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Easy there. I would agree...its none of my business if someone wants to be delusional...until they insist on making it my business.I'm pretty certain that everyone (especially someone transitioning) knows that we can't switch chromosomes around or transplant a working womb into a man (yet?)
Once you get past ick factor and accept that's it none of your business, you can proceed with doing whatever you want with your life.
I see no reason why this person couldn't be a good a parent. Consider what "normal" families are producing.
Here's where it is none of my business...I see someone, say hello sir or maam based on their appearance and politely carry on. Heres where they make it my business. That same person loses their **** and freaks out and screams "I'm not a man I'm a woman how dare you mis-gender me I hate you I hate you I hate you **** you! and then runs and has campus officials, school officials government officials, or any other number of people and they insist on courses on how to properly address deranged delusional ****heads.
Zir isnt a word. Ze isnt a word. Meb isnt a word. Plarg isnt a word. Xem, Xis, Flis, Flam....its all bull****. Society has capitulated to insanity. You are born a man or a woman. You may FEEL like you should have been born something else...but you werent no matter how you feel. If you were born a man but feel you should have been born a woman you are simply a man that feels like you should have been born a woman. Nothing wrong with that. Embrace that. love yourself. Hell...I love you...I respect you...all good. As soon as you insist...therefore I AM a woman...sorry...you are delusional. I can still love you and respect you even if we disagree...but that wont change the fact that you are delusional. What that WILL do is put you in a category of people that is 40% likely to express suicidal ideation or in fact attempt suicide. And you wont feel that way because I wont accept your delusion. You will feel that way because in spite of your delusion, every time you brush your teeth, no matter how hard you try to convince yourself you are a woman, you will see a man staring back at you from the mirror.
The person in the OP is a woman. Their delusion is going to cause THEMSELVES problems...and it is also likely to cause their child problems. But hey...you know what? Straight people that arent delusional about their gender **** up their kids too. I wish them all a lot of luck.