I'm not mad. Trust me, you don't ever want to see me in person when I'm mad. You wouldn't like me when I get angry.
I can respect that.I'm the exact same way.
No, not because you took the opportunities.... Because the opportunities were there and available in the first place. It's not you and your family I'm frustrated with. You're just doing what you think is right and in your best interest. It's a much higher power that I have a bone to pick with, and that's not going to be settled until after this life is over.
I can't help but wonder,Tigger,is it a "Higher Power" that you have a bone to pick with,or is it "You" that you have that bone to pick with.
No one said life was ever going to be easy.
There are always obstacles to overcome,but there are always opportunities to seize also.
The big difference between you and me is that I never let ideologies get in the way of seizing those opportunities.
If you believe that some "Higher Power" doesn't want you to work for somebody just because of their gender,then that's on you.
In your belief system didn't the "Higher Power" that created you create me also?
My mom was a very religious woman herself.She made me go to church.I just never believed what she believed.My mom understood that I had to go my own way.That has always been the key to my success and happiness.I always remained true to my own path,not someone elses.
My first wife was a religious spiritual church going woman herself who always tried to live the way her religion taught her. I never tried to stop her from going to church and she ended up bleeding to death in her car while the fire department struggled to free her from that wreckage,because some jackass decided to get drunk and start up his car and go for a ride. I didn't blame some higher power (or the firemen) because of it. I blame that jackass.
My second wife Selena wasn't always an atheist.She was a good,church going christian,just like her husband (also a doctor,just not as good as Lena.Thst seemed to always been a big problwm for him).For some reason,everytime she tried to get pregnant and start a family,she'd miscarry.Then she got ovarian cancer,and removing her ovaries was the only way to save her life.When she was finally well enough to go home,her good god fearing christian husband tried to talk her into getting their marriage annulled.If that wasn't bad enough,the good godfearing people of the church she used to go to started to treat her like she was some pariah,some untouchable.
She couldn't understand what she did to make "God" punish her like that.So she became an atheist.
For a time,she even stopped dating because a number of men bolted the moment the they found out there was "nothing in there".
By the time we met,she was called "Dr Iceberg".
I already had 3 kids,and I never treat Lena like was less of a woman because she longer had ovaries.When I first brought her home to have dinner with me and my daughters (I believe they were 19, 13,and 8 years old) my daughters fawned over her.They were happy because I was happy.When we got married,my youngest ran right into Lena's arms,gave her a big hug and said "I love you mommy" (Lena never insisted that my daughters call her "mom",and it took my oldest a few years to finally call her that).The tears of happiness that Lena shed is something I'll never forget.
When Selena finally decided to stop blaming "God" and just go on with her life,she finally found happiness.And three rambunctious daughters who love her.
On another thread I once told you,"at this moment,there has been nothing you ever encountered that was strong enough to take you out".
True. Then again, if I'm wrong about what's on the other side, then there was no point in being here in the first place, so it's really a moot point.[/QUOTE]