Yup. And you know, I think all of us of the younger gen sort of lump the older gen into the list of exceptions for phone calls, because we know that's just how you've been doing it for all this time. I get annoyed if one of my 30-year-old friends does that. I didn't when it was my 60-year-old dad, ya know? Techy as he was, and as proficient as he was with texting, sometimes he just called for reasons I wouldn't because that's how he did things for the first 50 years of his life. We get that.
But yeah, the people who do still call seem to have lost that etiquette. To be honest, my memory of phone calls as standard is a bit foggy -- texting was very much a thing by the time I hit high school, and even before that, we still had AIM, MySpace, and other venues for organizing information or daily little communications besides just calls. So in effect, I only ever called good friends and family, and even that was tapering off by the time I was in my teens.
But I do recall being taught to frickin' ask if someone has time to talk to me. And that definitely seems to have gone away, for the people who are still calling for no particular purpose, and don't have their age as a reason.
Perhaps it's that no one's teaching them anymore (since today's phone call etiquette is simply, "Don't do it unless there's an actual reason"), and the nature of phone calls sort of encourages rudeness if you don't get taught otherwise. It is quite a jarring interjection into someone's day compared to the little "ping" of a text, if you think about it. In the absence of etiquette lessons for an aging technology, and in this age of limited sense of social boundaries at times, perhaps they simply just don't realize how rude they're being.
It's a balance, I think, and tons and tons of people get it wrong on either side of the generation divide. There are certainly a lot of people in my gen who want to try to drag me into a serious conversation in text, and I am just not having that. I dropped my smartphone for 2 years to try to make that point that I am not going to respond to your bible-length text about personal issues when what we really need to do is actually sit down with each other. Even my older boyfriend does that sometimes. Oh, the enormous WhatsApp messages!
TL;DR People are annoying sometimes. :lol: