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Do Women Cheat For Better Sex and Men For A Different Taste?

SmokeAndMirrors said:
The fact that I would never do something like that to someone, and will not allow others to do that to me, is exactly the reason the monogamy pool didn't work out for me, even though I had no trouble with sexual fidelity. It wasn't a desire to **** people that drove me out of the pool. It wasn't even a romantic entanglement, or anything of that nature. It was this possessive, coersive mindset that poisonous our mainstream coupling culture.
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I can agree with that. Anti-romance can never justify monogamy. But for many people this isn't true, so men and women become forced into/out of relationships. Men are legally fixed by the trappings of congressional acts from the 20th century, so our role in serial monogamy is less flexible and therefore less complex. Men need to control women, because if they don't, they will very likely suffer financially. I won't do that to women. I think if there were a cost-benefit analysis done on my love life with a focus on financials, I would come out ahead as single over the next few years. But I haven't crunched the numbers, so it's just a guess.

The possessive, coercive mindset that poisons the mainstream has existed for quite some time, and it is not just a cultural tradition. It is part of our laws. I'm fairly sure that's true globally.
 
Pretty sure the two genders cheat for the same reasons.
 
Soopairik said:
Is this a joke, or serious?
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Serious, been with the same women for 26 years we are not married ( no common law here ) She's become super lazy and unorganized gained massive amounts of weight and I believe just complacent in the relationship where all she cares about is FaceBook.

I tell her Happy Birthday in the morning, but if I don't type it on her facebook page it doesn't matter.
 
Celebrity said:
I still don't really understand why men cheat for sex. If it really gets that bad, then a divorce is in order.
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Men dont really cheat because of sex really, they cheat because of a girls appearances. For example if they see a very good looking chick they get excited and want to explore.

I dont think women really care about appearances thats why they dont cheat because of sex.
 
I think that shows a lack of self control, if men don't have the willpower to choose not to have sex with someone who gets them excited. I can get "excited" by someone who is 50 meters away and not have sex with them. I can get "excited" by a Revlon ad with a curvaceous model, even if I am not interested in dating plus-sized women. I find women exciting in general, but I must be selective about my sexual partners, to avoid contracting STD's and procreating with irresponsible people.

I'm pretty sure women do care about appearance. Why else should a woman wear makeup? Some women even date men who wear makeup.

As long as the monogamy is consensual then there's no reason to cheat. It's too bad that some men are forced into relationships with these women.
 
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