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Orgasms: Whose is better?

Skeptic Bob said:
Alright, it has been awhile since I posted a racy thread, if ever. So here it goes.

There is a general stereotype that men enjoy sex more than women. I have never bought into that stereotype. Men just seem to be less discriminating and easier "to get going".

But now for the question that we may never have an answer to: Who has the best feeling orgasms, men or women?

To me the answer is obvious: women. It may take more work to get "there", but when they do get there, it looks and sounds like it is out of this world.

Don't get me wrong, as a man I love sex. But I feel like it is an order of magnitude better for women when it goes well, and that isn't even including the possibility of multiples.

So, whom do you think it is better for. Again, assuming that both partners "get there".
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I can answer this question in two words: "Multiple orgasms."
 
TheGoverness said:
Oh, Risky. :naughty
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Oh, no, no. What are you thinking? I am appalled that you might think my intentions are untoward. You have wounded me severely.

I only want to warn her about nefarious bastards who might lie to her and leer at her body while offering to buy her mass quantities of alcohol. :mrgreen:
 
Superfly said:
That's not what I said -- not that they would have to go poop at the same time. The man said to me that, as far as the feeling of orgasm to a man goes, it was just a release. An expulsion of sorts, and therefore was no more mindblowing than having a really good bowel movement.
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I can definitely see it as a release of tension or pressure. I wouldn't compare it to taking a dump, though. Maybe taking a piss after holding it too long. But even then that probably only applies to having sex with someone with whom there is no emotional connection. Most men certainly don't need the emotional connection to enjoy it, but an emotional connection is what elevates the experience above a mere biological release of pressure.
 
Superfly said:
I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
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All I can say is, whoever said that enjoys his bowel movements a lot more than normal...
 
Superfly said:
I was told once that "a man's orgasm is about the equivalent of taking a really good dump."

I always wondered if that was true.
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I've had some incredibly satisfying dumps and orgasms (although the haven't occurred simultaneously yet), and if a guy's orgasm isn't feeling a lot better than his craps are, he's doing something wrong.
 
Goshin said:
All I can say is, whoever said that enjoys his bowel movements a lot more than normal...
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LOL! I was thinking diarrhea must be a non-stop good time. Imagine eating jalapeño and habanero burritos all day Friday and looking forward to a great weekend alone. :roll:
 
Jesse Booth said:
I've had some incredibly satisfying dumps and orgasms (although the haven't occurred simultaneously yet), and if a guy's orgasm isn't feeling a lot better than his craps are, he's doing something wrong.
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Feckin' Viking fan, right?
 
year2late said:
If they happen at the same time is that a "come together" moment?
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Yeah, that's awesome. The clamping thing that goes on during her orgasm will blow you mind.

Often sought, infrequently achieved, from my observation.
 
TheGoverness said:
Well, yeah. I don't think most people would like a partner that thinks sex is a one-way street.
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*Most people understand that. Well...maybe not most, I don't know. I mean, we're all human...sometimes when you're digging a ditch, the shovel wears out before you finish the job...you don't walk away, if you're out of shovels, grab a hoe!

(that may be the most innuendo I've inserted into one sentence...ever...ok maybe not...lol)
 
JANFU said:
Reminds me of a joke
3 Service Members, 1 French, 1 American and lol, 1 Canadian met on the plane as they were deploying to a real **** hole.
Eventually the conversation got around to their last night with their wife and what was the last thing their wife said to them

So the American began first
Took my wife out for dinner, then dancing, came home made love, and in the morning, took me to my fav for breakfast, Waffle House and told me she loved me.

The Frenchman
Took my wife to the theater, dinner and home where we made love. My wife had breakfast for me, champagne and strawberries and told me she loved me.

Both looked over at the Canadian, who was silent but smiling.

They waited and waited for his story, finally they asked, what was the last thing your wife said to you before deploying.
With a glint in his eye, a smile on his face, she said "don't stop".


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hahaha...representing Canada, but only cuz it's the truth, yo! :) haha
 
Having been with women who have cum 20-30 times in the space of a couple of hours there can be no doubt on the answer....
 
Goshin said:
All I can say is, whoever said that enjoys his bowel movements a lot more than normal...
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Not to mention it is mentally retarded or a statement coming from a man with the emotional maturity of a 10 year-old boy. But pay special note to how many grown women place such high value on grown men with the maturity of small boys that have yet to even enter high school.

I mean... one would wonder and ask then, do men generally ejaculate every time time they defecate in the woods or on the toilet?





As for the OP, I have no idea who has the "better" orgasm, but the primary function of sexual intercourse is reproductive, and supposedly the maxim in the anthropological and biological sciences is: "sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive." That maxim is used to partly explain why women are very discriminating and men aren't. But if we assume that statement is true, "better" might be better judged in terms of how successful males and females are in their reproductive roles. "Fitness" in biological evolution means two things, or can be used two ways, (1) to mean the predominance of certain genes in a population, and (2) how many offspring an organism [individual] produces. A "welfare queen" and "dead beat father" are more fit if they produce many children and the upper-class couple that produce only 1 child are less fit.

If sperm is "cheap" then it is probably "better" if orgasms are more easily obtained by males and they ejaculate easily and frequently. Presumably, they can spread their "seed" around more to more women.

If eggs are "expensive" (a high biological cost to getting impregnated as well) then perhaps "better" in this term might be a more difficult time in reaching an orgasm. Maybe. I don't know. I'm just speculating per "if we assume x" to be true.





Yeah, yeah I know.... I'm supposed to talk like a gangsta rapper or a liberal buffoon per the expectation women have (want) in men as attorney Antonio Moore (of Tone Talks) has more or less said in his critique of some of the negative influences rap music produced. Hyper focus on the female body was one his points. Women expect and and want men to talk and think and have attitudes of rappers was one of his points too. He regards some of those attitudes among rapers as immature. So, I'm well aware if I were to say something stupid like "An orgasm for a man feels like taking a good dump," it would be far more well received by the American woman type (it also sounds like something a younger white am would say). But I don't give a damn about being "well received."

Orgasms are in my view "naturally" produces highs. And humans like to get high. That's why many of our so sexually focused. And we like to down play STD's that can result from sexual activity which is predicated on the pursuit of "getting high" not on love. Love is remaining with your wife and taking care of her as she balds and losses weight from dying of cancer. Having sex with a female Las Vegas stripper from a middle-class white family, and giving her an orgasm, is not love. But I digress on that point. I just wanted to point out that the frequent pursuit of orgasms by many people are in fact pursuits to get "high." Sometimes they result in STD's too.
 
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