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I believe everyone has the right to die. I believe physicians should be legally allowed to assist suicidal patients, if the situation does not conflict with their own personal convictions. No one has the right to tell me I cannot die with dignity at a time and by the method of my choosing. And yet the "law" does just that.
That said, I do not believe that society should encourage suicide per se. Suicidal people should be offered aid and assistance in coping with the reasons they no longer want to live. More would do this, I believe, if being "suicidal" wasn't frowned upon in society to the point where it's actually illegal. As long as someone who confesses to being suicidal can be immediately locked up as being a danger to themselves, people who really need help in coping will be too frightened to ask for it. The result will be more suicides by people who could have been saved.
The word "selfish" ticks me off as well. I'm being "selfish" because the desperation of gasping for every breath drives me to avoid being bedridden, without dignity. Why is it me who is being selfish? Why isn't it the friends and loved ones who can see the pain I'm in and know that every day I live that pain will only get worse who are the selfish ones? We don't treat our dying elders with the same care and reverence we show our dying pets. That sucks.
That said, I do not believe that society should encourage suicide per se. Suicidal people should be offered aid and assistance in coping with the reasons they no longer want to live. More would do this, I believe, if being "suicidal" wasn't frowned upon in society to the point where it's actually illegal. As long as someone who confesses to being suicidal can be immediately locked up as being a danger to themselves, people who really need help in coping will be too frightened to ask for it. The result will be more suicides by people who could have been saved.
The word "selfish" ticks me off as well. I'm being "selfish" because the desperation of gasping for every breath drives me to avoid being bedridden, without dignity. Why is it me who is being selfish? Why isn't it the friends and loved ones who can see the pain I'm in and know that every day I live that pain will only get worse who are the selfish ones? We don't treat our dying elders with the same care and reverence we show our dying pets. That sucks.