You also appear to have an unusually low sex drive, and therefore cannot relate to those of us who have normal or relatively high sex drives. You apparently have not often experienced the feeling of needing (not just wanting) to ejaculate. You have not experienced what a nagging, frustrating, and
even painful, situation this can be. Hell I'd be surprised if you've even ever experienced an unwanted erection that you couldn't get rid of. During my late teens and early 20's, I couldn't get to sleep at night unless I did something because the situation downstairs was so uncomfortable. It wasn't so much for the gratification as it was a chore that just needed to be done. You don't know what that's like, do you? I do, and it sucked. Sometimes I even thought I'd be willing to give up sex forever if it meant I wasn't ****ing horny all the gd time.
This is one of the things that finally led me to conclude that many of the sex laws in the Bible were fabricated by men, not commanded by God. The God I believe in would not impose upon us a strong biological desire to have sex, only to turn around and put a bunch of pointless restrictions on it like "only if you're married, and oh by the way no masturbation either if you're not married." What kind of sick asshole would do such a thing? Certainly not God, since God is not an asshole. People, however...
The "no sex until marriage" laws also encourage people to get married too young. People in Biblical times got married around the time they hit puberty; they weren't expected to go years without sex while waiting to meet the right person to marry. Nowadays nobody would argue that getting married too young is a recipe for divorce. But these ancient and pointless sex rules encourage them to do exactly that.
By the way, Deuteronomy condemns wearing cotton and wool in the same garment, and planting two kinds of seeds in your vineyard. These are the same laws that originally condemn homosexuality. And these are supposed to be God's laws?? No, these were obviously written by men. God gave us reason and logic, we owe it to Him to sniff out this BS for what it is and live in peace and harmony with each other like He really wants, instead of casting judgement about who is and is not a sinner based on pointless laws that were obviously made up by cave men.