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What about the polygamists!?! [W:693]

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They are not Mormons, “extremist” or otherwise.

Please stop slandering Mormons by using a term that only properly covers us, to refer to freaks who engage in activity that Mormons regard as immoral. Your abuse if this term is offensive and slanderous to Mormons.

Give it up Bob. Warren Jeffs church was a Latter Day Saints church. That IS a Mormon church, and yes he was an extremist Mormon. Like it or not, those are the facts, so quit whining about it.
 
No, it is not.

Warren Jeffs is not a Mormon, and neither are his followers. There is only one Mormon church, and Warren Jeffs and his organization have nothing to do with it.

Yes he was. I posted a link that says that he was a Mormon and a member (or a leader) of the Latter Day Saints. Now, unless you have PROOF to the contrary besides your weak denials, then I don't have time for this. An important hockey game is on.
 
I respectfully disagree Bob. Your statement is refuted by the example of the large number of "Lutheran" sects, many of whom are breakaway for one or another difference of opinion about Biblical interpretations.

The "sect" of Mormonism that still believes in polygamy adheres to just about all the other tenets of the Church of Latter Day Saints. In all other respects, they are still Mormon.

Exactly. Just like EVERY religion, the Mormon religion has it's share of extremists too, and that isn't including the "mainstream Mormons." Obviously some people don't understand what the term "extremist" means.

And what makes some people think "their" religion is immune to extremist interpretation is beyond me. :confused:
 
I respectfully disagree Bob. Your statement is refuted by the example of the large number of "Lutheran" sects, many of whom are breakaway for one or another difference of opinion about Biblical interpretations.

Lutherans aren't Mormons, and they don't get to tell us who we must or must not include under our name. It's worth noting that even though Lutheranism broke fairly directly off of the Catholic church, Lutherans are not Catholics.


The "sect" of Mormonism that still believes in polygamy adheres to just about all the other tenets of the Church of Latter Day Saints. In all other respects, they are still Mormon.

Give it up Bob. Warren Jeffs church was a Latter Day Saints church. That IS a Mormon church, and yes he was an extremist Mormon. Like it or not, those are the facts, so quit whining about it.

Yes he was. I posted a link that says that he was a Mormon and a member (or a leader) of the Latter Day Saints. Now, unless you have PROOF to the contrary besides your weak denials, then I don't have time for this. An important hockey game is on.

I've posted, at least two or three times before in this thread, a link to a statement on an official web site of the Mormon church that clarifies this. Some specific quotes from this statement:

  • Warren Jeffs Is Not a Mormon. Warren Jeffs is not a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and never has been.
  • Mormons Do Not Practice Polygamy
  • There Is No Such Thing as a "Mormon Fundamentalist" or "Mormon Sect"

Here is page 48 of the Associated Press' Style Guide, as rendered by Google Books:

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The Associated Press' own policies dictate that the term “Mormon” is only to be used to describe the genuine Mormon Church, and not any of the splinter groups that have broken off from it.

The Church's own style guide quotes the AP style guide on this matter:

  • When referring to people or organizations that practice polygamy, the terms "Mormons," "Mormon fundamentalist," "Mormon dissidents," etc. are incorrect. The Associated Press Stylebook notes: "The term Mormon is not properly applied to the other … churches that resulted from the split after [Joseph] Smith's death."

In those countries where religious names of this sort are trademarkable, the Church has trademarked the name “Mormon”, which makes it illegal in those countries to use this term to refer to other churches.

A Mormon is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The term properly refers only to us, and not to any other organization nor to the members thereof.

When you use the term “Mormon” to refer to groups such as the FLDS, you are accusing those of us who are properly identified by this name of the conduct in which members of the FLDS are known to engage. This is dishonest, slanderous, and offensive.
 
Lutherans aren't Mormons, and they don't get to tell us who we must or must not include under our name. It's worth noting that even though Lutheranism broke fairly directly off of the Catholic church, Lutherans are not Catholics...

...When you use the term “Mormon” to refer to groups such as the FLDS, you are accusing those of us who are properly identified by this name of the conduct in which members of the FLDS are known to engage. This is dishonest, slanderous, and offensive.

I didn't think it necessary to quote the entirety of your prior response since it was very long. I did read it all though.

While I appreciate your position as a member of the predominant Mormon faith, it is nonetheless merely the typical "political statement" made by any "parent faith" in reference to every "breakaway sect," including your example of the "Catholic church."

Basically you, and your fellow "predominants" deny the sect is Mormon. They, the "sect," say they are the "true Mormons" and that the "predominants" have fallen from the way. The rest of us don't care because as far as we are concerned it's like Oranges calling Naval Oranges apples.

No disrespect intended, and I apologize if I seem insensitive to the schism which was never my intent.
 
I didn't think it necessary to quote the entirety of your prior response since it was very long. I did read it all though.

While I appreciate your position as a member of the predominant Mormon faith, it is nonetheless merely the typical "political statement" made by any "parent faith" in reference to every "breakaway sect," including your example of the "Catholic church."

I don't think anyone would rationally try to argue that Lutherans are Catholics. The term “Catholic” refers to a specific organization, with a specific leadership and structure, and a formal body of established doctrine and practice. Only members of that organization are Catholics. Martin Luther had serious disagreements with the Catholic leadership in his time, and with some of the practices and doctrines of the Catholic church as it existed at that time, so be left that church, and eventually went on to found a new church which bears his name. The Lutheran church is a direct splinter off of the Catholic church, and does retain some of the distinctive practices and doctrines of the Catholic church,but it is not part of the organization that is the Catholic church,it rejects the leadership of the Pope and the other members of the Catholic hierarchy, and it rejects some of the essential doctrines and practices of Catholicism. Lutherans are not Catholics, and no rational person would try to argue that they are.

Like the Catholic church, but unlike some other religion, the Mormon church has a very clearly-defined organization with a clearly-defined leadership structure, and a clearly-defined set of established doctrines and practices. The exact history of the FLDS is unclear, but apparently some time in or around 1913 a small group of people had disagreements with the Mormon church, it's leaders, and some of the practices and policies of that time, and so they broke off and started a number of other churches, one of which developed into what is now the FLDS. Like the Lutherans, they rejected the Mormon organization, the Mormon leaders, and some essential Mormon doctrines and practices, in order to form a new religion. The FLDS and any similar organizations which may exist today are not part of the Mormon organization. They reject the Mormon prophet, the Mormon leaders, the Mormon organization, and many essential Mormon doctrine and practices. They are not Mormons any more than the Lutherans are Catholics.

There are some religions which are vague enough in structure, organization, leadership, and doctrine that it is possible for some to drift from the historical base of that religion, form new teachings and doctrines and organizational structures that are not part of the larger body of that religion, and still reasonably call themselves by the name of the parent religion and consider themselves still to be a part thereof. Mormonism is not such a religion. Mormonism has a very clearly established organization, structure, leadership, and set of doctrines and practices; and any group that breaks away from that (as several have) is no longer Mormon.


Basically you, and your fellow "predominants" deny the sect is Mormon. They, the "sect," say they are the "true Mormons" and that the "predominants" have fallen from the way.

In those jurisdictions where our trademark on the name is upheld, calling themselves “Mormon” anything would get these other groups sued for violating that trademark. The nature of trademark law is such that we'd have no choice but to sue in order to protect the trademark.
 
I don't think anyone would rationally try to argue that Lutherans are Catholics. The term “Catholic” refers to a specific organization, with a specific leadership and structure, and a formal body of established doctrine and practice. Only members of that organization are Catholics.

...In those jurisdictions where our trademark on the name is upheld, calling themselves “Mormon” anything would get these other groups sued for violating that trademark. The nature of trademark law is such that we'd have no choice but to sue in order to protect the trademark.

Again, please forgive me for not including your entire passage in the quote. As before, I did read it all.

I'm sorry for the need to correct you again but the term "catholic" merely means "universal," in that being the first church established in support of the teachings of Christ Jesus, purportedly founded by the Apostle Peter (the Rock upon which I will build My Church), it claims to be the one and only Universal Church.

Of course, any group claiming to represent the true faith in Jesus Christ is technically just a breakaway sect of this Universal Church. (I am not Catholic btw.) So while Lutherans might not say they are "Catholics" in point of fact they are, just members who refuse to accept certain tenets (like Papal authority, confession, the permanence of marriage, saints and idoletry, etc.).

I know that you mention "mormon practices" most of which are secret. I do not claim to be an expert on the Mormon faith (although I have studied some of it's history) but since these mormon practices are secret, aside from retaining polygamy and rejecting the authority of the main church Prophets since breaking away, how would you know if they don't adhere to the essential tenets of the Mormon faith?

As for trademark infringement? What church needs to trademark their name? That's a purely civil issue, don't you believe in the separation of church and state?
 
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Again, please forgive me for not including your entire passage in the quote. As before, I did read it all.

I'm sorry for the need to correct you again but the term "catholic" merely means "universal," in that being the first church established in support of the teachings of Christ Jesus, purportedly founded by the Apostle Peter (the Rock upon which I will build My Church), it claims to be the one and only Universal Church.

The word “catholic” (not capitalized) does indeed mean “universal”, as you said. Capitalized, “Catholic” refers specifically to one organization and its members, which calls itself by that name based on its claim that it is that one “catholic” or “universal” church.


Of course, any group claiming to represent the true faith in Jesus Christ is technically just a breakaway sect of this Universal Church. (I am not Catholic btw.) So while Lutherans might not say they are "Catholics" in point of fact they are, just members who refuse to accept certain tenets (like Papal authority, confession, the permanence of marriage, saints and idoletry [sic], etc.).

A “breakaway sect” of a church is no longer part of that church, and cannot even honestly be described as a “sect” of its parent church. It's a separate organization, entirely. I do not think that any Lutheran would claim to be “Catholic”,nor do I think that any Catholic would claim that Lutherans are Catholics. A member of either organization would fully recognize that they are two separate organizations, neither being part of the other, and that the name “Catholic” refers to one of these organizations, while the name “Lutheran” refers to the other organization.

Who are you, being part of neither of those organizations, to make a claim about one of those organizations being part of the other, with which no actual member of either organization would agree?

And no, it is not true that “any group claiming to represent the true faith in Jesus Christ is technically just a breakaway sect of this Universal Church [The Catholic Church]. This is true of the various Protestant churches, the Orthodox churches, and the Episcopalian churches (which I understand to be commonly included under Protestantism, but it seems to me that the history of the Episcopalian churches ought to establish them as being separate from the Protestant movement); but it is not true of the Mormon church or any of its offshoots, nor of certain other churches such as the Jehovah's Witnesses and the Seventh Day Adventists.


I know that you mention "mormon practices" most of which are secret. I do not claim to be an expert on the Mormon faith (although I have studied some of it's history) but since these mormon practices are secret, aside from retaining polygamy and rejecting the authority of the main church Prophets since breaking away, how would you know if they don't adhere to the essential tenets of the Mormon faith?

You are mistaken about most Mormon practices being secret. I could point out other errors in your argument, here, but it all fails on this one, so there's no need. What is openly taught and practiced by the two different organizations is more than different enough to make it obvious to any rational observer that these are two entirely different religions, with two entirely different organizations; and that one is not in any way a subset of the other.


As for trademark infringement? What church needs to trademark their name? That's a purely civil issue, don't you believe in the separation of church and state?

I think the need should be obvious.

As it is, with all the effort that we make to dissuade such abuse of the term “Mormon”, the reputation of our organization and our faith is constantly being damaged by the false connection made by the misuse of this name between us and other organizations which openly engage in unseemly practices that we do not approve of. It's the same concern that a certain widely-known fast food chain would have if I were to open a restaurant that sold bad-tasting hamburgers of very poor quality, prepared and served under unsanitary conditions, and otherwise violating common standards of the business, and I were to call my restaurant “McDonald's” and to use logos and livery that was similar to those of the well-known chain. The public would predictably, albeit incorrectly, tend to assume that what they experienced at my restaurant was representative of the well-know chain, which, in fact, had nothing to do with me and my restaurant; and this would be very damaging to that well-known chain. Both as a legal requirement to retain the trademark, and in order to protect their own reputation from unjust damage, the well-known chain would have no choice but to sue me for the violation of their trademark, and to take every legal measure to stop my continued misuse of it.
 
The word “catholic” (not capitalized) does indeed mean “universal”, as you said. Capitalized, “Catholic” refers specifically to one organization and its members, which calls itself by that name based on its claim that it is that one “catholic” or “universal” church.

A “breakaway sect” of a church is no longer part of that church, and cannot even honestly be described as a “sect” of its parent church. It's a separate organization, entirely. I do not think that any Lutheran would claim to be “Catholic”,nor do I think that any Catholic would claim that Lutherans are Catholics. A member of either organization would fully recognize that they are two separate organizations, neither being part of the other, and that the name “Catholic” refers to one of these organizations, while the name “Lutheran” refers to the other organization.

Who are you, being part of neither of those organizations, to make a claim about one of those organizations being part of the other, with which no actual member of either organization would agree?

And no, it is not true that “any group claiming to represent the true faith in Jesus Christ is technically just a breakaway sect of this Universal Church [The Catholic Church]. This is true of the various Protestant churches, the Orthodox churches, and the Episcopalian churches (which I understand to be commonly included under Protestantism, but it seems to me that the history of the Episcopalian churches ought to establish them as being separate from the Protestant movement); but it is not true of the Mormon church or any of its offshoots, nor of certain other churches such as the Jehovah's Witnesses and the Seventh Day Adventists.

You are mistaken about most Mormon practices being secret. I could point out other errors in your argument, here, but it all fails on this one, so there's no need. What is openly taught and practiced by the two different organizations is more than different enough to make it obvious to any rational observer that these are two entirely different religions, with two entirely different organizations; and that one is not in any way a subset of the other.

I'm sorry, but did they change the rules since the last time I visited Salt Lake City? When I was there I was told I could not enter the tabernacle during services, they were restricted to Mormons. I do apologize for the mis-statement about secrecy then, I misread something in one of your prior posts thatseemed to say that. Just tired I guess. :)

Now Bob, you must know that many people don't consider the Mormon church "Christian." I've personally read your religious text and IMO it seems only tangentally to be related to Christianity. It's always seemed more akin to "Scientology" (and its tales of aliens in volcanos), or perhaps "Christian Science" (believing that the material world is an illusion) to me and people I have spoken to. (My apologies, but I felt I needed to say that.)

I've also never met anyone not a Mormon who has categorized your church as "Christian," although I'm sure there are some people that do. However, most Christian church members of various churches I've visited over the years and around the country seem to consider Mormons at best some kind of apostate faith, and at worst worshipers of the anti-christ. That does not make it any less a valid religion though, regardless of such opinions.

But I realize that nothing I can say will (or should) dissuade you from your position. I can only state again that it seems to me a Mormon calling another sect claiming to be "Mormon" not Mormon but something else...is like Oranges calling Naval Oranges apples. The fact that your church had to trademark it's name so it could sue? Now that is typical of my knowledge of the history of your church. ;)
 
I'm sorry, but did they change the rules since the last time I visited Salt Lake City? When I was there I was told I could not enter the tabernacle during services, they were restricted to Mormons. I do apologize for the mis-statement about secrecy then, I misread something in one of your prior posts thatseemed to say that. Just tired I guess. :)

You must be thinking of our Temples. The ceremonies that take place in our Temples are extremely sacred to us, and we generally do not discuss them with outsiders. This gives our enemies all sorts of license to make up all sorts of crazy stories about what goes on inside our Temples,and gives us little room to effectively refute them. You can find all sorts of accounts on the Internet of what supposedly happens in our Temples. Most of what you find will be outrageously inaccurate.* I won't say much more about the content of these ceremonies than to say that of the accounts you find on the net about them, the more bizarre and sinister any given account seems, the more incorrect it is likely to be, and the more mundane it seems, the more correct it is likely to be.

But the Temple makes up only a small part of our practice. A typical active Mormon attends three hours of meetings every Sunday, at our regular church meetinghouses. These meetings are open to the public, and all are welcome. A really active Mormon, who lives near a Temple, would be likely to participate in the services there one or twice a month.

The Tabernacle is a single, unique building, in Temple Square. It's not the same building as the Temple. You're surely heard of The Mormon Tabernacle Choir, so called because historically, the Tabernacle was where they usually performed. We used to have our semi-annual general conference meetings in the Tabernacle, but a much larger, more modern building was built some time within the last ten years or so for this purpose. The Tabernacle is generally open to the public.

The Tabernacle is known for its exceptional acoustic characteristics, rather remarkable since nobody who was involved in designing and building it is known to have had the necessary knowledge to engineer a building with such acoustics. If a pin is dropped near the podium, the sound if it hitting the floor can be heard anywhere in the building.

Now Bob, you must know that many people don't consider the Mormon church "Christian." I've personally read your religious text and IMO it seems only tangentally to be related to Christianity. It's always seemed more akin to "Scientology" (and its tales of aliens in volcanos), or perhaps "Christian Science" (believing that the material world is an illusion) to me and people I have spoken to. (My apologies, but I felt I needed to say that.)

I've also never met anyone not a Mormon who has categorized your church as "Christian," although I'm sure there are some people that do. However, most Christian church members of various churches I've visited over the years and around the country seem to consider Mormons at best some kind of apostate faith, and at worst worshipers of the anti-christ. That does not make it any less a valid religion though, regardless of such opinions.

It stands to reason that any religion that holds certain beliefs is going to think that a different religion that holds beliefs that are incompatible with its own beliefs is wrong.

We consider ourselves to be Christians, and it is undeniable to anyone with a correct understanding of our beliefs that we worship the same God, and revere the same Christ, that other Christians do. We do have some beliefs that are more different from those of other Christian sects than most other Christians sects are from one another, but nothing that is nearly so bizarre as those commonly attributed to Scientology, nothing as bizarre as some of the beliefs of the Christian Science group, and nothing nearly as bizarre as many of the beliefs that are often falsely attributed to us.


But I realize that nothing I can say will (or should) dissuade you from your position. I can only state again that it seems to me a Mormon calling another sect claiming to be "Mormon" not Mormon but something else...is like Oranges calling Naval Oranges apples. The fact that your church had to trademark it's name so it could sue? Now that is typical of my knowledge of the history of your church. ;)

I've acknowledged that our beliefs and practices are more different from those of most mainstream Christian sects than most mainstream Christian sects are from one another. The FLDS are much more different from us than we are from most other Christian sects. We share some distant common historical roots, but we otherwise have nothing to do with them, and they have nothing to do with us. Catholics and Lutherans and Methodists and Episcopalians all have more to do with each other than we have to do with the FLDS; and yet nobody rationally tries to argue that Methodists are Lutherans, or that Episcopalians are Methodists, or that Catholics are Lutherans.
 
You offer up a tautology, and you're calling me stupid.

See my reply to Redress

Not telling you that you are stupid. Telling you that you don't understand the issue. Very different.

Neither is the term marriage or same sex marriage a sexual orientation. They are simply descriptive terms, nothing more. But if your point is that two men or two women need to have a certain sexual orientation in order to get married, then that would be discrimination, and discrimination is wrong isn't it. likewise, those in a polygamous marriage can have whatever sexual identity they want.

And you continue to miss the point. Firstly, the government has a vested interest in sanctioning marriage. There are reasons why that happens... and these reasons are supported by research in regards to heterosexual and homosexual unions. They are NOT in regards to polygamous unions. Secondly, from an equality standpoint, it is argued that it is discriminatory towards homosexuals to not allow gay marriage. This is based on sexual ORIENTATION. Polygamy is not a sexual orientation.

Like I said. You don't understand the issue.

In short, sexual orientation is irrelevant with regard to whether SSM and polygamy are analogous. Unless of course, you plan on having a test for such things before people get married. If so, good luck with that.

As I explained above, sexual orientation is completely relevant when discussing SSM and polygamy has no connection because it is not an orientation.

So I've been told, yet, no one has refuted any of my arguments. You and others simply dismiss them offhand. You are, of course, free to do so, but it doesn't speak very well of your integrity

Your arguments.... what little there is of an argument to examine, have been entirely refuted. Your denial of this is irrelevant to the accuracy of my statement.
 
Lots of so-called "logical fallacies" are, IMHO, horse apples. :)


You say "slippery slope fallacy". I say "Established Precedent"... precedent has considerable mojo in findings of law.


And "slippery slope fallacy" never applies if someone is pushing. :mrgreen:

Since there is no equivalency, the logical fallacy is accurate. Precedent does not apply unless the situations are analogous... and here, they are not.
 
You must be thinking of our Temples. The ceremonies that take place in our Temples are extremely sacred to us, and we generally do not discuss them with outsiders. This gives our enemies all sorts of license to make up all sorts of crazy stories about what goes on inside our Temples,and gives us little room to effectively refute them. You can find all sorts of accounts on the Internet of what supposedly happens in our Temples. Most of what you find will be outrageously inaccurate.* I won't say much more about the content of these ceremonies than to say that of the accounts you find on the net about them, the more bizarre and sinister any given account seems, the more incorrect it is likely to be, and the more mundane it seems, the more correct it is likely to be.

But the Temple makes up only a small part of our practice. A typical active Mormon attends three hours of meetings every Sunday, at our regular church meetinghouses. These meetings are open to the public, and all are welcome. A really active Mormon, who lives near a Temple, would be likely to participate in the services there one or twice a month.

The Tabernacle is a single, unique building, in Temple Square. It's not the same building as the Temple. You're surely heard of The Mormon Tabernacle Choir, so called because historically, the Tabernacle was where they usually performed. We used to have our semi-annual general conference meetings in the Tabernacle, but a much larger, more modern building was built some time within the last ten years or so for this purpose. The Tabernacle is generally open to the public.

The Tabernacle is known for its exceptional acoustic characteristics, rather remarkable since nobody who was involved in designing and building it is known to have had the necessary knowledge to engineer a building with such acoustics. If a pin is dropped near the podium, the sound if it hitting the floor can be heard anywhere in the building.



It stands to reason that any religion that holds certain beliefs is going to think that a different religion that holds beliefs that are incompatible with its own beliefs is wrong.

We consider ourselves to be Christians, and it is undeniable to anyone with a correct understanding of our beliefs that we worship the same God, and revere the same Christ, that other Christians do. We do have some beliefs that are more different from those of other Christian sects than most other Christians sects are from one another, but nothing that is nearly so bizarre as those commonly attributed to Scientology, nothing as bizarre as some of the beliefs of the Christian Science group, and nothing nearly as bizarre as many of the beliefs that are often falsely attributed to us.




I've acknowledged that our beliefs and practices are more different from those of most mainstream Christian sects than most mainstream Christian sects are from one another. The FLDS are much more different from us than we are from most other Christian sects. We share some distant common historical roots, but we otherwise have nothing to do with them, and they have nothing to do with us. Catholics and Lutherans and Methodists and Episcopalians all have more to do with each other than we have to do with the FLDS; and yet nobody rationally tries to argue that Methodists are Lutherans, or that Episcopalians are Methodists, or that Catholics are Lutherans.

I appreciate your thoughtful and tactful reply, especially in light of some of the remarks I made in my last post. You are a true gentleman, (even if you are an apostate!) That part in parenthesis was a joke. :)

In all honesty, I understand your position and it must rankle to have a group which practices activities that most main-stream Americans disapprove of calling themselves Mormons and thereby bringing discredit upon your church. But your church is not alone in that problem, look at that horrible bunch of wackos who hate gays sooo much they defile the burial ceremonies of our honored dead soldiers. They call themselves Christian without any real understanding of the term.

Be that as it may, you seem like a decent guy, pretty much like every Mormon I have had the pleasure of knowing. So I'll leave it at that. :)
 
Why not? Who are you to keep polygamists from enjoying the same rights you want homosexuals to have?

Your fear of what is different has nothing to do with whether it is good or not.
Neither does yours. Stop trying to keep polygamists out of the tent.
 
And you continue to miss the point. Firstly, the government has a vested interest in sanctioning marriage. There are reasons why that happens... and these reasons are supported by research in regards to heterosexual and homosexual unions. They are NOT in regards to polygamous unions. Secondly, from an equality standpoint, it is argued that it is discriminatory towards homosexuals to not allow gay marriage. This is based on sexual ORIENTATION. Polygamy is not a sexual orientation.

I am going to have to disagree with you on these points. First off, do you have any research that shows that polygamous marriages, not counting idiot cultist that throw pedophilia in with their marriages, counter these vested interest?

The productive rearing of children is most important. Creating a stable family life is also key: it adds to the positive potential for healthy children, but it also creates healthy adults. There is plenty of evidence to support the theory that those who live in a healthy, stable, committed relationship, are happier, healthier, and are more productive members of society. These are all things that benefit the state.

There is nothing about polygamy in any combination that would run counter to this. The fact that there are more adults to go to, in fact, would indicate that the child would have more options to talk to someone with whom they were comfortable with when problems arise, leading to more stability in their lives.

Research shows that, regardless of sexual orientation, gay or straight, folks who live in these kinds of committed relationships, do better, and rear children better, than those who do not. This is regardless of sexual orientation.

Again there is nothing about polygamy that runs counter to this point.

And the answer to "why" is simple, and is psychological in nature. Jealousy, rivalry, and inconsistency.

These things exist in monogamous as well as polygamous marriages, even without looking at outside relationship/affairs occurring.

I will agree with you that the reasoning behind SSM should not be the same for the reasoning for polgamy, however, I will disagree with it not being an "orientation" for lack of a better term. Having been part of the poly community for quite a number of years, I have met people who would not be able to hold anything other than a monogamous relationship, those who will need poly relationships and those in between as well as those who want no romantic relationships. This parallels straight, gay and bi as well as asexual quite nicely as a analogy. Likewise, while individuals are attracted to these types of relationships, none require them for survival, any more than a given individual requires sex for survival.
 
I am going to have to disagree with you on these points. First off, do you have any research that shows that polygamous marriages, not counting idiot cultist that throw pedophilia in with their marriages, counter these vested interest?

There is no research that supports it. Until there is, I see no reason for the government to sanction it... since my argument for sanctioning SSM is from a research based position.

Further, my orientation explanation explains the lack of equivalency issue.

There is nothing about polygamy in any combination that would run counter to this. The fact that there are more adults to go to, in fact, would indicate that the child would have more options to talk to someone with whom they were comfortable with when problems arise, leading to more stability in their lives.

Again there is nothing about polygamy that runs counter to this point.

From what I said in post #9:

Further, the inconsistency in caretaking responsibilities and in child rearing responsibilities, compounded by the hierarchies and rivalries will harm the children, affecting their functioning. We already see some of this in divorced families, where inconsistent rules, non-existent co-parenting, and rivalries, negatively affect children.

These are all things that would run counter to the point in polygamy.

These things exist in monogamous as well as polygamous marriages, even without looking at outside relationship/affairs occurring.

False equivalency as I explained above.

I will agree with you that the reasoning behind SSM should not be the same for the reasoning for polgamy, however, I will disagree with it not being an "orientation" for lack of a better term. Having been part of the poly community for quite a number of years, I have met people who would not be able to hold anything other than a monogamous relationship, those who will need poly relationships and those in between as well as those who want no romantic relationships. This parallels straight, gay and bi as well as asexual quite nicely as a analogy. Likewise, while individuals are attracted to these types of relationships, none require them for survival, any more than a given individual requires sex for survival.

That is a very different type of need from a sexual orientation. The orientation is whether they are attracted to males or females, NOT how many.
 
The libertarian argument for polygamy is that the state should have no place in any marriage.

Well that statement I can agree with in general. Marriage contracts should be treated the same as any other contract. The only place for government on this one is in the judicial system to help settle contract disputes.
 
Since marriage is not about creating a family but raising a family, your entire post is inaccurate and irrelevant.
In liberal bizarro world that post is irrelevant, but in a healthy, normal society, marriage is about creating AND raising a family.
 
Should Plural Marriage be legalized too?
The government has no business granted special privileges to married people but as long as they do they should be giving those benefits out to homosexuals and polygamists as well.
 
what consenting adults do amonst themselves shouldn't be any of our business.
Thinking like a true liberal. Thank you for your honesty.
 
In liberal bizarro world that post is irrelevant, but in a healthy, normal society, marriage is about creating AND raising a family.

Where you aware that same sex couples can create and raise families?
 
Oscar is a liberal now? LoLz...

I've been accused of being many things in my time on da interwebz, but until now "liberal" has never been one of them
 
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