what would you do if your 12 yr old daughter kissed a girl?[W:16]

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Fenton Lum said:

I'm from dixie, I ask if her cousin wants to stay for dinner.

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No, you aren't, and no it isn't funny. Perpetuating negative stereotypes isn't suddenly ok just because its a regional prejudice instead of a racial one.

Re: what would you do if your 12 yr old daughter kissed a girl?

Goshin said:

Same thing you do any time something out of the ordinary happens.


Talk about it.

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That would definitely be the right approach.

whateverdude said:

Do you pretend it didn't happen and go to your room and drink and not talk about it (my solution)?
Do you yell at her and demand she never do so again?
Do you ban her from seeing her friend and demand she never talk to her again?
Do you set up camera's in her room?
Do you sit down and talk to her about why she did it?
Do you warn her about God and the fiery pits of hell?

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What kind of kiss was it?

I'm not going to make a big fuss about it, but I'd want to know (subtly) and understand what prompted that kiss. From there, we can have a casual discussion (maybe inject it with some humor). She's only 12 after all.

RamFel said:

I sense that we will never agree on what is, and what is not an advantage or disadvantage of the gay lifestyle but they include:

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Advantages and disadvantages are subjective, and can only hold objectivity within a context. While you will hold to a given context, in a forum such as this, that context applies only to you and any arguments based solely on that context are meaningless to the overall.

1. Never having a normal heterosexual relationship.

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That is only a disadvantage if it is something one desires. Additionally there are plenty of heterosexual relationships that would not fit what you consider normal, thus further eroding this argument.

2. If she wants to marry, she will need to marry outside of her church, and against what God wants.

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Incorrect, or at least assumed context with no evidence. She could indeed marry within her church and within the wishes of the God she follows. She might not even be Christian, or if so, of one of the denominations that holds to different beliefs that you. Whether or not you consider them a church and a true God is irrelevant. Now if your argument was of outside your church and against your God, you'd have a solid argument

3. If she wants children, being gay means that she, or her partner, will be out of the picture, as far as blood relationships go. Plus who will seed whom? Will they even know the father?

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There are plenty of gay couples of one gender who are good friends with a gay couple of the other gender, whom come together for the purpose of procreating.

I find it difficult to come up with advantages.

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That's because of the subjective view you hold. Many others see the same advantages in a homosexual relationship as they do in a heterosexual one.

whateverdude said:

Do you pretend it didn't happen and go to your room and drink and not talk about it (my solution)?

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Boy or girl, I'd need something stronger than "drink".

CLAX1911 said:

1)A homosexual being in a heterosexual relationship would obviously be a disadvantage. They are homosexual. It's cruel to the other person and its selfish.
2)I couldn't give any less of a crap about your faith if I tried.
3)You are welcome.

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CLAX1911 said:

1)A homosexual being in a heterosexual relationship would obviously be a disadvantage. They are homosexual. It's cruel to the other person and its selfish.


That's an opinion, not fact. You may believe it's true, and being a human being, you have made your mind up that you're going to be right, no matter what anybody says and that is your right, but just don't make yourself a fool by believing it's really true. Being gay is wrong.


Clax, I have advise for you. If you really want to fall under the spell of gay sex, AND you really want to take an attitude such as the one in post against God. Then all I gotta say is at you had better be willing to accept all the consequences. Of course, God will cast you down. Don't give up on God.

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RamFel said:

That's an opinion, not fact. You may believe it's true, and being a human being, you have made your mind up that you're going to be right, no matter what anybody says and that is your right, but just don't make yourself a fool by believing it's really true. Being gay is wrong.

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Ramfel, all beliefs are opinions. And I don't share yours that being gay is wrong. Suggesting anyone who doesn't agree with you is just foolish is really quite narcissistic.

You have some particularly bad character traits.

Clax, I have advise for you. If you really want to fall under the spell of gay sex, AND you really want to take an attitude such as the one in post against God. Then all I gotta say is at you had better be willing to accept all the consequences. Of course, God will cast you down. Don't give up on God.

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I know you're obsessed with sex but it's not sex not all of it anyways. I don't believe God would cast me down for it. So I'm giving up on you not God.

RamFel said:

That's an opinion, not fact. You may believe it's true, and being a human being, you have made your mind up that you're going to be right, no matter what anybody says and that is your right, but just don't make yourself a fool by believing it's really true. Being gay is wrong.


Clax, I have advise for you. If you really want to fall under the spell of gay sex, AND you really want to take an attitude such as the one in post against God. Then all I gotta say is at you had better be willing to accept all the consequences. Of course, God will cast you down. Don't give up on God.

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I forgot to mention do to your strange wording sex isn't to spell for me being in a relationship is so much more than sex I'm sorry it's not for you that's sad maybe you'll find the right person one day.

CLAX1911 said:

I forgot to mention do to your strange wording sex isn't to spell for me being in a relationship is so much more than sex I'm sorry it's not for you that's sad maybe you'll find the right person one day.

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I don't think there is any hope for you to find the right one, for that could never be. Especially since I have a female wife. Wishing for silly impossible things is not like you.

RamFel said:

I don't think there is any hope for you to find the right one,

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Lol, jokes on you. It has already happened.

for that could never be. Especially since I have a female wife. Wishing for silly impossible things is not like you.

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Pretending someone is Wishful that you would date them is more silly.

whateverdude said:

Do you pretend it didn't happen and go to your room and drink and not talk about it (my solution)?
Do you yell at her and demand she never do so again?
Do you ban her from seeing her friend and demand she never talk to her again?
Do you set up camera's in her room?
Do you sit down and talk to her about why she did it?
Do you warn her about God and the fiery pits of hell?

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I vote ignore it.

Re: what would you do if your 12 yr old daughter kissed a girl?

I wouldn't do anything