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Ever Feel Like You are Given a sign?

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So just wondering? Right now I feel like God is telling me something. I feel a bit like Jonah as of late, but this morning Jehovah's Witness were knocking at my door. It was weird because i had just come to a decision and they knocked. I've opened the Bible a few times now and everything I've read has applied. It is just weird.

So. Anyone else?
 
I don't believe in "signs" but I have certainly felt as though I have received them before. Humans are so good at finding patterns that we will even see them when they don't exist.
 
Sign or no sign I figure that cracking open your Bible every once in a while is a good idea.
 
yes I feel this way sometimes and usually listen to my inner voice before deciding to do something
 
Well... yes, I have.



However, I advise caution about seeing relatively commonplace things as signs too readily... it is easy to fool yourself, especially when you WANT a sign...


When God is pointing the way, He will prove the path if you keep your eyes open... but maintain a healthy SELF -doubt about your ability to know His will...
 
Uh...

No.

Sorry, but I don't really see how JW's knocking on your door is supposed to be a sign of anything. It's kind of a routine occurrence.
 
Well... yes, I have.



However, I advise caution about seeing relatively commonplace things as signs too readily... it is easy to fool yourself, especially when you WANT a sign...


When God is pointing the way, He will prove the path if you keep your eyes open... but maintain a healthy SELF -doubt about your ability to know His will...

I agree. I generally think that the "sign" is something that causes a course correction. Or maybe a realization. I don't really go about looking for them, though I pray for help a lot lol.
 
Yes, my entire life, especially since my young adulthood. I use discretion, because emotions can also factor in, but I pay attention.
Something which repeatedly knocks me in the head, is usually something that I should heed. I've got a good many scars to prove it. ;)
 
Uh...

No.

Sorry, but I don't really see how JW's knocking on your door is supposed to be a sign of anything. It's kind of a routine occurrence.

Asking specifically about something I've been dealing with. I mean I know their usual line. I know they want me to take their documents and join their church. But that wasn't the line that I heard. It was something they said that had nothing to do with that.

And they don't usually knock on my door lol.
 
I don't believe in "signs" but I have certainly felt as though I have received them before. Humans are so good at finding patterns that we will even see them when they don't exist.

Interesting thought though huh? Even if you don't believe...isn't it odd that we would develop to see patterns of things when they aren't there?
 
Yes, my entire life, especially since my young adulthood. I use discretion, because emotions can also factor in, but I pay attention.
Something which repeatedly knocks me in the head, is usually something that I should heed. I've got a good many scars to prove it. ;)

Ditto! And when it starts costing money I don't have, I really heed it!
 
It may really be just some variation on apophenia, but I have occasionally thought I saw a meaningful series of coincidences, and have tended to take it as a sign of divine indication that I am on a path that I am intended to be on.

The most recent significant example I can think of was about a year ago. I had struggled against what seemed like impenetrable bureaucratic obstacles to get into a government program to train me for a new trade. Finally, the obstacles cleared, and there I was.

The person that I was working with at the California Employment Development Department (EDD) had a last name of “Camilo”. At the trade school I ended up attending, my contact there had “Camille” as her first name. My first day driving to school, to attend classes there, I happened to notice that along my route, was a trailer park with a big prominent lighted sign proclaiming its name as “Camellia Village”.

It seemed somehow significant to see variants on the same name pop up at each end of the process, and on a sign along the physical route that it sent me along on a daily basis.

A few weeks later, I was at my church, and noticed, on a bulletin board, a poster advertising an employment service offered by my church, and bearing a picture of a woman who bore a noticeable resemblance to Ms. Camilo at EDD (different enough that I wouldn't mistake one for the other, but definitely similar); and also, on the same bulletin board, another poster advertising an educational program offered by my church, and bearing a picture of a woman who similarly resembled Camille at my trade school.

Rationally, there's no reason why any of this ought to be assumed to mean anything, but I don't seem to be capable of seeing such a massive wave of coincidences, and to not think that it must mean something significant.

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Yes. I get feelings about stuff a lot. Like don't do this or you should do this and I'm always like "thank you!" and I've had dreams with things that later came true with my life. And I agree about finding patterns. Sometimes it's so obvious but a lot of times people definitely try to find them when they need them though. When that happens it's usually wrong I've found.
 
I agree. I generally think that the "sign" is something that causes a course correction. Or maybe a realization. I don't really go about looking for them, though I pray for help a lot lol.

I try to avoid them, but they often seem to find me, regardless. They aren't always a kindly thing in my experience. Just an honest thing.
 
Asking specifically about something I've been dealing with.
Excuse my skepticism, but: It sounds like you ignored what they were saying and doing, and heard a sentence or two relevant to a question you had in your mind. You could have turned on the TV, and gotten the same sign.

Our brains are very good at synthesizing connections, and imposing patterns on the world. (The technical term is apophenia.) If you're looking for signs or signals, it won't be long before you find one.
 
Interesting thought though huh? Even if you don't believe...isn't it odd that we would develop to see patterns of things when they aren't there?
It's not that odd. It's a by-product of how the brain works.

In most cases, the evolutionary costs of overdetermination (e.g. seeing too many patterns where they don't exist) is typically lower than that of underdetermination (e.g. not making connections enough of the time).

If you associate rustling of leaves at night with a powerful predator, and you act accordingly (bracing yourself, preparing to fight or flee), and the source of the rustling is a harmless bird instead of a lion, you haven't lost much or put yourself into too much danger. If you ignore the rustling because you fail to recognize it can be a predator, sooner or later you're going to be eaten.

There's a lot more to it than that. But basically, the ability to invent patterns where they don't exist does not play into a specific theology, ideology or philosophy. It's just something that happens.
 
yes, many times while driving
seems the other drivers frequently want to be sure to show me that i know that my driving skills are number 1 to them. it's a pattern i cannot ignore


two friends launched a soup kitchen and i agreed to help them with it. we began on a shoestring and lots of optimism. and very soon we were inundated with food donations from area grocers and small businesses. my inclination was to hoard the food so that we would have plenty going forward. one of the founders, a rabbi, said 'let's share what we have with others. G_d will provide'. so, i initially hoarded some, following my instincts and shared the rest, heeding my friend's admonition. we are now in our seventh year and have soup kitchens feeding the homeless six days per week, sometimes serving over 300 meals daily. and we only use about 30% of what is given to us. finding appropriate places that will serve as good stewards for the surplus food has proven more difficult than actually operating the soup kitchens. it took the better part of six years, but i have finally come to learn that my faithful friend was right, G_d will provide. while i remain unaffiliated with any religion, my personal belief has deepened from this experience
 
All of us are sent signs by universe, or God if you like, all the time. The signs are constant. We are often too distracted or doubtful to receive the messages.
 
Excuse my skepticism, but: It sounds like you ignored what they were saying and doing, and heard a sentence or two relevant to a question you had in your mind. You could have turned on the TV, and gotten the same sign.

Our brains are very good at synthesizing connections, and imposing patterns on the world. (The technical term is apophenia.) If you're looking for signs or signals, it won't be long before you find one.

I heard what they were saying clearly. The sentences they said relevant to me were out of place with the rest of the conversation. No relevance to their objective and it certainly wasn't going to get them to have a conversation with me. In fact...it didn't. But my wheels were turning while they gave me their schpeel. In fact I only opened the door cause I thought they were management.

Skepticism is fine. I would be too. But this was just odd. The words they used were basically saying exactly what I had been feeling and prayed over. They were looking to save people from the bad news in life. I'm looking to learn more about it. The context was weird for them to say what they did. Idk. You can be skeptical too. It is me that was there and needed to hear something ;)
 
It was weird because i had just come to a decision and they knocked. I've opened the Bible a few times now and everything I've read has applied. It is just weird.

So. Anyone else?

I don't use written religious material at all, to find direction. When I was young, I used to have that tendency, but I found it to be a dead end in my life. The only way I can really describe what I rely on, is a wide variety of (unrelated) factors will point in one direction, persistently and in a random fashion, and I observe for awhile, before acting or making a decision. I have also had such odd things happen wrt my close relationships and other matters of a personal nature, that I don't ignore when certain things occur, or present themselves in my reality, and I take note, and I prepare myself for what will likely be a wild ride. These influences in my life are not gentle. They push me to my limits.
 
I don't use written religious material at all, to find direction. When I was young, I used to have that tendency, but I found it to be a dead end in my life. The only way I can really describe what I rely on, is a wide variety of (unrelated) factors will point in one direction, persistently and in a random fashion, and I observe for awhile, before acting or making a decision. I have also had such odd things happen wrt my close relationships and other matters of a personal nature, that I don't ignore when certain things occur, or present themselves in my reality, and I take note, and I prepare myself for what will likely be a wild ride. These influences in my life are not gentle. They push me to my limits.

I got Ya. And I had kind of stopped reading the Bible for a while. I was in a Sunday school lesson this past summer about going to the well and refreshing myself. So I slowly started doing so again. And every once in a while something pops up.

It is just nice to know other people see these patterns and signs and don't ignore them either :).
 
I got Ya. And I had kind of stopped reading the Bible for a while. I was in a Sunday school lesson this past summer about going to the well and refreshing myself. So I slowly started doing so again. And every once in a while something pops up.

It is just nice to know other people see these patterns and signs and don't ignore them either :).

No, I most definitely don't ignore them. I learned not to do that long ago. I don't usually talk much about it, because it can really bother some people, but that doesn't change things at all. I just go with it, and typically keep it to myself.

(if this is something that you're really interested in, besides from a religious pov, I read a good book on the subject, just a couple of years ago, and would be happy to pm you with the title. You might find it interesting)
 
I feel I've been given many signs that God doesn't exist.
For example, when you work in medicine as I do, you see suffering on a daily basis and you just think, 'No. No reasonable, merciful God would have done this.'
 
I feel I've been given many signs that God doesn't exist.
For example, when you work in medicine as I do, you see suffering on a daily basis and you just think, 'No. No reasonable, merciful God would have done this.'

I have worked in medicine for 30 years, have done a lot of CPR, watched a lot of dying and misery, and quite frankly, I don't think that death and suffering is a God issue. It's a human reality, and a necessity for every single one of us at some point in time.
 
I have worked in medicine for 30 years, have done a lot of CPR, watched a lot of dying and misery, and quite frankly, I don't think that death and suffering is a God issue. It's a human reality, and a necessity for every single one of us at some point in time.

Death and dying isn't the issue for me lizzie. Yes death is inevitable. And a well managed death by palliative care experts, serene and pain free surrounded by those you love can be a very beautiful way to leave the planet for example. And yes, there's no greater feeling than when you've been part of a team that's saved a life through CPR.

I actually used the word "suffering" and for me it's the innocent child that dies of cancer, the excited new mother that experiences a stillbirth, the guy that can't get relief from his rheumatoid arthritis or the indignity of the person suffering the symptoms of Parkinsons or Huntingdons. For me personally, I can't believe a God would have designed things that way, and if (s)he did, I can't have respect for that.
 
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