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I have flash cards if you need them.
I thought that the point is NOT to flash... or one of them.
I have flash cards if you need them.
Must prior consent be verbal?
And I bet you were the bitch for saying no, weren't you (at least in his eyes)?
There seem to be a few people on here that are concerned with where the 'line' is drawn in regards to innapropiate sexual behavior. So I, TheGoverness, will be helping you all today in understanding what exactly constitutes innapropiate sexual behavior towards women. This is not a difficult concept to grasp. It's pretty easy, actually. If you are concerned with where the lines are drawn when it comes to women, how about this: don't try to touch a women in any sexual manner without prior consent. Simple as that. The line is very much clear and defined. That means that don't try to jump out of the shower naked trying to come onto a woman, and think that's appropriate behavior. Hint: it's not.
Did you write all of that down? I hope you did.
If you are still confused where the line is by this point, please seek medical treatment.
I have flash cards if you need them.
I think that's largely due to your perceptions of your grandparents not reality. As much as it might weird you out to think about these things your grandparents were young once too. Your grandmother likely grew up in a time where women weren't even allowed to vote much less have much of a say in relationships.
Furthermore, while deeply religious people like to claim superior morality the reality is that religions like Christianity taught the broad power of a man over a woman. Many women were taught to be thrilled that any man whatsoever wanted to court them. If there were multiple suitors it was a smuch the decision of the girls father as it was the girls herself on who to choose.
Modern women aren't prudish, they just have more respect for themselves, and have fought to obtain more control over their own lives. It's something they always should have had.
Ephesians 5:22-33
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Does the small of the back count as a sexual manner?
Depends on the intent.
What if I ask for consent and it's given, but the person I asked was a subordinate who might only be saying yes because she's worried about repercussions if she doesn't.
Well that sounds like coercion to me, and that is not okay behavior in my eyes.
Sadly, your OP does not make it clear that you hold that gray areas exist. It implies a black and white line that is universal in its placement.Sure, there are gray areas. A lot of consent is non-verbal, so that does factor into that.
What if it's my house. Do I have a right to be clothed in a manner or lack thereof of my choosing? (playing devils advocate here).
Catching someone's eye from a distance, and having them gawk at you with drool coming out of their mouth are two entirely different things. Have you considered the possibility that's a test to see whether or not you're respectable enough to maintain eye contact.Modern women also have the uncanny ability to divert a guy's eyes away from her face. No excuse for a guy to take advantage, but why let it hang out if they don't want them to look?
I would also be very careful making false allegations about the so called deeply religious people.
Women fancy themselves hot stuff when more than one guy is hanging out, that isn't particular to religion. Being taught about men having power over them? You mean
You confuse being a loving wife with being a submissive little punching bag, and don't give women enough credit.
Ephesians said:22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Catching someone's eye from a distance, and having them gawk at you with drool coming out of their mouth are two entirely different things. Have you considered the possibility that's a test to see whether or not you're respectable enough to maintain eye contact.
Ummmm.....wow..... you own quoted verse........
The verse doesn't tell women to love their husbands, it tells husbands to love their wives. It tells wives to submit to husbands. In much the way a parent should love their children, but the children should "respect" and "submit" to the control of their parents. This verse as it is interpreted by wide swaths of the religious right absolutly demands women be submissive little punching bags to their husbands in everything. It tells husbands not to abuse that control, and make decisions for your wife that will be good for her, but it absolutley gives the man free rain to make final decisions regarding her life.
This verse is disgusting, and it is sad that you would have knowledge of it's existence, and still be okay with it.
Let me simplify this.
Don't be a dick to people.
Again, not so simple. There are things that I and people like me do that we don't think are dickish, but others might and have. Just because you don't consider something as being a dick, someone else might.
Dating? God forbid! I wouldn't even ask an employee into my office for a confidential exchange without a witness or a video. The risk is too great.
There seem to be a few people on here that are concerned with where the 'line' is drawn in regards to innapropiate sexual behavior. So I, TheGoverness, will be helping you all today in understanding what exactly constitutes innapropiate sexual behavior towards women. This is not a difficult concept to grasp. It's pretty easy, actually. If you are concerned with where the lines are drawn when it comes to women, how about this: don't try to touch a women in any sexual manner without prior consent. Simple as that. The line is very much clear and defined. That means that don't try to jump out of the shower naked trying to come onto a woman, and think that's appropriate behavior. Hint: it's not.
Did you write all of that down? I hope you did.
If you are still confused where the line is by this point, please seek medical treatment.
There seem to be a few people on here that are concerned with where the 'line' is drawn in regards to innapropiate sexual behavior. So I, TheGoverness, will be helping you all today in understanding what exactly constitutes innapropiate sexual behavior towards women. This is not a difficult concept to grasp. It's pretty easy, actually. If you are concerned with where the lines are drawn when it comes to women, how about this: don't try to touch a women in any sexual manner without prior consent. Simple as that. The line is very much clear and defined. That means that don't try to jump out of the shower naked trying to come onto a woman, and think that's appropriate behavior. Hint: it's not.
Did you write all of that down? I hope you did.
If you are still confused where the line is by this point, please seek medical treatment.
There seem to be a few people on here that are concerned with where the 'line' is drawn in regards to innapropiate sexual behavior. So I, TheGoverness, will be helping you all today in understanding what exactly constitutes innapropiate sexual behavior towards women. This is not a difficult concept to grasp. It's pretty easy, actually. If you are concerned with where the lines are drawn when it comes to women, how about this: don't try to touch a women in any sexual manner without prior consent. Simple as that. The line is very much clear and defined. That means that don't try to jump out of the shower naked trying to come onto a woman, and think that's appropriate behavior. Hint: it's not.
Did you write all of that down? I hope you did.
If you are still confused where the line is by this point, please seek medical treatment.