Seriously, you're not paying attention then. The left does their level best to disinvite speakers, shut people up and call people names to discredit them. They're the ones on college campuses pulling fire alarms to shut down speakers they don't like. They're the ones throwing fits. They're the ones insisting white people can't come to school. This is the liberals. This is what they're like.
Blacks, like it or not, commit a vastly disproportionate number of violent crimes. They get shot because they've EARNED IT! They try to grab cops' guns. And of course, when you try to hold them accountable, you get called a racist. The fact is, the world isn't a terrible place, unless you live in the Middle East. The left are just spending all of their time whining and having absurdly unrealistic expectations.
The reason the left loses so badly is because of what the left has become. Everyone is sick of it. Because we have a two-party system, when the left loses, the right wins. That's just how it is. Maybe the left should stop being assholes.
Feminists, at least 3rd and 4th wave feminists, are overwhelmingly far left. And the left, in general, hates straight white men. Therefore, they do their level best to abuse same because it fits their narrative. 1st and 2nd wave feminism had something worth fighting for. They lost their way many years ago and they're going farther and farther down the ideological rabbit hole. It's why they're so laughable these days.
It's why, if you pay attention, you see the left consistently eating their own in the futile pursuit of virtue signalling. Anyone who isn't perfect gets thrown to the sharks and eventually, they all wind up losing. There is no amicable resolution if either side is inherently incapable of compromising at all. But when you've got an oppression stack to chase, when you're pretending everyone is a victim and nobody has any personal responsibility, you get what we have right now. There are no innocent parties here, but I think the left is the most dramatically guilty.