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So I have this friend. For lack of a better word...he is lonely. He works hard. He plays hard. He has been busting his ass the past few years advancing his career. Well about a year or so ago he started dating around. Looking for a relationship actively. So he has the WORST luck of any human I have met. Which brings me to last night.
He met this girl at the dog park. She was real nice. Me and my girlfriend both liked her. But. The last my girlfriend had heard, and my friend, this woman had a boyfriend. Well last night she invited him out to walk their dogs together. Now. They don't live real close, but it is like biking distance. Nothing big. I thought it was weird. They aren't that close. If it were my girlfriend and him...it would be one thing. I know him. He knows me. We are friends. We hang out. And there is that implicit trust amongst friends. Right? Well. He does NOT know the boyfriend.
So they finish their walk, and she invited him to go out for drinks. No mention of a boyfriend. There isn't even pictures of him on her Facebook, no mention of relationship status, and no other signs. Right? Well. They go out and get a little bit tipsy and she passes out at his place. After mentioning her boyfriend. She got a call from him as well apparently. Male voice, didn't leave the room, had a normal phone conversation ended with I love you.
So he texted me at about 5am to relate all this. So I'm left wondering? Is this a normal game for young women under 30? At any rate it is stupid. Would you feel comfortable if your partner spent the night with someone with the opposite sex after drinking? How far is too far? And like he was telling me...he is running screaming because even if she is dumping her boyfriend...that kind of move would show no integrity if that is the case.
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He met this girl at the dog park. She was real nice. Me and my girlfriend both liked her. But. The last my girlfriend had heard, and my friend, this woman had a boyfriend. Well last night she invited him out to walk their dogs together. Now. They don't live real close, but it is like biking distance. Nothing big. I thought it was weird. They aren't that close. If it were my girlfriend and him...it would be one thing. I know him. He knows me. We are friends. We hang out. And there is that implicit trust amongst friends. Right? Well. He does NOT know the boyfriend.
So they finish their walk, and she invited him to go out for drinks. No mention of a boyfriend. There isn't even pictures of him on her Facebook, no mention of relationship status, and no other signs. Right? Well. They go out and get a little bit tipsy and she passes out at his place. After mentioning her boyfriend. She got a call from him as well apparently. Male voice, didn't leave the room, had a normal phone conversation ended with I love you.
So he texted me at about 5am to relate all this. So I'm left wondering? Is this a normal game for young women under 30? At any rate it is stupid. Would you feel comfortable if your partner spent the night with someone with the opposite sex after drinking? How far is too far? And like he was telling me...he is running screaming because even if she is dumping her boyfriend...that kind of move would show no integrity if that is the case.
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