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Are you kidding? I run for the closet and grab the binoculars for a better view!
My first thought. :lol:
Are you kidding? I run for the closet and grab the binoculars for a better view!
If you're married, it's very wrong. Especially considering the proximity of the temptation. Remove the possibility of temptation.
She wasn't looking to be seen, just not thinking/not bothered.
Of course I turn away.
A) this is 2017 - not 1977. There are a billion attractive woman on the internet in whatever state of undress you wish. B) Why would I risk people seeing me and then get a reputation as a pervert in my own neighborhood? Just for a quick look? Forget it.
I would think of the Seinfeld scene where George and Jerry were looking down a teenaged Denise Richards top. Only an idiot would keep staring (no matter how gorgeous she was - and she DEFINITELY was). I would (hopefully) be Jerry. A quick peek and that's all.
'Definition of voyeur
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: one obtaining sexual gratification from observing unsuspecting individuals who are partly undressed, naked, or engaged in sexual acts; broadly : one who habitually seeks sexual stimulation by visual means'
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/voyeur
Assuming you are getting turned on to some extent - than yes, it is definitely voyeurism.
Go to the phone and give her a call. "I just noticed that you're standing damn near buck nekkid in front of your window providing a clear view for anybody who happens to look. Is this intentional?"
"It was on the large placard you were holding"Woman: "How'd you get this number?"
:lamoThats like asking what temperature the free beer is
Scenario:
You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.
Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
If you're married, it's very wrong. Especially considering the proximity of the temptation. Remove the possibility of temptation.
If I were inclined I'd look. I'd say that it is voyeurism if you get some sort of sexual gratification out of her not knowing you are seeing her. But if you're just looking because she is pretty, I'd call that instinctive. Men like attractive women. If she doesn't want to be looked at she could close her curtainScenario:
You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.
Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
Woman: "How'd you get this number?"
Scenario:
You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.
Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
Go to the phone and give her a call. "I just noticed that you're standing damn near buck nekkid in front of your window providing a clear view for anybody who happens to look. Is this intentional?"
She wasn't looking to be seen, just not thinking/not bothered.
And she replies: Why yes it is! Do you see the two drinks sitting on my table? One of them is waiting for you! So how does the next chapter of the paperback go?
If you look down the block, you'll see various wives passing out pitchforks and baseball bats. Oh look. One just stashed your tires. You might want both of those drinks yourself. I believe a video of you is being posted on YouTube, FaceBook, Snapcrap, and whatever.
*cough* *cough* Snapchat. *cough* *cough*