There is no thinking that Jesus was just a good guy with a good message.
Of course there is.
It's not entirely clear that the historical personage of Jesus thought he was in fact divine. Jewish history is full of people who claim to be the Messiah, without also claiming to be ontologically unified with Hashem, and it's not hard to imagine his followers interpolating those claims into his own words.
And no, I don't regard the New Testament as a 100% accurate historical document. It's a collection of gospels, documents designed to persuade people to join a religion. The Synoptic Gospels were almost certainly not written by people who personally knew him, let alone followed him around all day and took extensive notes on his actions and statements. A great deal of the New Testament was shaped in reaction to historical events in the times of the early Christian movement, its separation from Judaism, the repeated destruction of the Temples, the repeated failures of Jewish revolts, not to mention conflicts within the early Christian movements.
There is no yeah He's a historical person but I honestly don't think much about Him.
There is. It's what I do. To me, Jesus is a historical figure and source of curiosity, much like Nero or Claudius or JP Morgan. And I don't think he was either insane or evil.
He was a guy, with a fanatical religious-based hatred of Roman occupation, living in a time when miracle workers, self-proclaimed prophets and Messiahs were dime-a-dozen.
No, Jesus demands a response.
I feel no such necessity.
I might add that it is entirely possible to ignore an injunction to take "my way or the highway," and still learn something valuable. For example, Milton Friedman tolerated no dissent from his positions; that does not prevent me from accepting the concept of "regulatory capture," without also accepting his view that "nothing can stop regulatory capture" and/or "almost all government intervention is ineffective."
By claiming to be the Son of God, you must either accept Him or call Him a liar or a lunatic. If He's a liar then He's evil, and if He's a lunatic then He's not a good guy with a good message.
Or, we can attribute any claims that he is
literally divine as applied
post hoc by his followers.
There doesn't seem to be enough evidence to say he was a "liar or a lunatic." I certainly don't regard him as evil -- though some of his followers certainly were, notably those who tortured people in his name.
So the idea that people can see Jesus as a guy with a good philosophy and worthy of resepct: sorry, not good enough. You either must fully embrace Him or reject Him. There is no middle ground.
Fallacy: False Dilemma