Skeptic Bob
DP Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 6, 2014
- Messages
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- Location
- Texas
- Gender
- Male
- Political Leaning
- Libertarian - Left
Some things just don't get better with time. It has been nearly 7 ****ing years and it just keeps coming back more vicious than ever. I pretend it isn't there. That everything is normal. I do my work, go through the motions of being a father, husband, family member or friend. It fools everyone but me.
I keep going back to that place. Keep reliving the incident. I alternate between emotional numbness and crying like a baby. I know, intellectually, that I didn't have a choice. My chain of command and the therapists all said that. "You didn't have a choice". But the person I thought I was died on that day. My moral compass was shattered.
Of course I did have a choice. It was just all choices available to me were horrible and would lead to loss of life.
The only people I can talk about it in detail to are people I pay to listen. I can't tell my friends and family what happened. It would change how they see me. And I certainly can't discuss it in detail here, on a public forum. I have done the group counseling thing but all the veterans in those groups, that I have seen so far, have a different kind of PTSD. Usually from witnessing a traumatic event or being hit by an IED. The type of PTSD I have, so I'm told, is "Perpetration-Induced Traumatic Stress".
I don't know why I am posting this. Just feeling alone, I guess. I just want to go back to normal. I just want to be me again. But the odds of that happening don't look good.
I keep going back to that place. Keep reliving the incident. I alternate between emotional numbness and crying like a baby. I know, intellectually, that I didn't have a choice. My chain of command and the therapists all said that. "You didn't have a choice". But the person I thought I was died on that day. My moral compass was shattered.
Of course I did have a choice. It was just all choices available to me were horrible and would lead to loss of life.
The only people I can talk about it in detail to are people I pay to listen. I can't tell my friends and family what happened. It would change how they see me. And I certainly can't discuss it in detail here, on a public forum. I have done the group counseling thing but all the veterans in those groups, that I have seen so far, have a different kind of PTSD. Usually from witnessing a traumatic event or being hit by an IED. The type of PTSD I have, so I'm told, is "Perpetration-Induced Traumatic Stress".
I don't know why I am posting this. Just feeling alone, I guess. I just want to go back to normal. I just want to be me again. But the odds of that happening don't look good.