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Is Homosexuality "Normal" and "Natural"?

Is homosexuality "normak" and "natural"?


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It's natural in the sense, that yes, it's a naturally occuring thing and we need to accept it as it is. Homosexually can be observed in animals too, like lions and dolphins and various primates, etc
Heterosexuality is also natural. As in, it's natural that people are either straight or gay. I mean, we will be able to locate the "gay gene", which NO, we haven't done so yet. That's just bad journalism. There are a whole lot of genes that determine sexuality just like there are a whole lot of genes that determine many aspects of the human condition.
Whether bisexuality as a sexual preference is a natural occuring thing or is it something taught is less clear but it's another discussion all together and if you adopt the view that homosexuality is natural and heretosexuality is natural, there is no reason why combining them to create bisexuality should be considered anything different.

Whether it's normal, what do you understand by normality is a far more subjective definition than what is considered natural.

I mean, it is normal for me to do a certain activity every day but for others, it would not be normal. Like running for instance, it is normal for me to get up at 5:30 and go out for a run.
But thinking in terms of macro society, I don't know if whether the designation of "normal" should be denied to homosexuals. I think it shouldn't be but I am not paying much attention to this concept. I mean, from my perspective, there is no point in legislating or doing some sort of discussion on the issue. So it shouldn't become a flash-word like there are some words today in society. Like how some people think and tend to pursue the agenda that the term "homo" which is shorthand for homosexual, is an insult rather than just a shorthand version of homosexual. And people will call you on that. So that's a talking point society has to have whether or not it becomes a "bad" word, sorry, politically incorrect word. And add another term to the PC lexicon. So I don't think the discussion should happen or if it does, i think the result of that should be that it makes no bloody difference if one uses the term "normal" to differentiate straight from gay people. But then again, I can also understand why some gays would be offended by being left out of the "normal" pool of people. I just don't know if the correct way to tackle this issue is through the eyes of the PC police. That's all.

I would like to remind people of another thing.
a) not everything that is natural is good for you.
This discussion is framed on stupidity. It honestly is. "natural". This just shows the kind of superficial understanding of reality that only an unenlightened society would have. People use the term "natural" as a selling point. You see it on products and all sort of things that cost x% more because they're "natural" as opposed to the other. As if "natural" is somehow better. No, it isn't. With the exception of 1 banana, the cavendish banana, all the others are "natural" and you can't eat them coz they'll poison you (not necesarily deadly but you could get some disease or stomach aches). The sole banana that can be eaten is only such because of many works in "molding" the banana the way it is. On a side note, this is why that guy from that anti-atheist video about how the banana is the ahteists' worst nightmare is stupid in at least 2 ways. But that's a different story.
You know what else is natural? A pack of wolves. And they'll eat you.
Natural is not a selling point. It is in an unenlightened society.

b) Normal is an adaptable notion.
Neutral example: 100 years ago it was normal to ride a horse, now it's normal to get on the bus or drive a car. It would seem odd if someone rode a horse today in the city.
Degenerative example: 100 years ago it was normal for society to dress properly when you went outside, listen to proper music and discuss matters using a certain level of language and good manners. Nowadays it's normal for some people to listen to rap, dress like loser gangsters and speak in a way that if we had any self-respect left, we'd consider it audio torture. Listening to proper music is considered snobism, dressing up properly is considered "business" or the sign of snobs, and talking properly and explaining your opinions in a coherent manner and not using "you know what I mean?" all the time is considered talking down to people as opposed to being "real". Real dumb I guess. And it all ties in together.
Positive example: It used to be normal for men (usually of the working class, I don't mean to demean the working class, I am part of it, but it was a reality) to be alcoholics and beat their wives when they got home. I mean, look it up, that's one of the reasons why prohibition was considered a good initiative to start. it didn't work, but alocholism was a real problem and something had to be done. Nowadays, alcoholism is down, domestic abuse is also down and things are better. People are more responsible from this perspective.
 
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I don't hear about spousal abuse nearly as much.
my point was referring to the fact that you being tired of hearing about does not diminish the necessity for the conversation

There is a risk of making people insensitive to your cause if cried about too often.
I don't consider defending one's rights to be "crying". ( If it is you need to be sure to avoid the gun forums)

Never has society been more accepting of alternative sexual orientations and yet louder and louder the chant becomes.
Do you feel the same way about other civil rights issues?


I have a neighbor who's an older gay man and whenever people start to bring up sex in conversation he disappears. I asked him, why does that bother you and he said, I'd rather be liked for my personality, not some private part of my life that I have no choice over.
The key work here might be old

I asked aren't you sensitive to the acceptance of the gay community and he replied, only when there's actual discrimination, like fighting for SSM. The constant bleating of the congregation for everyone to love their gayness is asinine, as much as religious people trying to force me to love their beliefs
I think your discomfort with the topic encourages you to interpret a conversation about equal rights as crying and wanting to be loved. I don't think the gay community is asking anyone to love them. Some are responding with love because that's there instinct. I believe the majority strive for it to become a non-issue
 
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Right you are citing a 23 year old study. that has long since been refuted.

http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2010/winter/10-myths

THE FACTS
According to the American Psychological Association, "homosexual men are not more likely to sexually abuse children than heterosexual men are." Gregory Herek, a professor at the University of California, Davis, who is one of the nation's leading researchers on prejudice against sexual minorities, reviewed a series of studies and found no evidence that gay men molest children at higher rates than heterosexual men.

Anti-gay activists who make that claim allege that all men who molest male children should be seen as homosexual. But research by A. Nicholas Groth, a pioneer in the field of sexual abuse of children, shows that is not so. Groth found that there are two types of child molesters: fixated and regressive. The fixated child molester — the stereotypical pedophile — cannot be considered homosexual or heterosexual because "he often finds adults of either sex repulsive" and often molests children of both sexes. Regressive child molesters are generally attracted to other adults, but may "regress" to focusing on children when confronted with stressful situations. Groth found that the majority of regressed offenders were heterosexual in their adult relationships
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Spreading a disease that is incurable is immoral. Yes, anyone who engages in sexual activities knowing they have an incurable disease is damn immoral in my opinion. Of course maybe widespread disease doesn't concern you, I don't know.

Sexually Transmitted Diseases in Men Who Have Sex With Men

Yes, knowing you have an incurable disease and then spreading it with the intent to get others sick is indeed criminal. But again you are conflating. Being Homosexual does not mean that you are, by default, plagued by some sexual transmitted disease. Trying to conflate Homosexuality with STDs as if one equals the other is fallacious and unfounded. STDs are a result of unprotected sex and anyone can be effected by it. Including Heterosexuals. Contracting a std does not make you immoral, it's make you unfortunate and a product of bad decision making in regards to the saftey of your sex. What some one chooses to do from there on out with the information regarding their std state will determine their morality, which is still subjective. If a man or woman informs their partner that they have a std and the partner consents to still engaging sexually with them then no foul play has taken place.

Also - you are fixated on the gay men like many others like you. the lesbian community has a lower rate of std contraction than straight men in proportion to their population. Which further proves that std's has nothing to do with orientation.




Your link is addressing child molesters relative to their population not homosexuals. You need to provide a source that indicates that homosexuals have a high rate of deviant fantasies. Your inflated conclusions based on your lack of expertise on the subject or the studies does not qualify as evidence.



I've posted the sources. Did you think I'd make claims without sources ?

You didn't prove your claims sorry. You have made extravagant conclusions based on assumptions you made from information you gathered from links. Your notion that homosexuals are somehow the manifestation of Sexual diseases and therefore are immoral for spreading it is unfounded and ridiculous. Your conflation of sexual predators and homosexuals is outdated. Your 22 year old obscure study has long since been refuted.
You're an apologist for sexual deviancy with enormous costs on society, both on the taxpayer, ethical conscious and moral fabric.
I'm not an apologist. I'm just intelligent enough to spot a bigot using tired arguments that have been destroyed ten times over.

We would say in France Il ne faut pas se fier aux apparences. I'm not sure of your intentions, but to place a niche of individual interests above the common good is treason.
To inflate your bigoted perception of homosexuality to somehow represent the good of a country is delusion.
 
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Did this about normal a few years ago, and decided it was time to try again. Was a fun and interesting thread at the time, so hopefully this will be as well. Two simple questions. Is Homosexuality "normal", and is homosexuality "natural"? If you would, please include your reasoning.

Poll will allow multiple choices, pick a choice for the "normal" question and for the "natural" question. Poll will be up in a couple minutes.

To be honest I really do not know if homosexuality is normal or natural. I really do not care. The way I look at it, if two people love each other nothing else really matters. If they are just getting their jollies off, so what as long as both agree or however many it is. As long as everyone is willing and consenting, have at it.
 
homosexuality is not normal (ie it is outside the statistical norm)
homosexuality is natural (ie it is a behavior that occurs in nature)
 
The irony is that you've resorted to this, while I've remained cordial the whole time and posted statistics.

When you demonize a whole population of people you are not being cordial. No matter how much sugar you sprinkle on it. Sorry, you're not fooling anyone but yourself.



Once again you have misread and misunderstood my point, but this does not surprise me, judging by your syntax and prose in your (presumably?) home language.

I claimed that (many) cultures which accept homosexuality, are viewed with repugnance by us. The point being if many cultures accept something, it does not make what is accepted intrinsically moral. Many examples of such ; child marriage, slavery, and on and on.

No I understood it clearly. The distinction between countries whom have legalized homosexuality as opposed to those who criminalize it is glaring indeed. You go ahead and make the comparisons between, I don't know, Canada & Iraq or Iceland & Nigeria and then you come back and tell me how repugnant the culture of the former is to the latter. This assuming you value intellectual honesty.
 
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my point was that the fact that you're tired of hearing about does not diminish the necessity of the conversation


I don't consider defending one's rights to be "crying". ( If it is you need to be sure to avoid the gun forums)


Do you feel the same way about other civil rights issues?



The key work here might be old


I think your discomfort with the topic encourages you to interpret a conversation about equal rights as crying and wanting to be loved. I don't think the gay community is asking anyone to love them. Some are responding with love because that's there instinct.
I believe the majority strive for it to become a non-issue


When this happens, it will overall become a non issue.

Racism does not exist to near the degree it once did, yet it is a more debated topic than ever. That doesn't make me uncomfortable, only irritated by the stupidity of people stirring the pot for the sake of argument.
 
When this happens, it will overall become a non issue.

Racism does not exist to near the degree it once did, yet it is a more debated topic than ever. That doesn't make me uncomfortable, only irritated by the stupidity of people stirring the pot for the sake of argument.

You presume to know their intention.
 
Did this about normal a few years ago, and decided it was time to try again. Was a fun and interesting thread at the time, so hopefully this will be as well. Two simple questions. Is Homosexuality "normal", and is homosexuality "natural"? If you would, please include your reasoning.

Poll will allow multiple choices, pick a choice for the "normal" question and for the "natural" question. Poll will be up in a couple minutes.

Hard to see how anything in the natural world could be anything but natural.

Normal? Like a place on a normal distribution?
 
According to Kinsey's studies - which are still widely accepted - very few humans are 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual. Most people have instincts that go both ways, and there's a bell-curve distribution in the population along a sort of "straight-gay" continuum, where most are near the middle. In that light, both the 'normal' and 'natural' labels make sense.

Also, there's strong evidence to suggest that many people learn to forget about or even suppress their gay urges because of social conditioning throughout their lives.
 
You don't?

I'm not the one judging and condemning their actions based on unfounded assumptions I've made about their intentions
 
What's sad is that in the year 2014, this is still a question.
 
When this happens, it will overall become a non issue.

Racism does not exist to near the degree it once did, yet it is a more debated topic than ever. That doesn't make me uncomfortable, only irritated by the stupidity of people stirring the pot for the sake of argument.

 
I'm not the one judging and condemning their actions based on unfounded assumptions I've made about their intentions

If you think my opinions about someones over reactions and insecurity is judging and condemning, you'd really hate to see me pissed off. ;)
 
If you think my opinions about someones over reactions and insecurity is judging and condemning, you'd really hate to see me pissed off. ;)

oh the sweet sweet irony
 
oh the sweet sweet irony


You don't think you're over reacting, insecurely to my slight criticizing of the saturation of your sacred cow issue?

No, of course not, you don't condemn or judge, oh the sweet irony indeed.
 
I claimed it makes one more likely to be a pedophile. Source: The proportions of heterosexual and homos... [J Sex Marital Ther. 1992] - PubMed - NCBI



Spreading a disease that is incurable is immoral. Yes, anyone who engages in sexual activities knowing they have an incurable disease is damn immoral in my opinion. Of course maybe widespread disease doesn't concern you, I don't know.

Sexually Transmitted Diseases in Men Who Have Sex With Men

STI infection rates among gay men reach 'crisis' levels - Health News - Health & Families - The Independent

Modelling the impact of HIV disease on mortality in gay and bisexual men.

"In a major Canadian centre, life expectancy at age 20 years for gay and bisexual men is 8 to 20 years less than for all men. If the same pattern of mortality were to continue, we estimate that nearly half of gay and bisexual men currently aged 20 years will not reach their 65th birthday."



Early Onset and Deviant Sexuality in Child Molesters

"Of our total sample, 29% reported having deviant fantasies prior to age 20, and this was most pronounced (41.1%) among those who molested the sons of other people". I advise you to read the whole thing, though.



I've posted the sources. Did you think I'd make claims without sources ?

You're an apologist for sexual deviancy with enormous costs on society, both on the taxpayer, ethical conscious and moral fabric.

We would say in France Il ne faut pas se fier aux apparences. I'm not sure of your intentions, but to place a niche of individual interests above the common good is treason.

Facts About Homosexuality and Child Molestation
 
"Other."

Statistically and biologically, it is abnormal by any standard you want to go by. That much is beyond question.

However, it is also a "naturally occurring" phenomena in a large number of cases.

The only question there is whether it occurs as a matter of design (i.e. as a phenomena which brings about some sort of evolutionary advantage), or defect (i.e. as an anomalous condition devoid of evolutionary value which has been brought about as an unintended consequence of random genetic mutation).
 
You don't think you're over reacting, insecurely to my slight criticizing of the saturation of your sacred cow issue?

No, of course not, you don't condemn or judge, oh the sweet irony indeed.

No. I don't.

You don't know what my sacred cow issue is.

I never said I don't ever over react.
 
"Other."

Statistically and biologically, it is abnormal by any standard you want to go by. That much is beyond question.

However, it is also a "naturally occurring" phenomena in a large number of cases.

The only question there is whether it occurs as a matter of design (i.e. as a phenomena which brings about some sort of evolutionary advantage), or defect (i.e. as an anomalous condition devoid of evolutionary value brought about as an unintended consequence of random genetic mutation).

Why does it matter?
 
"Other."

Statistically and biologically, it is abnormal by any standard you want to go by. That much is beyond question.

One could, however, make a case for bisexuality being statistically and biologically normal. The fact that it isn't widely practiced has nothing to do with how "normal" it is.
 
One could, however, make a case for bisexuality being statistically and biologically normal. The fact that it isn't widely practiced has nothing to do with how "normal" it is.

That would depend on just how common bisexual instincts actually are in human beings on an objective basis. So far, we have no effective way of really measuring that.

We simply know that is something which only a small minority of people practice in reality.
 
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