Same problem here although I will take this opportunity to commend you for acting like a dignified human being most of the time.
We don't always agree but I nevertheless look forward to your posts...most of the time
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Yes, the anonymity is a form of poison masquerading as a security blanket.
As you might probably agree, some of the worst people in this forum would most likely act very meek and mild if they thought for one second that their anonymity was about to be compromised.
For me, personally, the notion of "anonymity" is a thin illusion, so I don't believe there is much of it in reality, so instead I try to remember that I am communicating with a real person. I am not by any stretch perfect at it but I do try to bear it in mind.