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What a touching story. I heard a similar story, this time about a much younger (60s) woman whose cancer had come back. She decided that she didn’t want to do any more chemo but instead to “go home.” She died under what her husband described as wonderful hospice care.
I hope that you get to enjoy at least some moments of clarity and lucidity.
Just remind her every single day that you love her, repeat it several times over the course of the day if need be. Hugs do wonders, unless she's the "stiff upper lip" type...who knows.
Keep her busy with well loved stories from the past, especially funny ones.
I'd give anything for my mom to still be here, but at the same time blissfully unaware of current events. How would that work? But I hear her voice within me from time to time, a reassuring thing, but a little bittersweet. Lucky me, she had a wonderful sense of humor and she adored my wife.
I hope you find and keep the little treasures, the small moments that give you peace.