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Why aren't women happy???

Ah, nonesense.. Well not really, I was just happy to see you posting again. :)

To the OP.. My woman is happy. She told me so, and since I'm a guy, I take it no further than that. :)


Tim-

I always said, "Happy Wife, Happy Life" unfortunately, I married a woman that was/is unable and unwilling to be happy. :(

:)
 
I think you pretty much overthink everything in general.

Well, when it comes to something that I want to think about, I probably do.
When it comes to something that does not interest me, I think nothing about it.

I certainly think about an issue from every aspect when I can...
 
according to einstein's edipus complex theory, it's because of penis envy or something. (That's what he thinks not me)
 
according to einstein's edipus complex theory, it's because of penis envy or something. (That's what he thinks not me)

More likely Freud...
 
Your probably correct.
 
Dream On.. I am sure you are used to it:)
 
Dream On.. I am sure you are used to it:)

QFT.

As to women and unhappiness, it still beats me. And I strongly believe that the number of unhappy men and women is probably equal.
 
I'll tell you why. Women keep thinking men are better than women. I personally do not think so.

Plus, some women don't even think men are as capable of doing anything anymore since the late 19th and 20th centuries.
 
But then doesn't this conversation switch gears from "Women are unhappy" to "Men are why"?
 
A thought occured to me...

Some have claimed (both light-heartedly and not), that the reason women are unhappy is men.

Is it possible, then, that it is not the men making women unhappy, so much as the men not meeting the standards set mentally by the women?

In other words, it's not our fault, it's yours?

:mrgreen:

*hides in flame bunker*
 
*peeks out of bunker*

Hmm, all quiet...
 
In my wife's circle of friends, many of them are unhappy because their husbands want too much sex.

Of course, those are the guys who get some maybe once every two weeks or more. Poor guys.
 
It has been my observation that, in general, women tend to over-analyze everything. They are always looking for some hidden meaning in everything men do or say. Face it ladies, men aren't that complicated. Oh, and don't ask us questions that you don't want an honest answer to. ( ie, of course those pants make your butt look big)
 
A thought occured to me...

Some have claimed (both light-heartedly and not), that the reason women are unhappy is men.

Is it possible, then, that it is not the men making women unhappy, so much as the men not meeting the standards set mentally by the women?

In other words, it's not our fault, it's yours?

:mrgreen:

*hides in flame bunker*

You are correct, it is our fault for expecting men to have half a brain and use it.
 
It has been my observation that, in general, women tend to over-analyze everything. They are always looking for some hidden meaning in everything men do or say. Face it ladies, men aren't that complicated. Oh, and don't ask us questions that you don't want an honest answer to. ( ie, of course those pants make your butt look big)

In my experience, it's next to impossible to GET an honest answer out of a man. So, I just don't ask men anything I actually expect and want an honest answer about. For one thing, I have eyes and access to a mirror. I know if something makes me "look fat". And if for some insane reason I can't figure it out, I'm sure as **** not going to ask a man. Because he's NEVER going to give me an honest answer about it. Just like you can't get an honest answer about "what's wrong?", Or "Do you really want to be in this relationship?", or any number of other things that men so frequently blatantly lie about.

So don't give me this "don't ask questions you don't want honest answers to" when it comes to men. Because quite frankly, honesty is many a man's most lacking quality. :2razz:
 
So don't give me this "don't ask questions you don't want honest answers to" when it comes to men. Because quite frankly, honesty is many a man's most lacking quality. :2razz:

Generally, they are just too busy doing their best impression of jello being nailed to a wall.
 
Generally, they are just too busy doing their best impression of jello being nailed to a wall.

No ****ing ****. And I just realized as I typed the previous sentence that it's going to be all asterisked out. LOL
 
really, truthfully, honestly...sometimes the answer to "what's wrong?" actually is "nothing". And, in our defense, most of the time we are too busy trying to figure out the "right" answer to give an honest answer. (hence the perpetual jello imitation)

There are 3 main things a man needs from a woman sustenance, sex and silence or as Chris Rock so eloquently stated,

"Feed Me, F**K Me, Shut the F**k up" :mrgreen::lol::2razz:
 
really, truthfully, honestly...sometimes the answer to "what's wrong?" actually is "nothing". And, in our defense, most of the time we are too busy trying to figure out the "right" answer to give an honest answer.

There are 3 main things a man needs from a woman sustenance, sex and silence or as Chris Rock so eloquently stated,

"Feed Me, F**K Me, Shut the F**k up" :mrgreen::lol::2razz:

Uh huh. Yeah, you SAY that. But I've yet to ****ing find a man where that's actually true. I've been searching for him. But I don't think he exists.

And, btw... unless you married Betty ****ing Crocker, feed yourself. :2razz:

And, most often the answer to "what's wrong" is "I don't want to tell you because I'm avoiding confrontation. So instead of talking about it, I'm going to stew and stew on it until I explode. And then I'm going to cheat on you and blame you for not knowing what was wrong and failing to keep me happy."
 
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It has been my observation that, in general, women tend to over-analyze everything. They are always looking for some hidden meaning in everything men do or say. Face it ladies, men aren't that complicated. Oh, and don't ask us questions that you don't want an honest answer to. ( ie, of course those pants make your butt look big)

I totally agree with you, Oscar. Women think far too much.
 
Uh huh. Yeah, you SAY that. But I've yet to ****ing find a man where that's actually true. I've been searching for him. But I don't think he exists.
that's because he is either already married or is gay



And, most often the answer to "what's wrong" is "I don't want to tell you because I'm avoiding confrontation. So instead of talking about it, I'm going to stew and stew on it until I explode. And then I'm going to cheat on you and blame you for not keeping me happy and knowing what was wrong."
seen that happen, but that one goes both ways. I don't know which is worse, the "nothing" avoid confrontation answer from men or the "If you don't know then I'm not going to tell you" answer from women.
 
You are correct, it is our fault for expecting men to have half a brain and use it.
Touché.

:mrgreen:

More seriously though, if the problem is "men", then probably it's because disagreements arise due to (if I recall correctly) men’s brains being wired differently than women’s. Or perhaps it's a combination of brain differences mixed with hormone differences?

If that's not the same thing...

Ah hell, what do I know.

Basically, what I’m saying is that something that will get one response from this dude over here, will get a totally different response from that gal over there.

Of course, that’s the same with any two given people, no matter the gender…

But I think a woman would be more likely to agree with another woman, and a man with another man, in generalized terms..

Very generalized…
 
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