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Dealing with tremendous loss.

Porkuloss said:
Thoughtless and cruel. No, there doesn't have to be any of that.
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Vetplus40 said:
I simply cannot fathom the insensitivity of your remark. The only thing more unbelievable is that apparently, no Moderator has deleted your STUPID post and banned your worthless as$.
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I totally responded to it as well and that was probably a mistake. Let's not make this about that particular post any more.
 
ThoughtEx. said:
Yesterday, my youngest child died. He wasn't even two years old. His sister brought home a chest cold from school and he caught it. I put him down for nap, and he didn't wake up. I feel like I'm lost right now, like Someone shot me and I just haven't realized I've been shot.

What do I do now? All I can think of his how much I want to hold him. How much I want to see his smile, and feel his baby kisses. I want him to run down the hallway, and yell boo. I want to hear him sliding the sugar bin across the floor one more time. I want so many things, but there is no way for me to have them.

I feel like I've failed him, that it was my job to protect him, and I failed. He was my son, and I let him die. And I don't know how to not feel that. Today a police officer watched me cry so hard he had to give me a hug. And he cried with me.

My wife and daughter are just as upset as I am, and I don't know how to comfort them, when I need the same comfort. I just miss him, more than I have ever missed anything in my entire life.

His name was Lex, and I don't know if I can feel joy without him.
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His time was over and I hope you will meet him one day ,TEX
 
My prayers are with you! Condolences!
 
I'm so saddened to learn of your loss, Thoughtex.

My heart goes out to you and your family.
 
ThoughtEx. said:
Yesterday, my youngest child died. He wasn't even two years old. His sister brought home a chest cold from school and he caught it. I put him down for nap, and he didn't wake up. I feel like I'm lost right now, like Someone shot me and I just haven't realized I've been shot.

What do I do now? All I can think of his how much I want to hold him. How much I want to see his smile, and feel his baby kisses. I want him to run down the hallway, and yell boo. I want to hear him sliding the sugar bin across the floor one more time. I want so many things, but there is no way for me to have them.

I feel like I've failed him, that it was my job to protect him, and I failed. He was my son, and I let him die. And I don't know how to not feel that. Today a police officer watched me cry so hard he had to give me a hug. And he cried with me.

My wife and daughter are just as upset as I am, and I don't know how to comfort them, when I need the same comfort. I just miss him, more than I have ever missed anything in my entire life.

His name was Lex, and I don't know if I can feel joy without him.
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So sorry for you and your families loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
 
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