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Ok here’s the situation,
I’ve been on a dating service for a few months, I’ve actually been on a date as a result of it but that’s not relevant to this question
Posit the scenario:
Let’s say I’ve messaged a lot of women and just playing the numbers been chatting with two of them.
One of them lives in Canada (but actually not far away, only a 2.5 hour journey to visit) the other lives on the other side of the state 7 hours away.
The one in Canada I am meeting on Saturday, the one in Spokane gave me her number and we’ve been trading text messages, here’s what I am asking, I am more interested in the Canadian woman, if I’m being honest, but obviously a date can go either way and I don’t want to ignore the one in Eastern WA, but something feels wrong about this even though I am not committed to either obviously.
So having set up a date already but not being in a relationship, is it wrong to keep sharing messages with another person whom you also have no established commitment to, but also no immediate plans to ask out?
A friend of mine who is far more of a “player” says to keep as many women talking as possible and it doesn’t matter since I have no ties at the moment, but I have never really held his same philosophies here
I’ve been on a dating service for a few months, I’ve actually been on a date as a result of it but that’s not relevant to this question
Posit the scenario:
Let’s say I’ve messaged a lot of women and just playing the numbers been chatting with two of them.
One of them lives in Canada (but actually not far away, only a 2.5 hour journey to visit) the other lives on the other side of the state 7 hours away.
The one in Canada I am meeting on Saturday, the one in Spokane gave me her number and we’ve been trading text messages, here’s what I am asking, I am more interested in the Canadian woman, if I’m being honest, but obviously a date can go either way and I don’t want to ignore the one in Eastern WA, but something feels wrong about this even though I am not committed to either obviously.
So having set up a date already but not being in a relationship, is it wrong to keep sharing messages with another person whom you also have no established commitment to, but also no immediate plans to ask out?
A friend of mine who is far more of a “player” says to keep as many women talking as possible and it doesn’t matter since I have no ties at the moment, but I have never really held his same philosophies here