Re: Is being born white a privilege?
A conversation about white prvilege got me thinking about what it means. If it is, indeed, a privilege to be born white in the US, what does that say or mean for people who aren't white? What would be the appropriate characterization of their births? Attaching poll.
The best anology I've ever heard is playing an RPG game where your stats are randomly generated.
Some people get Easy Mode: a combination of life factors that are going to tilt the odds of fortune in your favor. White, male, able-bodied, straight, born into a well-off family.
Some people get Hard Mode: a combination of life factors that are going to tilt the odds of fortune against you. POC, female, disabled, queer, poor.
There's more, of course.
The point is, the game is still theoretically winnable or losable either way. There's still dragons in both versions and they can still kill you. There's still gold and you can still get it. But people playing Hard Mode have to work more, roll the dice more frequently to get a good number, etc, in order to win. There's a lot more ways to die, and a lot more ways to fall short of the stats you need for success.
Most people are some sort of combination of these factors, with both Easy and Hard variables. Few people get pure Easy Mode, or pure Hard Mode. But being born white is definitely a big tick in the Easy Mode category.
Essentially, being born white means you're probably in a better school district, you're less likely to be stopped by the police, and less likely to go to jail if you're stopped and they find something. You're less likely to experience hate crime, more likely to have better access to state resources, more likely to be successful in college (due to the better K-12 school district you went to). All of those things are big advantages in life.
It means you got lucky, in that respect. It also means that the people playing racial Hard Mode are experiencing stuff you don't, and therefore stuff you can't see. And that's why it's important to be a good listener and to be open to doing the research on the evidence when talking about racial issues. As a white person, they are invisible to you.