• This is a political forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every person's position on topics equally. This debate forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate. If this is your first visit to our political forums, be sure to check out the RULES. Registering for debate politics is necessary before posting. Register today to participate - it's free!

Why aren't women happy???

rivrrat said:
You know, that's actually one of the appealing things for me as far as getting pregnant. The idea that I can eat whatever the **** I want and be "fat" and it's "okay". :lol:
Click to expand...

I think I got even skinnier when I was pregnant, except for my belly.
I get real bad nausea every time I'm pregnant; like, not only does all food disgust me, but most smells trigger my gag reflex, and even unpleasant thoughts make me projectile vomit.
I was looking forward to gaining weight with the first pregnancy; hoping I'd finally grow some boobs.
No such luck. :lol:
 
1069 said:
I think I got even skinnier when I was pregnant, except for my belly.
I get real bad nausea every time I'm pregnant; like, not only does all food disgust me, but most smells trigger my gag reflex, and even unpleasant thoughts make me projectile vomit.
I was looking forward to gaining weight with the first pregnancy; hoping I'd finally grow some boobs.
No such luck. :lol:
Click to expand...

Yeah :( I can see that. My experiences with pregnancy, short lived though they may have been, were pretty much constant nausea, vomiting, and breasts so sore it hurt to MOVE. I just figured that would go away and then I could eat myself into oblivion. LOL

Every gal is different though, hell every pregnancy is different for that matter.

I can't believe you didn't get mega boobs though. Could you not breast feed?
 
rivrrat said:
Yeah :( I can see that. My experiences with pregnancy, short lived though they may have been, were pretty much constant nausea, vomiting, and breasts so sore it hurt to MOVE. I just figured that would go away and then I could eat myself into oblivion. LOL

Every gal is different though, hell every pregnancy is different for that matter.

I can't believe you didn't get mega boobs though. Could you not breast feed?
Click to expand...

I breastfed both kids.
I mean, I do have boobs; they're just small.
They didn't get a whole lot bigger when I was nursing; they just got hard as rocks, and painful. That's when all my troubles began (fibrocystic breast disorder).
I swear they are so uncomfortable so much of the time now that if I could have an elective double mastectomy, I would. Doctor keeps telling me that fibrocystic breast disorder usually resolves itself after menopause, so I'm looking forward to that.
 
Last edited:
Harry Guerrilla said:
That's not what I said at all.

Some people put pressure on a woman (see woman's lib or SAHM movements) to do things, that she may not want to do.
It is up to each woman, individually to decide that.
Click to expand...

Bosses put pressure on men to do things, and they don't get to decide anything... Adapt to the will of your boss or lose your job. Been there, done that. It's as simple as that. So which sex is really the repressed?

ricksfolly
 
Uh-oh Bill, now look what you've done, you've upset her!

Aunt Spiker said:
:rofl Why don't you? Why not? Who cares?

Well - I don't cling to gender-roles so I guess I'm exempt from all that thinking and such. My husband corrects me all the time and I couldn't care less! If I'm wrong I'm wrong :shrug: If I **** up I **** up.

We're either *in* the age of equality for men/women or we're not :shrug: I don't understand, condone or further gender-inequality stuff.

My husband and I butt heads on that all the time - I don't condone differential treatment and he does.
You know what happened to his views on certain things: like teaching our youngest (4) not to hit girls (like his sister who's 6) - she started beating up on him and bullying him around telling him "you can't hit girls! Dad said!".
Click to expand...
 
Bodhisattva said:
Uh-oh Bill, now look what you've done, you've upset her!
Click to expand...

Well, she's some other man's problem, right? THEY SAY those kinds of things, but act differently, depending on some magical formula that science will never get solved. The one good rule that seems to make sense, "if mom is happy, everybody is happy"...so keep her happy...:2razz:
 
Because they are working too many women have jobs now and it is against their genes to doso. If they were suppose to work god would tell them but the bible says they should stay at home with the kids and make dinner.
 
AmericanSon316 said:
Because they are working too many women have jobs now and it is against their genes to doso. If they were suppose to work god would tell them but the bible says they should stay at home with the kids and make dinner.
Click to expand...

Your first post here and you didn't make it clear that you are using sarcasm? If you are not using sarcasm, you is in a heap of trouble....:shock:
 
UtahBill said:
Your first post here and you didn't make it clear that you are using sarcasm? If you are not using sarcasm, you is in a heap of trouble....:shock:
Click to expand...

And one wonders what they are to do after the children are grown.
 
BDBoop said:
I'm the same kind of simple, without the ***** & beer. She needs to know the baby is forever, and babies ARE 'spensive! The frugal needs to be most of the time; changes need to be made.
Click to expand...

She has had friends with kids and she knows all to well. I just want to be able to give her all I can for a short time, because after the baby is burn she is my #2 priority.
 
1069 said:
I think I got even skinnier when I was pregnant, except for my belly.
I get real bad nausea every time I'm pregnant; like, not only does all food disgust me, but most smells trigger my gag reflex, and even unpleasant thoughts make me projectile vomit.
I was looking forward to gaining weight with the first pregnancy; hoping I'd finally grow some boobs.
No such luck. :lol:
Click to expand...

Her one boob is growing the other one isn't. It is sad and cute at the same time. She can't stand ketchup and a lot of other stuff right now. She has always had a little meat on her, she is 5'4 and weights about 160 right now. She gains like 5 lbs a week. It's pretty nuts. The baby also is apparently bigger than average by this point. We also no can have sex until October and that isn't going to help either of us out with burning calories. :(
 
UtahBill said:
Well, she's some other man's problem, right? THEY SAY those kinds of things, but act differently, depending on some magical formula that science will never get solved. The one good rule that seems to make sense, "if mom is happy, everybody is happy"...so keep her happy...:2razz:
Click to expand...

I always said, "happy wife happy life" unfortunately I unknowingly married a paranoid delusion with clinical depression. So unhappy me til we divorced last year. :)
 
UtahBill said:
Your first post here and you didn't make it clear that you are using sarcasm? If you are not using sarcasm, you is in a heap of trouble....:shock:
Click to expand...

What sarcasm read the bible. Come back when you have something good to say.
 
Anyone, man or women, who says he's happy is lying. Sure, he/she may have brief moments of feeling good, but it doesn't last, not in this veil of tears.

ricksfolly
 
AmericanSon316 said:
What sarcasm read the bible. Come back when you have something good to say.
Click to expand...

From the guy that brought you chickie and the producers of GayLibertarian comes the summer blockbuster you aren't going to want to miss!
 
1069 said:
I breastfed both kids.
I mean, I do have boobs; they're just small.
Click to expand...
Pics or I can't believe you. ;)

I realize that you have boobs, I was just wondering if you produced enough milk to breastfeed if they didn't swell much during/after pregnancy.

They didn't get a whole lot bigger when I was nursing; they just got hard as rocks, and painful. That's when all my troubles began (fibrocystic breast disorder).
I swear they are so uncomfortable so much of the time now that if I could have an elective double mastectomy, I would. Doctor keeps telling me that fibrocystic breast disorder usually resolves itself after menopause, so I'm looking forward to that.
Click to expand...
Ugh. Hard to imagine someone looking forward to menopause. LOL But I hear ya. I figure anyone that uncomfortable would look for any kind of relief.


ricksfolly said:
Anyone, man or women, who says he's happy is lying. Sure, he/she may have brief moments of feeling good, but it doesn't last, not in this veil of tears.

ricksfolly
Click to expand...

Dude, seriously.... they have medication now to help with this stuff...
 
Actually - in my usage we're both wrong . . . it would be 'case on point'
 
JohnWOlin said:
Well....she is prego right now so for now I bend to her every whim.
Click to expand...

thats a good thing to do especially if you ever again want to partake in the activities that got her that way. LOL :O
 
JohnWOlin said:
From the guy that brought you chickie and the producers of GayLibertarian comes the summer blockbuster you aren't going to want to miss!
Click to expand...

roflmao...ok, thats some funny ****, i dont care who ya are!
 
The correct answer to the question is probably: They are.

Or in more detail: Sometimes they are, sometimes they're not, just like all us men.
 
JohnWOlin said:
From the guy that brought you chickie and the producers of GayLibertarian comes the summer blockbuster you aren't going to want to miss!
Click to expand...

My sentiments exactly.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom