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Because it's not just a simple procedure to rid the body of some cells?
Why are you trying to put words in my mouth?
Because it's not just a simple procedure to rid the body of some cells?
You are welcome.
Whichever procedure he performed, it was legal and that's the difference between him and Gosnell, cb.
Why are you trying to put words in my mouth?
I want to hear your opinion instead of presupposing what you think, Gina. I'm weird like that.
I guess I just don't understand why the feeling is there to have abortion be rare if it's just a simple procedure to get rid of some cells.
A woman undergoing an abortion is not clicking her heels. It's not like changing hair color. I guess you don't know anyone who has had one if you can describe it like that. There is a poster here who described her experience and she certainly wasn't.
Oh yes, I knew it was legal, still, having once witnessed the procedure I cannot shake how wrong it is, legal or not.
That aside I find your pro-choice view reasonable. But then we both know the debate isn't ruled by those of us with reason on either side of the issue. The loud-shouters and cheerleaders have the field and suck the air out of the room.
But you asked the question Josie, so I was curious as to your thoughts why we wouldn't want it to be rare.
A woman undergoing an abortion is not clicking her heels. It's not like changing hair color. I guess you don't know anyone who has had one if you can describe it like that. There is a poster here who described her experience and she certainly wasn't.
All of the women whom I know who have had an abortion, thought long and hard about it. It wasn't a cavalier or capricious decision. They considered if there was a way to go through with the pregnancy, but none were in the position to do so. Relationship status, economics, the response of their family and continuing with their education were amongst the reasons they chose to abort. It's not a happy day. Why would I want lots of women to go through that? They aren't monsters and all of them became mothers later.
Silliest question I've heard in quite a time.
CB, I support late term abortion to save the life of the mother, or if the fetus is dead or other necessary extreme cases. So I understand what you are saying.
That's where my experience differs. I was an LVN in the late 70s at a hospital (in CA) that did abortions (they ceased this subsequently). So many of the abortions were obviously being used as after the fact birth control. The hospital stopped offering the procedure when repeat customers became the majority.
A question for pro-choicers - why do you want abortions to be rare?
Because we support family planning which reduces the # of unplanned and unwanted pregnancies.
Why is it "distasteful" to you?
I want to hear your opinion instead of presupposing what you think, Gina. I'm weird like that.
I guess I just don't understand why the feeling is there to have abortion be rare if it's just a simple procedure to get rid of some cells.
It's unfortunate that there are women for whom it's birth control.
I also support using birth control. That doesn't really answer the question though. If you have an unwanted pregnancy, just get an abortion. What's the big deal, right?
Actually I've heard many women here and elsewhere who joke about their abortions and even applaud others for having abortions.
So actually we all believe the same thing (there IS a human being growing inside of you). It's just that some pro-choicers feel kinda bad about ending that life, but still feel morally okay about going ahead with it. And pro-lifers cannot even fathom doing that to their child. Kinda like a mercy killing, I guess. I don't want to put words into your mouth, though. Is that how you view it?
Sometimes right. Sometimes wrong
That may be a hard concept to grasp if one sees everything in black and white, or right and wrong
When is it wrong to abort your unborn child?
Not really. How many times have we heard that abortions are just a simple procedure to rid the woman's body of some cells? It's not anything horrific or inhumane or murderous, they have said. It's just a parasite being removed from the body. It's like taking a tumor out! <<< all things I've heard from pro-choicers about abortions.
So if you want it to be rare, you must be placing some sort of moral relevance on it. If you have to think long and hard about having an abortion, something must be tugging at your heartstrings about it. Maybe it's NOT just a clump of cells. Maybe it's a human being.
I disagree
Abortion is *always* a form of birth control.
The phrase "using abortion as birth control" is an appeal to emotion meant to depict women as irresponsible and heartless. It's propoganda
I wasn't! You said you couldn't think of the words and I was ASKING you if that's what you thought. There was a QUESTION MARK. Jeez louise.
Which women here? I haven't seen that and I've done my share of posting in the abortion forums.
It's a moral conundrum for lots of women Josie. "Kinda bad" is not how I would or did describe it. Mercy killing? No I wouldn't use that term either. There is a human growing inside, but not yet a child at gestational point where the greatest number of abortions take place. That is how I view it. I completely understand why a pro-choice woman could not make that decision for herself.
It's interesting how many people are ignoring this thread.