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Orgasms: Whose is better?

Depends. I'll counter your question with a question:

Would you prefer to have a more intense orgasm if a significant number of times you have sex you don't have one?

That's a woman's fault, to put up with that kind of incompetence or lack of consideration more than a time or 2.

You can also take charge *during*, take more responsibility for your orgasm.
 
Errm, well, can't speak for everyone, obviously, but can't say as I've ever made that connection...though to be honest, it was difficult to think about much with all the applause going on.... ;) lolz


So...which do you do with an audience, have an orgasm, take a dump, or both? :eek: :lamo
 
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".


Well, since a man can't experience the feeling of a woman's orgasm and vice-versa, we may never know. :(
 
Not to mention it is mentally retarded or a statement coming from a man with the emotional maturity of a 10 year-old boy. But pay special note to how many grown women place such high value on grown men with the maturity of small boys that have yet to even enter high school.

I mean... one would wonder and ask then, do men generally ejaculate every time time they defecate in the woods or on the toilet?





As for the OP, I have no idea who has the "better" orgasm, but the primary function of sexual intercourse is reproductive, and supposedly the maxim in the anthropological and biological sciences is: "sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive." That maxim is used to partly explain why women are very discriminating and men aren't. But if we assume that statement is true, "better" might be better judged in terms of how successful males and females are in their reproductive roles. "Fitness" in biological evolution means two things, or can be used two ways, (1) to mean the predominance of certain genes in a population, and (2) how many offspring an organism [individual] produces. A "welfare queen" and "dead beat father" are more fit if they produce many children and the upper-class couple that produce only 1 child are less fit.

If sperm is "cheap" then it is probably "better" if orgasms are more easily obtained by males and they ejaculate easily and frequently. Presumably, they can spread their "seed" around more to more women.

If eggs are "expensive" (a high biological cost to getting impregnated as well) then perhaps "better" in this term might be a more difficult time in reaching an orgasm. Maybe. I don't know. I'm just speculating per "if we assume x" to be true.





Yeah, yeah I know.... I'm supposed to talk like a gangsta rapper or a liberal buffoon per the expectation women have (want) in men as attorney Antonio Moore (of Tone Talks) has more or less said in his critique of some of the negative influences rap music produced. Hyper focus on the female body was one his points. Women expect and and want men to talk and think and have attitudes of rappers was one of his points too. He regards some of those attitudes among rapers as immature. So, I'm well aware if I were to say something stupid like "An orgasm for a man feels like taking a good dump," it would be far more well received by the American woman type (it also sounds like something a younger white am would say). But I don't give a damn about being "well received."

Orgasms are in my view "naturally" produces highs. And humans like to get high. That's why many of our so sexually focused. And we like to down play STD's that can result from sexual activity which is predicated on the pursuit of "getting high" not on love. Love is remaining with your wife and taking care of her as she balds and losses weight from dying of cancer. Having sex with a female Las Vegas stripper from a middle-class white family, and giving her an orgasm, is not love. But I digress on that point. I just wanted to point out that the frequent pursuit of orgasms by many people are in fact pursuits to get "high." Sometimes they result in STD's too.



Mm. Any woman expecting me to talk like a rapper would be disappointed. Also, I would likely be uninterested in her as well. Of course I am 51 so my life experiences are a bit different. Women my age were expecting more Clint Eastwood and Chuck Norris, or perhaps Bon Jovi or that soap-opera hunk Danny Romalati, or Romaladi, or something. Or a doctor, lawyer or future CEO.


I've always found just being myself to be both easier and more successful than trying to "put on" to any great degree. I yam what eye yam, as Popeye said, and that's all that I yam. :)


If they like what I yam, they're welcome to hang about and see what happens. If not, c'est la vie...
 
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Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".

1.) It doesn't take more work for ALL women to get there. Many of us achieve orgasam as easy as men and even easier. Women are WAY more inconsistent compared to each other though.
2.) I'm guessing it's women for simple science reasons, we have way more nerves. Double the amount in the clit vs the penis head alone.
 
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".

I've never been a lady so I have no way to compare my orgasm to theirs.
 
Lesbians. The correct answer is lesbians.
 
Lesbians. The correct answer is lesbians.

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what is life without mystery?


I suppose. Although aside from just satisfying curiosity, feeling what an opposite sex partner feels might make one a better lover. Since you're homosexual, I'd think you already have a pretty good idea what your partner feels (that's not intended as smack, just an observation).
 
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" Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going". "
I will be happy if I get going and finish with a smile.
 
I suppose. Although aside from just satisfying curiosity, feeling what an opposite sex partner feels might make one a better lover. Since you're homosexual, I'd think you already have a pretty good idea what your partner feels (that's not intended as smack, just an observation).

Yes I suppose there are benefits. Perhaps that is why sexual satisfaction is never an issue. But I would think sexual experiences with the opposite sex (I have had those so its not like I'm talking out of my ass lol) would be improved with both communication and honesty.

That is another benefit to being with the same sex you don't feel emasculated for not knitting what feels the best for your partner.

P.S. I took your comment as funny not a slam.
 
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".

Given that better is a highly subjective view, there is no one true answer. In my experience, a lot can depend upon the combination of people. For that matter, even with the same partner, the results have varied. Something to keep in mind is that men are indeed capable of multiple orgasms and the orgasm can be had separate from the ejaculation.
 
An unanswerable question for humans unless they can hook up a meter to you, I'm sure this has been done but I've never seen the results published.
 
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