michijo
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That's a load of crap. I am much happier in the town I live in now than the one I previously lived in. Where I live now is much better. I still have bad memories of the previous town. I remember being pretty happy in Turkey for instance. That's my own personal thing. I need to merely get away from America to some other land. I picked Bolivia because I think it will be cathartic to live in a place with so many indigenous. Alternatively I was going to go to New Mexico, following my theory that the USA and Europe are a repressive empire that attacks the indigenous globally and that they are better people to live around if you are sensitive and tired of repressive Europeans and their Christian religion.
You're not going to be happy wherever you go, at least not for long.
To explain why, the following story:
A farmer was working his field when a wagon came down the road. On it was a young couple and what was clearly all their belongings. They stopped to talk for a moment about the town up ahead. "What is it like?" they asked. "Are the people friendly?"
"What were things like in the town you came from?" the farmer asked.
"Oh," they said, "it was wonderful. Everyone was so nice, and we had so many friends... we never would have left except the sawmill shut down and Joe needed another place to work."
The farmer smiled. "You'll love the town ahead then, and I'm sure you'll have many friends and be very happy."
The family was pleased by this prognostication, and drove on.
After a while another wagon came by, with another young couple aboard with all their possessions.
They asked the farmer the same question about the town ahead, and he asked them the same question about the town they'd left.
"It was awful," they said, "everyone was selfish and stupid and greedy and snobbish, we had no friends and were very unhappy."
"Well," the farmer said, "I'm afraid you'll probably find it no different in the town ahead."
Grimly, the unhappy young couple drove on... towards the same town as the happy young couple had driven towards but an hour earlier.
Wherever you go, there you are. Most of the time it is YOU who brings the seeds of happiness and success or depression and destruction along with you.
Looking on the dark side seems a natural with you, so I doubt you're going to find happiness in this world, regardless of where you seek it, until you change that about yourself.