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Alcohol and Sexuality

If you're straight, and have homosexual tendencies when drunk, are you gay? [& 2nd]

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Thunder said:
"Exit Only".

that's what should be tatooed over all anal holes.

:)
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Speak for yourself buddy.

You know how many married guys go years saying the exact same thing, and then one night their wife gets adventurous and plays hide the finger, and then suddenly the guy is a convert?

Damn, you got me sounding like an anal sex advocate.
 
CriticalThought said:
I dunno. I've met some straight guys who love anal sex. The prostate is a very powerful thing. Pegging is not as uncommon as some people would think.
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It's the same organ as the g-spot I think. Not 100% but I think it is.
 
Your Star said:
It's the same organ as the g-spot I think. Not 100% but I think it is.
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Hehe... ahh... hmm..... what's "Pegging"?

And I gotta tell ya, the g-spot if it's there is missing in some women. That or their directions on how to get there were WAY off.
 
Ockham said:
Hehe... ahh... hmm..... what's "Pegging"?

And I gotta tell ya, the g-spot if it's there is missing in some women. That or their directions on how to get there were WAY off.
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Pegging is the act of a woman with a strap on having anal sex with a man.

And no, we all have it, it's your fault if you can't find it ;)
 
Well, whatever we want to believe one way or another, I think we can all agree that alcohol provides us with the perfect line to use whenever we have regrets no matter our choice.


"Man, I must have had a lot to drink last night!"
 
Your Star said:
It's the same organ as the g-spot I think. Not 100% but I think it is.
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I dont know about the G-Spot LOL thats a little over the top but I guess you could be right IDK


What I do know is a girl was going down on me one time and with out prior discussion or hinting or permission she attempted to jam a finger in there, I immediately stop her and said "WHAT ARE YOU DOING!" lol

she said "what I saw it on TV on HBO real sex" I said thats nice baby but we're not trying that LOL
 
Your Star said:
Pegging is the act of a woman with a strap on having anal sex with a man.
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Ahh...


Your Star said:
And no, we all have it, it's your fault if you can't find it ;)
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It's not my fault you ladies have to HIDE everything... I'll just have to get my borescope out and do some investigating.
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Your Star said:
Pegging is the act of a woman with a strap on having anal sex with a man.

And no, we all have it, it's your fault if you can't find it ;)
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I have to agree, ive been the first to find many for girls :D

in fact im responsible for many first time squirters!

I do admit though some were stubborn! and from my understanding in the stubborn ones its because you need to completely relax and many women FIGHT it because they dont know what it is, it feels different from a clitoris orgasm and they feel like they are going to pee themselves so they fight it but you have to get them to relax and feel free to share that info with them

Im always amazed by how many women dont know their own bodies?!

Ive had girls that didnt even know there were Inny and Outty orgasms, well thats what I call them, Inny (g-sptot) and Outty (clitoris). :shrug:
 
Thunder said:
I am straight, and when I drink, women look hotter, and I get hornier. I don't start becoming sexually attracted to guys.
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I'm straight, too, and I'm not really sexually attracted to guys at all whether I've been drinking or not. I'm not going to start hitting on guys just because I've had a few drinks-- but on the other hand, once I've had a few drinks, I'm going to be a little more open to it if guys are hitting on me. Not really a big deal as long as they know it's not going anywhere-- I'd hate to think I'd been leading someone on.

CriticalThought said:
I dunno. I've met some straight guys who love anal sex. The prostate is a very powerful thing. Pegging is not as uncommon as some people would think.
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I don't care who's doing it, if you want someone to do that to you that's ga-a-a-a-ay.
 
Viktyr Korimir said:
Humans are sexual creatures. We ****. By nature, most of us aren't nearly so picky about what we **** as social convention tells us we're supposed to be. Under the right circumstances, most people will voluntarily engage in homosexual acts but very few people-- only confirmed homo- and bisexuals-- will pursue long-term romantic relationships with people of the same gender. So it doesn't really mean anything if you take the cute boy home from the bar and **** him, but if you're holding his hand and calling him pet names in the morning you're gay.



Pitching. If he's catching, he's either very considerate or he's gay.
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I agree that most people are like this, but not all of them.
 
evanescence said:
I agree that most people are like this, but not all of them.
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Probably. I'm not saying anything about sexual morals here, just sexual impulses-- there are really very few people with no sexual impulses.
 
It was said before, but we all have hetero and homosexual tendencies. Some more one than the other. There was a poll when people were asked to mark their sexual identity and preference not as either/or, but on a scale from 1 to 100 -- and guess what? Hardly anybody chose either 1 or 100, on both questions.

Problems begin when one tendency considered "undesired" is too strong to ignore, and the respective person tries to do so anyway. Usually, the collateral damage of such self-hatred is hatred on certain other people.
 
Wake said:
● If you're straight, and have homosexual tendencies when drunk, are you gay?

● Likewise, if you're gay, and have heterosexual tendencies when drunk, are you straight?

● How does this affect the notion of being born gay/straight?

[Saw part of this question on the Steve Wilkos show. The poll applies to the first two questions.]
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I'd love to read Redress' response to this.
 
evanescence said:
How do you figure? i disagree with you here, but I'm curious how you have come to this conclusion.
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In the social work world that I used to be a part of, we used the term "Men who have sex with men" (or MSM) as opposed to gay.

There are frequently people (especially in highly religious minorities) who have sex with people of the same sex but would never identify as gay, because it isn't acceptable within their culture.

Gay (again, in the social work world) is considered an identity, whereas sexual behaviors are just that, sexual behaviors.
 
There are some very strange people at DP.
 
FilmFestGuy said:
In the social work world that I used to be a part of, we used the term "Men who have sex with men" (or MSM) as opposed to gay.

There are frequently people (especially in highly religious minorities) who have sex with people of the same sex but would never identify as gay, because it isn't acceptable within their culture.

Gay (again, in the social work world) is considered an identity, whereas sexual behaviors are just that, sexual behaviors.
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No one has explained to me how a straight man can have sex with other men, especially on a regular basis, without being at least bisexual. Sexual behavior and preferences are not separate.
 
evanescence said:
No one has explained to me how a straight man can have sex with other men, especially on a regular basis, without being at least bisexual. Sexual behavior and preferences are not separate.
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Boarding school.
 
evanescence said:
No one has explained to me how a straight man can have sex with other men, especially on a regular basis, without being at least bisexual. Sexual behavior and preferences are not separate.
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You don't have to be attracted to someone in order to get aroused around them or have sex with them. Fantasies take care of the former and fortitude, desperation or drugs take care of the latter.
 
Viktyr Korimir said:
Boarding school.
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huh?

ThePlayDrive said:
You don't have to be attracted to someone in order to get aroused around them or have sex with them. Fantasies take care of the former and fortitude, desperation or drugs take care of the latter.
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Drugs, I can see. But there's not enough fantasizing in the world to make me lick...well you know. No way.
 
tessaesque said:
I am no more attracted to women when drunk than I am when sober. Then again, I have no "latent, subconscious" attractions. I am well aware of my bi-sexual leanings and fairly open about them. As I am in a committed, long-term relationship, I no more act on those attractions when drunk than I do when sober.

Then again, I can count the number of times I've been drunk in the last 5 years on one hand with fingers left over, so...
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Same here.

In fact: when I'm drunk I'm less likely to be turned on or willing ot have sex - drunk sex is ****ty sex. I don't like it much.

That being said: I have no shame in saying I like other women - just not *that* way :shrug: No amount of liquor would change that.
 
Aunt Spiker said:
Same here.

In fact: when I'm drunk I'm less likely to be turned on or willing ot have sex - drunk sex is ****ty sex. I don't like it much.

That being said: I have no shame in saying I like other women - just not *that* way :shrug: No amount of liquor would change that.
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I've been meaning to ask you: what is your avatar doing? It looks like a guy with long hair chewing on a pillow while stroking his nipples. lol
 
evanescence said:
I've been meaning to ask you: what is your avatar doing? It looks like a guy with long hair chewing on a pillow while stroking his nipples. lol
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LOL - yep . . . Peter Steele mid his Playgirl mag pose - cropped nicely, of course :)
 
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