Why should a woman who is pro choice use the pill?
I'd suggest asking Middleground, she's stated a bunch in the Rush thread how there's reasons to take birth control other than to protect from pregnancy.
Perhaps the pro-choice woman has bad acne?
Perhaps the pro-choice women is personally against abortion but feels that the government should not be mandating it?
Perhaps the pro-choice women would rather be on the pill and avoid pregnancy because she believes the entire abortive process
could potentially be somewhat disturbing mentally.
Why should a woman who is pro choice ask you to wear a condom?
She's cautious about STD's?
The various reasons I just stated above?
She's allergic to semen?
She doesn't like the feeling of it inside her and dripping after the fact?
Why should a woman who is pro choice care that you think the fetus is important?
Because she perhaps actually has emotional feelings towards the individual she's having sex with and thus cares about their thoughts and views as well?
Because perhaps she believes that while its a woman's body and ultimately her choice, the fetus growing inside of her is made of two peoples DNA...not just hers...and she recognizes the other individual may like some input?
Why should a male who is anti choice expect a pro choice woman to care?
He believes the woman who is having sex with him actually has an emotional attachment to him and cares what he says?
He believes that the woman who he is having sex with actually holds respect for him and his opinions even when they're separate than her own?
Why can' an anti choice male wear a condom?
I don't know pro-fetus killer (if we're going to use asinine arrogant based militant terminology rather than intellectually honest and fair ones, may as well be consistent no? You pick the game you want to play), perhaps a situation occurred where he stupidly just didn't think of it, or made an extremely poor decision due to a variety of factors from his own inability to control his lustful emotions to seduction on the part of the female?
But yes, a pro-life person absolutely could wear a condom. However this is irrelevant to the argument of many pro-life people as it assumes they only want unborn children to be protected when conceived from couplings of at least one pro-life person.
Why should this anti choice male think the woman is anti choice as well?
Perhaps she told him she was?
Perhaps various things she stated made him believe that?
Perhaps he ignorantly just assumed?
Its funny...in a few seconds I was able to think of multiple answers to every one of your questions but you seemed to ask them as if you had this strong belief there was no, or only one, correct answer. It couldn't possibly be that you are so arrogantly sure of your position on this being absolute gospel that no one could dare possibly think opposite of your without being of inferior intelligence, bigoted, or just plain wrong.