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Should adultery be a criminal offense punishable by jailtime?

Should adultery be a criminal offense punishable by jailtime?

  • Obviously! It should carry MMS and strict for 2nd++ offense..

    Votes: 2 3.1%
  • Yes, jailtime.

    Votes: 2 3.1%
  • Yah, first fine, then jail, mild jail time.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Hmm.. Perhaps..

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • No..

    Votes: 57 87.7%
  • Something else(explain).

    Votes: 4 6.2%

  • Total voters
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If I ever hurt a woman by cheating on her I would accept being jailed as fair punishment for my idiocy, my stupid behavior and the possibility that I broke her heart, her mental stability and short term future.

If we were married and had children I would be happy to spend time in jail to get punished for putting those children in a bad situation that it would when their mother (most likely) divorced me, and getting them from a stable, safe and good situation into (for a child) confusing and bad situation.

I dont care about your personal sentiments regarding the matter at hand. Sorry, they don't validate your argument. Please try and focus on debating rationally.
 
I dont care about your personal sentiments regarding the matter at hand. Sorry, they don't validate your argument. Please try and focus on debating rationally.

I am.. I just said that it would be completely okay if I was jailed for adultery. Showing my broad and unbias support in favor of criminalizing it.

If I was married I would never cheat on my wife, I would actually never cheat on anyone if they so were just a short term girlfriend. Id rather divorce/dump and then go with the other women if I had so strong lusts for her.
 
So what if you're sexually liberal - you and your wife, and like to swing. Wife-swapping.

Is that adultery? By it's basic definition it is.

Yes.. But in reality when I talk about criminalizing adultery I am only talking about cases where the offended party wants to press charges for it. Actually giving her/him the possibility and right in the legal system of doing so with consequences for the cheater debatable everywhere from losing all rights to children/money in divorce and/or fines and/or short term jail and and more severe consequences for subsequent offenders.
 
Jailing someone with financial or child-rearing obligations to the family for what ammounts to a moral offense within the marriage seems like a really great way of making sure that family ends up poor, since that financial or child-rearing support will be lost the moment an arrest occurs.

Childhood poverty is one of the major indicators when it comes to predicting liklihood for future criminal activity.

This kind of arrangement only makes sense for people who work in the criminal justice system.

Not to mention the difficulty in getting yourself another job when you're fresh out of jail with a brand new criminal record.

Yeah, really great idea all around. :doh
 
Not to mention the difficulty in getting yourself another job when you're fresh out of jail with a brand new criminal record.

Yeah, really great idea all around. :doh

Hmm.

Maybe if you tell your boss you went in for sleeping around, you'll get promoted . . . :lol:
 
I am.. I just said that it would be completely okay if I was jailed for adultery. Showing my broad and unbias support in favor of criminalizing it.
Who gives a ****?? I don't care about your personal life and I never will because this a forum about debating issues, not how Max Z lives his life.. Even if you were a hypocrite it has no bearing on the validity of your claims.

If I was married I would never cheat on my wife, I would actually never cheat on anyone if they so were just a short term girlfriend. Id rather divorce/dump and then go with the other women if I had so strong lusts for her.
Who gives a ****? This does NOTHING to support your position. I don't care about your personal life, I care about your arguments. And so far your personal life gives not legitimacy to your claims. Please debate rationally.
 
If I ever hurt a woman by cheating on her I would accept being jailed as fair punishment for my idiocy, my stupid behavior and the possibility that I broke her heart, her mental stability and short term future.

If we were married and had children I would be happy to spend time in jail to get punished for putting those children in a bad situation that it would when their mother (most likely) divorced me, and getting them from a stable, safe and good situation into (for a child) confusing and bad situation.

Jailed for breaking her heart?? Jesus you really need to step into reality here, man. People get their hearts broken all the fricken time. You don't put someone in jail for breaking someone's heart! The idea is absolutely preposterous.

What if you just didn't want to be married to her anymore and broke her heart by way of asking for a divorce... should you be jailed? I mean, you DID break her heart?

The more you continue talking, the more I think you can't possibly be serious with this nonsense.
 
Who gives a ****?? I don't care about your personal life and I never will because this a forum about debating issues, not how Max Z lives his life.. Even if you were a hypocrite it has no bearing on the validity of your claims.

Who gives a ****? This does NOTHING to support your position. I don't care about your personal life, I care about your arguments. And so far your personal life gives not legitimacy to your claims. Please debate rationally.

Sure. I have been doing it all through this thread and will continue to do so when I return.
 
I am.. I just said that it would be completely okay if I was jailed for adultery. Showing my broad and unbias support in favor of criminalizing it.

If I was married I would never cheat on my wife, I would actually never cheat on anyone if they so were just a short term girlfriend. Id rather divorce/dump and then go with the other women if I had so strong lusts for her.

So you would break a woman's heart... devastate her emotionally... cause her undue pain and suffering... by divorcing/dumping her? You should be jailed for such a thing! Causing someone else pain of ANY kind should be a jail-able offense!

I mean... right?
 
I sue for primary custody, this causes their mother pain. This is in their best interest because of the people she has living in that house.

Their mother's emotions shouldn't even be a consideration. All that matters is the best interest of your kids.

Filling divorce caused her pain, so you don't support filling for divorce.

You know that isn't what I said. I specifically said that your self respect was a valid reason. You have every right to want to cause her pain Jerry. I don't blame you one bit. Your feelings are valid. In my experience, it's a fruitless endeavor. You will never be able to cause her the pain she has caused you. In order to do that, she has to care about you. She obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. That's why she cheated and you didn't. She's moved on. You won't be able to live rent-free in her head as she has yours. IMO, it's best to cut your losses and concentrate on your children and moving on.

I hurt her when I didn't trust her with sole access to our joint tax return, and started walking away from filling until *I* had sole access. There were no insults, no names, and no raised voices. Simply not trusting her is what hurt her.

She shouldn't have felt hurt. You had no reason to trust her. She was hurt by the loss of money.

My emotional motivation there was to not allow her to walk all over me again, not revenge.

And you have accomplished that. She can't cheat on you anymore.

You don't support my standing firm, though, because it hurt her feelings, just as you don't support my filing on her for the same reason.

You are being emotional. It's understandable. I do support you standing firm. I'm not trying to cause you grief. I'm trying to help you not waste energy on caring about her feelings. You will never cause her the pain that you feel. You were betrayed in the worst way. You didn't deserve it. You can't cause her undeserved pain. She won't have the confusion as to why that I am sure you had. She'll know exactly why. She'll see it as revenge, deserved.
 
Nah, its not important.. You just misunderstood what I said and than used the simplest way of responding to it, rather than responding to what I actually said. Not important, I had a long day at work, dont want to cycle back in last posts and show you the context. Sorry.

That's a cop out.

What I'll do is assume you refuse to formulate the response because you are incapable of formulating it, not because you are unwilling to formulate it.




So you agree adultery must be prevented by the extent the state can prevent it? by criminalizing it? not just to prevent adultery but all the destructive behaviour and results that follow?

Of course not.

If the fact that those destructive behaviors are ALREADY crimes in and of themselves is not enough to prevent them, how does making something else a crime prevent them?

And since we're already on the topic, if the fact that these things are crimes does not prevent these crimes, what makes you think they will prevent adultery? And even if it prevents X amount of instances, how can you be sure that it would prevent even a single instance that would eventually lead to these destructive behaviors?


Lets say 1% of adultery cases end up with these destructive behaviors you speak of.

Now lets say that making adultery a crime would prevent 96% of all the adultery cases in a society.

that STILL doesn't mean that a single violent crime would be prevented, even if we assume the adultery not occurring would have prevented the crime because hypothetically, every single instance of destructive behavior, violence or murder, could fall within that 4% of unpreventable adultery cases.

You are trying to argue for a hypothetical you can't even be sure would occur without a single shred of evidence to suggest it even would have teh rates of efficacy I suggested in my example above.

If anything, it probably wouldn't have an effect at all because people who cheat don't THINK about the ramifications as evidenced by the fact that cheating in and of itself assumes that you won;t get caught because there are ALREADY ramifications that exist.

In order to prove that making adultery a criminal offense would prevent murder and violence against adulterers, you must FIRT show that it woudl prevent adultery.

Have at it. I anxiously await some EVIDENCE of this view.

Because all you've given so far is your opinion of how you HOPE it would work.

But as the old saying goes, hope in one hand **** in the other and see which one fills up faster.
 
Well hold on, individual private citizens do not press criminal charges. They never did.

The State presses criminal charges.

If adultery became a criminal offence it would by definition become an offence against the State.

So you should be asking why the State would want to make adultery a criminal act.

This particular interchange between us came when you responded to me regarding my response to Max on the following question:

If you had the possibility of pressing charges against that women and have her jailed for a short time, would you have done it?

Thus, I responded about the possibility of pressing charges, meaning the law was changed to the point that pressing charges were included in the law.

So therefore, your above response is pretty irrelevant to my points.
 
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Their mother's emotions shouldn't even be a consideration. All that matters is the best interest of your kids.

You know that isn't what I said. I specifically said that your self respect was a valid reason. You have every right to want to cause her pain Jerry. I don't blame you one bit. Your feelings are valid. In my experience, it's a fruitless endeavor. You will never be able to cause her the pain she has caused you. In order to do that, she has to care about you. She obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. That's why she cheated and you didn't. She's moved on. You won't be able to live rent-free in her head as she has yours. IMO, it's best to cut your losses and concentrate on your children and moving on.

She shouldn't have felt hurt. You had no reason to trust her. She was hurt by the loss of money.

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You are being emotional. It's understandable. I do support you standing firm. I'm not trying to cause you grief. I'm trying to help you not waste energy on caring about her feelings. You will never cause her the pain that you feel. You were betrayed in the worst way. You didn't deserve it. You can't cause her undeserved pain. She won't have the confusion as to why that I am sure you had. She'll know exactly why. She'll see it as revenge, deserved.

It's like you're trying to be one of those physics that makes general statements and reads into your subjects responses instead of knowing the actual truth.

I recommend you take a different career. Not only are you off the mark in putting words in my mouth, your feigned sympathy holds no voice with me.

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And you have accomplished that. She can't cheat on you anymore.
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You're wrong there.

She's cheating on me now. She will be cheating on me with any boyfriend she ever has. This is a tangent to the discussion but worth pointing out.

The secular municipal vow said "until death", not "until divorce". Adding to that the religious rules we were married under, the permanency of the union is quite clear.
 
So you would break a woman's heart... devastate her emotionally... cause her undue pain and suffering... by divorcing/dumping her? You should be jailed for such a thing! Causing someone else pain of ANY kind should be a jail-able offense!

I mean... right?

Even if there is no adultery I think there should be a hefty divorse tax to help compensate for society damage

and to make people take marriage more seriously and not just jump in it with the attitude "I can just upgrade later"

or simply exchange their spouse for a new one every five years.

(I am stating this even though I was lucky enough to be one of the most popular in my school, and am lucky enough to be attractive to many woman)
 
This particular interchange between us came when you responded to me regarding my response to Max on the following question:

Thus, I responded about the possibility of pressing charges, meaning the law was changed to the point that pressing charges were included in the law.

So therefore, your above response is pretty irrelevant to my points.

You CAN press charges, just not criminal charges.

If you could press criminal charges you would be a prosecutor, and in that event you would be obliged to follow the law and the decision to charge or not charge would not be yours.
 
It's like you're trying to be one of those physics that makes general statements and reads into your subjects responses instead of knowing the actual truth.

I recommend you take a different career. Not only are you off the mark in putting words in my mouth, your feigned sympathy holds no voice with me.

Jerry, I like you. I don't know why you think that I am feigning sympathy for you. I don't feign sympathy for anyone. I am not a psychologist nor a psychiatrist. I don't think it's fair for you to characterize my concern this way. You can tell me I am wrong. You can disregard what I say. But I ask you not to impugn my integrity here. I am sincere about what I said.

You're wrong there.

She's cheating on me now. She will be cheating on me with any boyfriend she ever has. This is a tangent to the discussion but worth pointing out.

The secular municipal vow said "until death", not "until divorce". Adding to that the religious rules we were married under, the permanency of the union is quite clear.

So you didn't ask for the divorce then?

I'm sorry.
 
You CAN press charges, just not criminal charges.

If you could press criminal charges you would be a prosecutor, and in that event you would be obliged to follow the law and the decision to charge or not charge would not be yours.

Let me quote the initial qustion for a third time. Please take the time to read ALL of it

But since the question was specifically:
If you had the possibility of pressing charges against that women and have her jailed for a short time, would you have done it?

Obviously your continued attempts to turn this into a discussion of civil law is just trolling. Please stop.
 
Let me quote the initial qustion for a third time. Please take the time to read ALL of it

But since the question was specifically:

Obviously your continued attempts to turn this into a discussion of civil law is just trolling. Please stop.

Again, if you can have her jailed, you are pressing criminal charges. If you can press criminal charges, you are a prosecutor. If you are a prosecutor, you press the charges the DA wants pressed and the decision isn't yours.
 
Even if there is no adultery I think there should be a hefty divorse tax to help compensate for society damage

and to make people take marriage more seriously and not just jump in it with the attitude "I can just upgrade later"

or simply exchange their spouse for a new one every five years.

(I am stating this even though I was lucky enough to be one of the most popular in my school, and am lucky enough to be attractive to many woman)

Then poor abused women would have to put up with abuse as they couldn't afford to leave.
 
Again, if you can have her jailed, you are pressing criminal charges. If you can press criminal charges, you are a prosecutor. If you are a prosecutor, you press the charges the DA wants pressed and the decision isn't yours.

Prosecuters FILE charges.

Pressing charges can be done by anyone. It means a formal accusation of crime.

Now stop trolling.
 
Even if there is no adultery I think there should be a hefty divorse tax to help compensate for society damage
What damage? I'm the son of divorced parents. Please tell me about these "damages".

and to make people take marriage more seriously and not just jump in it with the attitude "I can just upgrade later"
Because that's what adulterers think, right?

or simply exchange their spouse for a new one every five years.
how old are you where you think this fantasy world you've created resembles reality?

(I am stating this even though I was lucky enough to be one of the most popular in my school, and am lucky enough to be attractive to many woman)
family members don't count Jim Bob. :mrgreen:
 
Prosecuters FILE charges.

Pressing charges can be done by anyone. It means a formal accusation of crime.

Now stop trolling.

You cannot sue someone for jail time.

You can only sue for monitory damages.

The perpetrator can only receive jail time if they are found guilty of a criminal charge, which is a crime against The People.

Adultery is not a criminal offence; therefore an adulterous cannot receive jail time.

If adultery were a criminal offence, then the State would either charge her in conjunction with your civil suit or have to peruse charges independently if you chose not to file.

If you find yourself in the position to choose rather to charge or not charge for a criminal offence, then you are a DA.
 
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