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Re: Do you think fathers have a legal right to see thier child born or be in the room
You completely miss the point. It has nothing to do with who is right, who is wrong, who is an asshole and who is not. It has to do with what is best for the patient from a medical point of view, both patients because when mom is stressed, then baby is stressed, as they are still sharing a body.
For all WE know this woman could suffer from a mental illness and just be paranoid, but that doesn't matter. What DOES matter is the patient's perception of the situation. Even if SHE is the asshole, SHE probably doesn't see it that way, and his presence there will upset her. It does NOT matter who started it or who is a jerk. It only matters to the medical professionals that she be as calm and as comfortable as is humanly possible during her delivery.
would be interesting to follow this couple for the next 18 years to see just who the real asshole is.....
You completely miss the point. It has nothing to do with who is right, who is wrong, who is an asshole and who is not. It has to do with what is best for the patient from a medical point of view, both patients because when mom is stressed, then baby is stressed, as they are still sharing a body.
For all WE know this woman could suffer from a mental illness and just be paranoid, but that doesn't matter. What DOES matter is the patient's perception of the situation. Even if SHE is the asshole, SHE probably doesn't see it that way, and his presence there will upset her. It does NOT matter who started it or who is a jerk. It only matters to the medical professionals that she be as calm and as comfortable as is humanly possible during her delivery.