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Is this wrong/What would you do?

KevinKohler said:
If you're married, it's very wrong. Especially considering the proximity of the temptation. Remove the possibility of temptation.
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No it's not wrong. Hell (after grabbing the binoculars) the next thing I'd say is hunny... you gotta see this. :lol:
 
Aristaeus said:
She wasn't looking to be seen, just not thinking/not bothered.
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You don't really believe that, do you?

Based on the observations of a wise old man. In most cases women know exactly what the're showing and to whom. There are exceptions of course.
 
My thought is

Pictures, or it didn't happen
 
DA60 said:
Of course I turn away.
A) this is 2017 - not 1977. There are a billion attractive woman on the internet in whatever state of undress you wish. B) Why would I risk people seeing me and then get a reputation as a pervert in my own neighborhood? Just for a quick look? Forget it.
I would think of the Seinfeld scene where George and Jerry were looking down a teenaged Denise Richards top. Only an idiot would keep staring (no matter how gorgeous she was - and she DEFINITELY was). I would (hopefully) be Jerry. A quick peek and that's all.




'Definition of voyeur
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: one obtaining sexual gratification from observing unsuspecting individuals who are partly undressed, naked, or engaged in sexual acts; broadly : one who habitually seeks sexual stimulation by visual means'

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/voyeur

Assuming you are getting turned on to some extent - than yes, it is definitely voyeurism.
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How are people going to see me if I'm sitting on the sofa?

As for the definition: unsuspecting is the key word. If you're getting undressed in front of your open bedroom window, you can't accuse someone of vouyerism if they happen to see you. And sexual gratification is a bit much; more of an enjoyable bit of luck!
 
humbolt said:
Go to the phone and give her a call. "I just noticed that you're standing damn near buck nekkid in front of your window providing a clear view for anybody who happens to look. Is this intentional?"
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TheGoverness said:
Woman: "How'd you get this number?"

;)
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"It was on the large placard you were holding"

:mrgreen:
 
Sure, I'd look. If it wasn't obvious that she knew people could see her I would also send an anonymous note to her door letting her know. After that the ball is in her court.
 
Aristaeus said:
Scenario:

You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.

Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
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Wave to her and smile.
 
KevinKohler said:
If you're married, it's very wrong. Especially considering the proximity of the temptation. Remove the possibility of temptation.
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No it is not necessarily wrong. It depends upon how the spouse feels about such things. Mine points out women that have traits she know I am attracted to, so I can look.
 
Aristaeus said:
Scenario:

You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.

Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
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If I were inclined I'd look. I'd say that it is voyeurism if you get some sort of sexual gratification out of her not knowing you are seeing her. But if you're just looking because she is pretty, I'd call that instinctive. Men like attractive women. If she doesn't want to be looked at she could close her curtain
 
Aristaeus said:
Scenario:

You're at home sitting on the sofa watching TV and you happen to look out of the window apropos of nothing; in the house across the road you see an attractive young woman standing in front of her bedroom window in her underwear/getting undressed.

Do you keep looking or turn away? Is it voyeurism if you're just sitting on the sofa minding your own business and she's in front of her window with the blinds open?
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Now that all depends on what her hotness score is....

If it is up then then sure, she wants people to look, and she gets me.
 
humbolt said:
Go to the phone and give her a call. "I just noticed that you're standing damn near buck nekkid in front of your window providing a clear view for anybody who happens to look. Is this intentional?"
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And she replies: Why yes it is! Do you see the two drinks sitting on my table? One of them is waiting for you! So how does the next chapter of the paperback go?
 
Aristaeus said:
She wasn't looking to be seen, just not thinking/not bothered.
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Is her name Emma Sulkowicz? Carry that weight! Google it if you don't understand.
 
SDET said:
And she replies: Why yes it is! Do you see the two drinks sitting on my table? One of them is waiting for you! So how does the next chapter of the paperback go?
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If you look down the block, you'll see various wives passing out pitchforks and baseball bats. Oh look. One just stashed your tires. You might want both of those drinks yourself. I believe a video of you is being posted on YouTube, FaceBook, Snapcrap, and whatever.
 
humbolt said:
If you look down the block, you'll see various wives passing out pitchforks and baseball bats. Oh look. One just stashed your tires. You might want both of those drinks yourself. I believe a video of you is being posted on YouTube, FaceBook, Snapcrap, and whatever.
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*cough* *cough* Snapchat. *cough* *cough*
 
I'd sit and enjoy the show. She can't possibly be unaware that the blinds are open.
 
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