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I'm not exactly sick of them...but I do think they sometimes go too far, and I find it idiotic when they do. Examples:
1. There was a university in Sweden recently that removed all the urinals from the men's restrooms, with the intent of forcing men to sit while urinating. The idea was that, somehow or other, when a man stands up to urinate, he is expressing his disdain for women and his superiority over them. I doubt very seriously such thoughts are widespread among urinating men, however--usually when I make a pit stop, my thoughts aren't about how superior I am to a woman because I can urinate standing up. My thoughts are usually more like "Aaaahhhh....now make sure not to get any on your pants." The university in question originally thought to hire monitors in men's restrooms to force men to sit while urinating, but fortunately the administration realized that would be going too far (and would be probably illegal). So now all the men just urinate standing up in a standard stall.
2. One of my colleagues, a few years ago, passed around a sheet listing examples of microaggression. Some were understandable (i.e. don't ask black students whether they play basketball or football for the campus team--assumes the only reason a black person would be at the university is through an athletic scholarship). Some were not--the sheet listed saying "hello" to someone else as a microaggression, though I don't recall the justification because it made no damn sense. I smile and say hello to people every day, despite the advice of this colleague, and I've never gotten the impression that anyone to whom I smile and say hello has been injured.
3. Trigger-warnings are, for the most part, bloody ridiculous. I get it for a soldier who has seen combat and who may not want to hear my compadres in the humanities or history departments lecturing in too much detail about the results of war, or a survivor of sexual assault not wanting to delve too deeply into the philosophy of sex. Those cases are comparatively rare. But many students these days want to use such as an excuse to not confront difficult and uncomfortable topics. Guess what? You're in college now, this is real life, and you damn well have to confront stuff that makes you uncomfortable. Can't hide your head in the sand your whole life.
In general, all human beings ought to be treated with equality and decency. But as with the pursuit of any ideal, it's certainly possible to go overboard.
Well, you're a very patient person and you deserve respect for being so.
I doubt many are as patient as you, because for me, points #2 and 3 are just another example of "tearing out more urinals".
In the movie Thelma and Louise, the viewer learns that Louise was raped in Texas, hence the reason she shot Thelma's rapist to begin with.
And along their journey, Thelma finds out that Louise has absolutely NO intention of talking about her experience in Texas, because on the two occasions that Thelma gently inquired, it evoked a fairly harsh response from Louise.
If you've seen the movie, you know what I am talking about. That would be a fair example of "triggering" as regards PTSD.
Today you can't walk five yards on a college campus without inadvertently "triggering" some wilting little "flower" or so it would seem.
Enough, this is ridiculous and I am indeed sick and tired of it.
Micro-aggressions? Same...enough, I am sick of it. Apparently my very existence is a micro-aggression.
Yeah well, sorry but I won't be killing myself so the micro-aggressions shall continue.
You're too nice and patient to say you're sick and tired of them. But you're clearly on the boat, and welcome.