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Re: Charlie Gard
I will give you an example. I was posting on a forum that was discussing people with terminal illness. A woman was spewing in anger saying that I would want her friend to get no care. Her friend was quadriplegic with intermittent breathing issues due to the level of cervical fracture. He also got intermittent "bedsores" . Who am I to decide what is suffering and what is not for a person who is able to tell us if he has "had it". If he decided no breathing tube...fine...if he decided he wanted a breathing tube fine. She assumed I would not be ok with the care...I see these patients all the time and can clearly tell you most have a perceived decent quality of life.
If they are not terminal, the patient can answer for themselves.
How about non terminal but increased suffering as time goes on, versus terminal, but but by all accounts not suffering and some experimetal treatment is available?
I will give you an example. I was posting on a forum that was discussing people with terminal illness. A woman was spewing in anger saying that I would want her friend to get no care. Her friend was quadriplegic with intermittent breathing issues due to the level of cervical fracture. He also got intermittent "bedsores" . Who am I to decide what is suffering and what is not for a person who is able to tell us if he has "had it". If he decided no breathing tube...fine...if he decided he wanted a breathing tube fine. She assumed I would not be ok with the care...I see these patients all the time and can clearly tell you most have a perceived decent quality of life.
If they are not terminal, the patient can answer for themselves.