Because the government is concerned about ALL the people, both as individuals and as a group, not just you, which makes the question far more complex than the way that X Factor answered it.
I agree with this, but I also think that, in principle, the government is supposed to work in our favor given that our leaders are elected with our vote and removed with our vote. They are supposed to answer to us, therefore, I don't think it's inherently flawed or ignorant to think the government should work in our favor or demand the leaders work for our favor.
We shouldn't have think the government is naturally against us... we simply don't want the government to restrict us or our rights either. It's not the same thing. I can expect my rights will not be violated and expect my elected leaders do what is in my interest. I think it's pretty simple... at least to understand how it is supposed to work in the minds of the founders (perfect union, justice, domestic tranquility), but in modern times, government itself complicates the above question in part because the voice of the governed is more diverse now.
Government creates an agency between many people, wanting different things... sometimes wanting to use the government as a vehicle to impose their wills and morals on others or restrict the rights of others. This agency causes us to not trust government, and not trust political foes.. it creates divisiveness in our society.
Yes, government is a problem... but it's not the problem. The problem is the agency itself and I don't trust other people in society getting a vote in my rights, and getting to vote on what is best for me.
I stand for everybody to have rights, and I am against using the government to restrict the rights of others.. But unlike some of the founders I don't think rights are natural or inalienable. All rights are privileges the government grants to us, and the government must recognize them before we can exercise our rights freely without punishment (it's only a right, when the gov says so). The social construction of rights exist and must exist to justify the existence of government, and the founders were keen on the philosophy of natural rights... because it fit well into whole idea that government works for you via your vote idea and it naturally should.
Well, I am not offering an answer... just rambling. It's a complicated question and I don't really agree 100% with the enlightenment philosophy of the founders.