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In some cases their actions (away from their spouse) are so obvious it requires no modern technology to tell there is no love there. (You must be really young not to know this.) Even so, an fMRI could tell. The brain pattern would be different.
I won't discuss my personal life with a stranger - or even an acquaintance, for that matter.
Many patients/people have fallen in love with their doctor, nurse, or rescuer. It goes beyond simple gratitude, sometimes.
You made the statement that when it comes to love, "some people are lying and others aren't." That statement seems to contradict a previous statment you made in which you claim that love is an emotional instinct and varies from person to person. So, since you have claimed that love can be measured in degrees, what degree have you arbitrarily designated as that of non-love, and how did you arrive at that determination?
And you are still mistaking extreme gratitude for love. However, it is true that people tend to obsess on the person who has saved their life.
And I'm not asking you to discuss your personal life. I simply asked you what you mean when you tell your spouse that you love them. Is it definable, or is it beyond description?
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