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Orgasms: Whose is better?

Skeptic Bob

Skeptic Bob

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Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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A male's orgasm is designed by nature to be intense but brief...intense so he desires it, and brief so that he can get out of the way and let the next genetic donor give it a shot.

On the other hand, female orgasms are designed by nature to develop gradually and to last longer...gradually so that she puts up with multiple male attempts, longer so she feels motivated to wait until it happens.

So I'd agree that a woman's would probably be more intense. (Seems that way from my experience anyway.)
 
Superfly said:
I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
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Errm, well, can't speak for everyone, obviously, but can't say as I've ever made that connection...though to be honest, it was difficult to think about much with all the applause going on.... ;) lolz
 
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Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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Depends. I'll counter your question with a question:

Would you prefer to have a more intense orgasm if a significant number of times you have sex you don't have one?
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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It certainly feels like it's better for us. ;)
 
For guys sex is an outlet and the one time we're aloud to let down our defenses, so it's physically and mentally pleasurable in a 'release' type of way.
 
Fishking said:
Depends. I'll counter your question with a question:

Would you prefer to have a more intense orgasm if a significant number of times you have sex you don't have one?
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Or, would you prefer to have a partner that ensures you have one every time...? I mean, that's a thing... hehe
 
OlNate said:
Or, would you prefer to have a partner that ensures you have one every time...? I mean, that's a thing... hehe
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Well, yeah. I don't think most people would like a partner that thinks sex is a one-way street.
 
Superfly said:
I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
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If they happen at the same time is that a "come together" moment?
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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I have to say I think you're probably right, especially if we're looking at the upper limit of what is possible.

I'd say any individual instance of orgasm might vary. I've had some let-down orgasms, where I'm sure most men have had one that's much better than that.

But then there's the really good ones, and also... as a woman, you can keep orgasming basically forever. Like, literally until you pass out. If you have a good enough level of stimulation and can maintain it, you never really have to stop until it becomes necessary for physical safety. :lol:

I mean, I've gone for like 10 minutes. I have yet to see a guy have anything like that.

Also, even if I don't have an obvious orgasm, it's still possible to feel sexually satisfied. Sometimes orgasm isn't necessarily the goal (think impulsive quickies -- a situation where a woman is unlikely to orgasm, but still tons of fun), and that doesn't stop me from feeling satisfied. I've tried to describe this before, but it might be lost on someone who doesn't have the parts, but it's sort of like... there's orgasm, but there's also a sense of satiation. Either one works, for feeling like I got something out of the encounter.

I've read some stuff that indicates this might just be a very slow, low-level orgasm, which leads to that feeling of satiation rather than hitting a crescendo. And that's the other thing -- there's a lot of different levels of physiological orgasm in women, not necessarily one singular "peak" the way there is with men. If I had to guess, I'd say that men's orgasms probably feel entirely different.

But I'd say I wouldn't trade it. I like the range of the female orgasm.
 
OlNate said:
Errm, well, can't speak for everyone, obviously, but can't say as I've ever made that connection...though to be honest, it was difficult to think about much with all the applause going on.... ;) lolz
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Was that on account of you always winning?

By coming (in) first? :2razz:
 
OlNate said:
Errm, well, can't speak for everyone, obviously, but can't say as I've ever made that connection...though to be honest, it was difficult to think about much with all the applause going on.... ;) lolz
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Reminds me of a joke
3 Service Members, 1 French, 1 American and lol, 1 Canadian met on the plane as they were deploying to a real **** hole.
Eventually the conversation got around to their last night with their wife and what was the last thing their wife said to them

So the American began first
Took my wife out for dinner, then dancing, came home made love, and in the morning, took me to my fav for breakfast, Waffle House and told me she loved me.

The Frenchman
Took my wife to the theater, dinner and home where we made love. My wife had breakfast for me, champagne and strawberries and told me she loved me.

Both looked over at the Canadian, who was silent but smiling.

They waited and waited for his story, finally they asked, what was the last thing your wife said to you before deploying.
With a glint in his eye, a smile on his face, she said "don't stop".


.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
I have to say I think you're probably right, especially if we're looking at the upper limit of what is possible.

I'd say any individual instance of orgasm might vary. I've had some let-down orgasms, where I'm sure most men have had one that's much better than that.

But then there's the really good ones, and also... as a woman, you can keep orgasming basically forever. Like, literally until you pass out. If you have a good enough level of stimulation and can maintain it, you never really have to stop until it becomes necessary for physical safety. :lol:

I mean, I've gone for like 10 minutes. I have yet to see a guy have anything like that.

Also, even if I don't have an obvious orgasm, it's still possible to feel sexually satisfied. Sometimes orgasm isn't necessarily the goal (think impulsive quickies -- a situation where a woman is unlikely to orgasm, but still tons of fun), and that doesn't stop me from feeling satisfied. I've tried to describe this before, but it might be lost on someone who doesn't have the parts, but it's sort of like... there's orgasm, but there's also a sense of satiation. Either one works, for feeling like I got something out of the encounter.

I've read some stuff that indicates this might just be a very slow, low-level orgasm, which leads to that feeling of satiation rather than hitting a crescendo. And that's the other thing -- there's a lot of different levels of physiological orgasm in women, not necessarily one singular "peak" the way there is with men. If I had to guess, I'd say that men's orgasms probably feel entirely different.

But I'd say I wouldn't trade it. I like the range of the female orgasm.
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Your point about not always needing orgasm to feel satisfied is an interesting one. I never instigate sex with my wife unless I also intend to ensure she has an orgasm as well. However, sometimes she initiates sex and flat out tells me she doesn't want to have one that day, or at that time. As a man that baffles the mind. But when she has one it is a hair pulling, nail gouging, body quivering ordeal that leaves her completely spent for a while. So I can see how someone might not want that just before going to work.
 
JANFU said:
Reminds me of a joke
3 Service Members, 1 French, 1 American and lol, 1 Canadian met on the plane as they were deploying to a real **** hole.
Eventually the conversation got around to their last night with their wife and what was the last thing their wife said to them

So the American began first
Took my wife out for dinner, then dancing, came home made love, and in the morning, took me to my fav for breakfast, Waffle House and told me she loved me.

The Frenchman
Took my wife to the theater, dinner and home where we made love. My wife had breakfast for me, champagne and strawberries and told me she loved me.

Both looked over at the Canadian, who was silent but smiling.

They waited and waited for his story, finally they asked, what was the last thing your wife said to you before deploying.
With a glint in his eye, a smile on his face, she said "don't stop".


.
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:lamo
 
Superfly said:
I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
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TheGoverness said:
That's...interesting.
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Just to clear this up...no, it's not true. Unless there are some dudes out there simultaneously having some amazing crapgasms while having really poor regular orgasm. I mean, maybe for some randos out there this could be true but I'm guessing it's about as prevalent as those few women who have orgasms during birth.

Yes...that's a real thing.

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/jma3zb/the-argument-for-masturbating-during-childbirth
 
Skeptic Bob said:
Your point about not always needing orgasm to feel satisfied is an interesting one. I never instigate sex with my wife unless I also intend to ensure she has an orgasm as well. However, sometimes she initiates sex and flat out tells me she doesn't want to have one that day, or at that time. As a man that baffles the mind. But when she has one it is a hair pulling, nail gouging, body quivering ordeal that leaves her completely spent for a while. So I can see how someone might not want that just before going to work.
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Yeah, I know what she means. The thing we typically identify as female orgasm -- the big crescendo (or the multiple/never-ending crescendo, in some cases) is like... I need to make sure I've had enough water, ya know? :lol: That's an experience.

The sense of satiation/possible slow and low-level orgasm is something that's nice for sleepy morning "making love" sessions, or a perfectly satisfactory ending to an impulsive quickie. It's like having a really good meal of just the right size where you just feel good about life at the end of it.
 
Fishking said:
Just to clear this up...no, it's not true. Unless there are some dudes out there simultaneously having some amazing crapgasms while having really poor regular orgasm. I mean, maybe for some randos out there this could be true but I'm guessing it's about as prevalent as those few women who have orgasms during birth.

Yes...that's a real thing.

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/jma3zb/the-argument-for-masturbating-during-childbirth
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That's not what I said -- not that they would have to go poop at the same time. The man said to me that, as far as the feeling of orgasm to a man goes, it was just a release. An expulsion of sorts, and therefore was no more mindblowing than having a really good bowel movement.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
I have to say I think you're probably right, especially if we're looking at the upper limit of what is possible.

I'd say any individual instance of orgasm might vary. I've had some let-down orgasms, where I'm sure most men have had one that's much better than that.

But then there's the really good ones, and also... as a woman, you can keep orgasming basically forever. Like, literally until you pass out. If you have a good enough level of stimulation and can maintain it, you never really have to stop until it becomes necessary for physical safety. :lol:

I mean, I've gone for like 10 minutes. I have yet to see a guy have anything like that.

Also, even if I don't have an obvious orgasm, it's still possible to feel sexually satisfied. Sometimes orgasm isn't necessarily the goal (think impulsive quickies -- a situation where a woman is unlikely to orgasm, but still tons of fun), and that doesn't stop me from feeling satisfied. I've tried to describe this before, but it might be lost on someone who doesn't have the parts, but it's sort of like... there's orgasm, but there's also a sense of satiation. Either one works, for feeling like I got something out of the encounter.

I've read some stuff that indicates this might just be a very slow, low-level orgasm, which leads to that feeling of satiation rather than hitting a crescendo. And that's the other thing -- there's a lot of different levels of physiological orgasm in women, not necessarily one singular "peak" the way there is with men. If I had to guess, I'd say that men's orgasms probably feel entirely different.

But I'd say I wouldn't trade it. I like the range of the female orgasm.
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Smoke, call me! Hurry.
 
Superfly said:
That's not what I said -- not that they would have to go poop at the same time. The man said to me that, as far as the feeling of orgasm to a man goes, it was just a release. An expulsion of sorts, and therefore was no more mindblowing than having a really good bowel movement.
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Right...and I'm saying that's not the case, and that dude wasn't representative of much of anything.
 
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