nice people.
The best I can speculate is that time that I had with my parents where it was difficult to talk both parents and child we're either too angry to hurt or unwilling to work through it.