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I recently acquired a mature cat to be a companion for my little friend marmalade that has been with me 11 years now.
I did have a kitten for him, but as she grew, she kept running out to the jungle behind the house, and one day she never came back.
After a grieving period, we decided to get a mature cat who would not want to run and jump like our beloved Crystal did.
We got a Maine Coon who is 7 but is very skittish. I feel she was abused at some point by her behavior to other cats.
Marmalade is as mellow as they come and just wants to be her friend.
She on the other hand, hisses when he gets too close, and prefers to spend her time away in the spare bedroom.
It has gotten a bit better in that she can now lay in a box in the living room with us, and occasional will touch noses with him.
The rub is, my wife will be heading away fro about a week and I will be the one solely responsible to helping her feel better around the house.
I do not want to make things worse for her, so any advice will be treated as golden.
Thank you all.
I did have a kitten for him, but as she grew, she kept running out to the jungle behind the house, and one day she never came back.
After a grieving period, we decided to get a mature cat who would not want to run and jump like our beloved Crystal did.
We got a Maine Coon who is 7 but is very skittish. I feel she was abused at some point by her behavior to other cats.
Marmalade is as mellow as they come and just wants to be her friend.
She on the other hand, hisses when he gets too close, and prefers to spend her time away in the spare bedroom.
It has gotten a bit better in that she can now lay in a box in the living room with us, and occasional will touch noses with him.
The rub is, my wife will be heading away fro about a week and I will be the one solely responsible to helping her feel better around the house.
I do not want to make things worse for her, so any advice will be treated as golden.
Thank you all.