I'm opposed to same-sex marriage for the simple fact that I believe it is contrary to God's will. I know it's difficult for many to see now, but decline in morality will spell the eventual destruction of our society. Proof that we are on that path has already been manifested through the advent of additional things like legalized abortion, legalized marijuana, homosexuality, and just pre-marital sex, in general. All things most of you cherish, but become very defensive (sometimes even hostile) over when an opposing view is expressed.
Being true to your beliefs is fine. More power to ya.
Where you run afoul is when you try to force your beliefs on others.
I don't believe in the god you believe in. Many don't. Many believe in a completely different god than you do.
Believe what you want, and do so freely and honestly.
Your beliefs are just that though. Yours. Not mine, and not anyone elses.
So laws and restrictions based on your god and your beliefs are things many of us are going to disagree with and in some cases actually fight against.
I don't care if you and your church agree to recognize gay marriage or not.
What I care about is the state, feds, insurance companies, medical facilities, law agencies, and financial agencies and what they recognize and acknowledge.
The westboro baptists or the FLDS off-shoots can refuse to accept whatever they chose.
The government can't, or at least shouldn't.
As has been stated many times before, there was once a great deal of society against inter-racial marriage.
Accepting that did not destroy society.
Two consenting adults involved in loving, caring, and long-lasting relationships that build families and communities should not be forbidden simply because of they're gay.
We should be combating ignorance, fear, and hatred.
Not love, affection, and committed relationships.
Think about that for a while.