Which tax rights? I can't address what you aren't saying. There is a marriage tax "penalty" as well. A couple is taxed at a higher rate than a two single people.
The tax code is insane as per relationship status, and a lot of these things -- penalties and perks both -- just shouldn't exist.
But overall, single people get bled like a sacrificial lamb compared to marrieds, when it comes to taxes. This is true even in home sharing situations. Why? Why don't people who share resources to pay for their living, regardless of relationship status, get these tax credits? And why are they so incredibly steep?
But, you know, come to think of it, why the hell is the tax rate lower for a couple, and why should it be lower for non-romantic house sharers? They spend less money on living. Single people are the ones spending most of their income on the basics.
As to co-parenting, is that something that cannot be obtained? How about adoption?
As the tribulations of gay couples have shown, it is exceptionally expensive for a non-familiar member to get joint custody without marriage, even if both parties want it. Sometimes the courts simply deny it outright. One partner adopts/has the child, and the other partner if forced to essentially adopt it.
Which of them is time consuming? A will? It is for married couples too. Again, please be specific.
See above. Also, like I said, altering provisions in a marriage license is sometimes impossible, and sometimes costly and timely due to basically having to start from scratch. I would see each of these issues with a "standard" license for simplicity.
Ok, if they agree one should have the right to cut out the other from their 401k, they can do that. Just with approval of spouse and all of that goes away if they remain single. It's right there on the form, "Who do you designate as beneficiary of this account upon death?". Easy.
I have agreed, designating legal rights shouldn't be so difficult or expensive. Though I sure would like to have a laundry list of what you are referring to.
Why is it so important to you to abolish an institution you will, by your own declaration, never partake in? You want one or more other people you are not related to, to have rights over your finances and life (I'm assuming because you haven't specified what applies to you). I think those are pretty important designations and so there are hoops, but I agree, they shouldn't be impediments.
Because I feel it is unjust for the government to wield such power over our personal relationships. It's just begging for bigotry, which is exactly the reason it was implemented as a legal institution in the first place, and it's still carrying out that purpose today.
The entire idea of making romantic relationships legal on the BASIS that they are romantic was flawed and a huge over-reach right from the get-go.
If you want your marriage to have a traditional set of marriage rights, go and be merry.
But the question is, why do you feel it's so important for the government to know you're in a relationship?