Cosmetic surgeries and sex life.

There's a saying about this.

"Show me a beautiful woman, and I'll show you a man that got tired of ****ing her."

Seems to me that phrase can work the other way around, too, with the sexes switched.

Basically, in the long run, looks don't matter for much.

_Sal said:

picture number one looks just fine...juuuuuuuuuuust fine

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Ok, but I'm sure you would like the rest of his body be defined too and not just his pecks and upper abs.

udina said:

Does cosmetic surgeries improve the sex life of people who undergo it ? Is it worth it ? Doesn't the pain & discomfort during the healing process somehow neutralizes that ? Please let me know what you really think.

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I don't think it would. If you are insecure enough to want plastic surgery i don't think that will disapear after you have it.

Gathomas88 said:

In other words, you took someone with a personality you liked, but not the physicality, and changed their habits to bring them physicality more in line with your own desires. Again... No offense intended to you, but I'm not really sure if this scenario actually discredits my argument here. lol

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no offense taken (I am not easily offended)

but I didn't take him and change him at all...

in fact I remember him bringing his favourite drink for me to try...it was "spit out gross" with the sugar content something he would never drink now...I thanked him for it but explained it was too sweet

he also thought eating vegetables meant the tomato and lettuce slice on his burger...I didn't discount that, I just continued to live my lifestyle, it was his decision to change, he made his choices as we moved forward together

I've actually had the same thought regarding a couple of girls I've met in real life.

i.e. "Ya know... I like you, and if I could just persuade you to hit the gym for a few months, you'd probably be a knock-out."

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I do get what you are saying here

As I recall, I took quite a lot of crap from some people around here for admitting to having that thought. :lol:

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well truth be told, we all have our standards in one way or another...we can't judge each other for that

Henrin said:

Ok, but I'm sure you would like the rest of his body be defined too and not just his pecks and upper abs.

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honestly I don't care about his pecks and abs or other bodily parts, what I really care about is his heart and soul and the way in which he treats me, responds to me, listens to me and supports me, recognizes me as his equal...just like I do him :thumbs:

then, it's all good...super good in fact, it's like a little piece of heaven